I would not respond to that. And after I got through laughing my ass of at that stupid lame message, I'd delete all their contact info and forget they ever existed.
I would feel bad, maybe cry a bit, and move on i think.
For how many times you say you don't care, it sure seems like you do. You put a lot of effort into this message trying to prove to him you're happy.
i am happy. but i want him to feel as bad as he made me feel. wow that sounded really immature... lol!
I hope I wouldn't treat anyone so badly that they had to send me a message like that.
he was rather awful and thats the nice revised version
I have to agree with Curlygirly, it seems like your trying really hard to make him jealous or something and if he was that much of a prick why would you want to be friends with him? Just delete them from all your contact list and move on, focus on the new relationship and not on the past.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
idk why i wanna be friends with him... we were good friends for a long time and he was gonna be the father of my child and he was there when i was almost murdered... i guess its just bc he was there when i needed him...
hes not gonna reply so it doesnt matter. i know you hate that i even talked to him after what he did but i am done now. i wanted to at least try to be friends with him but that aint gunna happen so dont worry
Don't know any of the participants involved but the old line "there are three sides to every story, his, hers and the real one"
I'm not taking sides, not my concern or my business but hearing his version would be interesting.
As most said "just move on".
I think it would be hard for me to pass any judgement on him without knowing more. Which I'm not asking you to share. You said in your reply to him something about you "not being innocent.... our relationship was fucked up and alot of that was him" which means alot/some of it was you.
Like CG said, you put a lot of effort into this message. Sounds like you do care. Or who are you trying to convice that you're doing so well. Him or yourself?
Whatever may have happened between you two, he's going to use this message as proof that he was justified in ending his relationship with you. I'm sure things like psycho, contolling, jealous, manipulative will all be used against you. I'm not saying those are accurate, but he'll use that email to show his friends and lovers as proof that all the things he says about you are true.
If you're happy with your new guy. Go be happy with him. Dwelling on past hurts with a guy that doesn't care is only going to hurt you. Time heals all wounds.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates That's a damn shitty way to break up. That should be done face to face. Forget them.
If an ex sent this to me, I would wonder why she would be texting me in the first place...If we had broken up why on earth would she feel the need to let me know she moved on and was really happy with someone else?
If you were really happy with the new guy, you would be focusing all of your attention on him. Why would you be concerned about your douchebag ex and feel the need to text him?
Ultimately I would delete the message and her contact information and pray that she didn't send another one. If she did I would probably use the excuse of "losing my phone" to change my number.
I would reply with --
Ok.
i wouldnt know how to respond to but i been hurt like that and i wouldnt even think of writing him a email like
I would never reply, after reading it i would delete it and let that be the end of it. She is my EX for reason and i would never want to be friends with her anyway.
All that ranting and raving could have been avoided with a simple, " I'm sorry you lost your phone. Hope you find it, or enjoy your new one. "
Good luck!
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