I've never been the first, but I have been the second at least once. I do enjoy being a mentor, but I have never even thought about deflowering a virgin. Actually at this point in my life, it sounds kind of creepy.
I think that sex with a virgin just requires a little patience, making her comfortable, finding out what arouses her and then proceeding at a pace that won't pressure her. Giving her an oral orgasm first would be my preference.
Definitely not a bad thing. I wouldn't mind but having an experienced women is definitely a good thing. I believe sex is a lot funner when you both at least kinda know what you're doing. But I definitely wouldn't turn down a virgin besides you gotta learn some how.
Virginity is a state of being, like being tall or red headed. It however can be changed rapidly, unlike height. To be with a virgin is a responsibility because so many of our patterns of response are set by those first experiences. As the person privileged to take that virginity, it is incumbent to make the experience as pleasurable as possible. My first lover liked for me to perform oral. I was pretty hazy on the fine details of female physiology but was an eager student. Perhaps what happened was in line with the old adage "Any head is good head"- she enjoyed my efforts and to this day oral is one of my very favorite things to do, and I like to take a good long time in my efforts to do it right!
So anyway, bless all ye virgins, every one!
Bad for me. I prefer that the woman be a little jaded.
Would need to fuck one to find out!