For anybody worth your interest, that should just not be a problem. I'm speaking as a man on this rare, rare occasion, and I can say definitively that any man who is actively bothered by it or can't see your beauty beyond that, was never going to be able to see your beauty, and that makes him kind of a jerk. That's what I think, anyway.
Okay, so here is my ultimate confession for such a place like this...I too have scars, significant ones. One is a result of a c-section giving birth to my son who was 10lb and another a result of a breast reduction I had done when I was 20 (yes, I did indeed have a reduction so you can imagine how big they were :P) combined with a breast cancer scare. I used to be pretty self conscious about them and still am a bit when first embarking on a journey with a new partner but I will agree with so many of the posts on here - if the man is worth his weight in gold, he will NOT CARE about the scars or any other physical flaw you have! If he does, kick him to the curb. He isn't worth shit. Having scars or any kind of flaw, is actually a great way to weed out the great guys from the sea of superficial jerks that are out there. As you can see from the many lovely posts from men on Lush, there are some great gems out there who wouldn't give a damn. Love you all!! xx
Scars tell a story of who we really are and what we've been through, whether internal or external... we all have them. If a guy turns his back on you because of something physical, he's not worth a second look and you'd be better off without him. There are pleanty of guys out there who are looking for a woman they can connect with both spiritually and mentally, and who considers a woman beautiful who has a genuine smile and is comfortable with who they are as a person. Be yourself and enjoy life, the rest will take care of itself. My two cents anyway.
I've got some surgical scars and honestly, all they ever led to was some interesting conversation in bed. Scars don't make a women less beautiful, they are rather like tattoo's. They just enhance that wich made her attractive to begin with
No, Sweetie.....
(What a silly if understandable question......)
But the answer is no, Love.....
We all have scars, the ones you can see are the easiest to deal with...
xx Steph
(Stop worrying, Beauty...)
i understand it... but if it bothers you, you might make it an issue.... wear a bikini... wear shorts... your body is lovely.... YOU are lovely and worth his time and attention...
i say this to you because i have to say it to myself every day...
I have scars, too, so I would be a real shithead if I let a woman's scars bother me. I might even trace them with my finger or lick them to show how much I accepted them. I love it when mine are.
I used to hang with a woman who had a huge set of open heart surgery scars from a wide open chest operation. A long vertical down her centerline from neck to diaphragm and a long horizontal under her breasts. She used to wear a bikini top without letting it bother her. I heard her tell her surgery story several times.
It's a part of you and the one who loves you will love all of you unconditionally. I had a breast reduction five years ago and felt insecure about the visible scars. It took sometime before I realized the scars did not matter, they did not change who I was or take away from the woman I am. Going from a DD on a 5'2 frame to a C, I started to love my new breasts and became comfortable enough to even post pictures when I joined Lush, a big change from five years ago!
Yes it is the truth that if a guy loves you he will accept you for everything that you have and everything that you are. Scars are not a turn off in the least bit, unless of course the guy you're with is a total ass. Everyone has scars. Some are physical, some are emotional, but everyone has scars they are conscious about.
Scars make a person who they are. They all have a story some you like to share, others you would rather keep quiet about. I personally wouldnt be put off by a scar.
No they are not a turn off
It wouldn't bother me
I have some scars too from when I was young and it took me a long while to start wearing shorts again. Then i finally got tired of walking around in long pants when it's hot outside and said FUCK YOU WORLD DEAL WITH IT!
turned out no one cared and i spent years sweating my ass off when i could have been wearing shorts. occasionally someone would ask how i got it but it was just simple conversation.
I think it might be therapeutic for you to post pix of these scars so we can show you how little it matters.
nothing naughty just the scars
Well first of all i used to have the same fears as you did. I have a not just longer but deep wide gash scar on my left leg. Its prominent too and also why i have 6 titanium pins in my leg. I got it when i was 9 and worried about what others would think for many years. Since then ive accumulated more including several from lung surgery which again show up easily. Ive learned that real friends wont care or if they do they might actually like them, someone who loves you wont love you any less for them and like its been said before they are a part of you and they kind of tell a little story about different points in your life. So to make my point and pardon my language, but fuck anyone who doesnt like them because they arent worth your time.
like the saying says ...scars are like tattoos with better stories . It superficial if him or her cant get past the scars ,if its love it wont matter .
I had a girl with a huge zipper like scar down her back .She was very conscious about it . I rarely noticed it ,i was to busy enjoying her whole body lol....God i miss her so much .
Why would a scar in that place be a turn off ? I mean, when you really get involved with a person what matters is them not their bodies. My ex had both our boys with cesarean procedure and had an upside down T in the middle of her venus mound, and as far as I can remember I didn't even care. I did love her in those days.
Most people with scars think they are ugly, but in my mind they are part of who you are and I love you, so I love your scar, it is as beautiful as you are.