Your scars wouldn't matter to me in any way. In fact.. show your scars to any bj/gf early on. If they are negatively affected by them, you'll know early on how shallow and superficial they are and can move on.. if you so choose.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates My ex husband had a huge scold scar on the whole of his inside leg, he got burnt by hot water as a child so the scar was pretty huge but that didn't stop me loving him!
Scars do not bother me at all. I have a scar on my knee from a roller skating accident and it dimples in where I bend my knee if I'm stood up. I won't wear summery skirts or dresses unless it goes just over my knee. I don't care what people think of it, I just don't like the way it looks to me!
It's quite noticible as the guy who did the surgery didn't do it very neatly!
There that Bio-oil you can get for scars and if you go to your doctor's you can get special make up to disguise it better. I don't know about you but my knee scar never faded to white, it stayed a pale pink colour so it doesn't blend in with the rest of my skin.
It is not the scar I see which troubles me now. It is that text typing stuff you're laying down which is making my eyes hurt.
just say'n
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
They wouldn't bother me. I like scars. They only will chase away shallow jerks.
Mine will probably seem pathetic compared to yours but i have a small scar a few inches below my boobs, its only about an inch long and cos i had it done when i was a baby you cant really see it unless its pointed out, but ive never had anyone notice or comment on it.
If I was with someone with a scar id be more curious about it than repulsed tbh. I dont think many people would be turned off
Thanks for this post. I was actually talking about my own scares today and why I never take certain pictures. I have to say it's probably more bothersome to me because I knowthey are there and I know the battles that I've overcome. Sometimes the thought of sharing why the scars are there makes me feel more vulnerable than being intimate with someone.
In my mind I know those who matter don't care about the scares and those that do are not worthy of the discussion.
I own a few scars on my epidermis. Many of the women I've dated (and some seriously) owned scars in assorted geographical locations on their bodies.
I don't think I've ever known someone (interesting to me) who wasn't a little dinged up (physically or mentally).
IMO, it's not a show stopper kind of thing.
Relax Max.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Scars are rarely issue in the long run. A lover quickly stops even seeing them.
Just be honest with any new person, let them know.
I have a huge scar running down my chest from open-heart surgery I had when I was 4. It's nowhere near as dark now as it was when I was a kid, but I used to be really self-conscious about it. But the last couple women I've been with actually kinda dug it, said the scar gave me character and they thought it was a little sexy -- not the visual of the scar, but what it represented. Before long, my scar was just another part of me, and it did nothing to hinder my sex life.
I wouldnt want to be with any man that was superficial enough to care about my scars. I have scars from operations and from pregnancy. I look at them as badges of honor.. each one of them is apart of who I am and what has made me who I am today. It should make no difference on what they think of you as a whole.
As yet another member with a scar, it would be hypocritical of me to judge based on scars. Mine is only visible when I remove my shirt, but I wear it with pride. It is a result of my battle with cancer. Over time it has faded, but it's still visible. Every person has some sort of scar, the physical ones aren't nearly as shocking as having to deal with the emotional scars.
While most of us guys are indeed fairly shallow (and I speak from the personal experience of being a shallow guy), we're not THAT shallow. I don't think any man would reject a woman that he was otherwise into, just because she had a surgical scar on her leg.
Except maybe a surgeon, because it would remind him of work....
i know this is ask the guys but i wanna respond to it. To me scars can be beautiful things.
Embrace the way you look! If a man or woman is superficial enough to make you feel bad about a scar then that is not the person for you. I believe that you should be out there wearing a bikini and shorts and showing to the world that its what's inside that counts. Also I find scars to be kind of sexxy! I have my fair share of them and find them to be part of who and what I am.
I like scars on such places, they tell a story about pain and sacrifice in one's life. I'd rather have a girl with some marks than a brainless plastic skinned girl.
nope scars would not affect how I felt about someone. If someone was affected by the scar then they are not worth knowing
Think of them as a great filter to weed out the really shallow people. I've had a lover with serious leg scar, never paid it any mind. If that is off-putting to someone, you're better off w/o them!
