slowly undress and strip for her, then begin to slowly rub my cock and tease her with it
I worked with this gorgeous lady yrs ago. Actually I gas her boss. After a sales meeting and we were alone. I leaned over her desk and said"I could kiss you long and very hard right now". She went home and called me and ask me out for drinks. Stopped on the way home on a deserted street and fucked our brains out. This past march we celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary. True story
lick her neck, ears, and hip bone.
Find the odd zone. Met a girl who was aroused by having a moderate amount of pressure applied in between the big to and the next one down, but only on the left foot. Why she felt the need to tell a total stranger (me) this, I'll never know.
And I've only begun fucking with you people.
At the end of the day, it's all math.
If a guy thought he could turn me on by touching me WITHOUT first stimulating my mind, he'd be going home minus his nuts.
If I could bump and grind for my woman I'd dance for her then start to kiss her lips, neck, down the arms, missing all the PLAYGROUND areas.
Her neck, ear lobes, hair, rubbing my thumb up her spine, caressing her arms.
I like to use the tracing her body but staying a inch away. Where she can feel the area im enjoying thru her eyes.
Lots of very light strokes with fingertips to exposed skin and generous amount of flirting. Kissing the nap of our neck, or even a very long massage without touching the off-limits areas.
I have a lady friend who lives at least a thousand miles away from me. We cam every night and she has multiple orgasms each night. But I can't tell you how I do it. I don't give secrets away.
Its about understanding her mind, her wants and needs, what she craves.
If you are really lucky you can help shape what she craves at that moment, taking her further down the path than she every thought she could go. This can only be done when you have mutual trust, some guys might try and tell her by shouting, or telling her she is a bad partner, but in all honesty I enjoy being there to support her, to help her realise what she wants, even if it was outside where she ever thought she would be.
As for how would I make her orgasm if I coudn't touch her, it would have to be her neck to start, slowly stroking fingertips down from her hairline, to her shoulderblades, followed by soft gentle kissing, slowly changing, letting her feel my urgency through my touch. Fingers moving down to her ribs, gripping her, moving her, posing her, letting her feel the control slipping away from me, and her knowing that its because of her being there it is happening, that if I was alone if would be nothing like this.
But then my mind wanders, and this isnt going to turn into a full story.
Does she have a switch? Look for the switch.
Like I did over 40 years ago to my wife. We worked together. I was her boss,after the sales meeting I leaned over her desk,and said "I could kiss u now long and hard". We went out that nite,and,well that was the beginning.
Like I did over 40 years ago to my wife. We worked together. I was her boss,after the sales meeting I leaned over her desk,and said "I could kiss u now long and hard". We went out that nite,and,well that was the beginning.
Kiss her passionately I got a girl to orgasm by just kissing her
I would get close kiss her all over her neck and suck on it a bite and bring our bodies close and whisper into her ear all the dirty kinky things I would do to her
I wouldn't even start by doing anything physical in any way...
I'd start with her mind, setting up for the physical...
I'd continue with the situation, creating the ambiance and setting the tone for things to come...
Once you have her in the mood and on the same page, it's time for the physical...
You all know the stories about the young bull and the old bull...well, start off by walking, you will get to running soon enough...
By looking into her eyes, talking softly and clearly into her ear, then petting her cheek while I slip my tongue inside her mouth. Next, I pull her hair, yanking her head back then I begin to nibble on her neck. Trust me, by now she is dripping and ready for a good hard come...
From my experience, I've turned on the woman in my life simply by talking to her, listening to what she says, and responding with detailed, graphic, erotic descriptions of what I'm going to do when I get her into the bedroom. If you're honest with yourself, know what it is you will do with her, you can tell her the whole truth. Trust me; she'll be wet. And, if you tell her this in a letter, she'll thank you in ways you can only dream about using the letter as a guide.
Massage her neck.
Gently tease the hair at the back of her neck.
Get her to hold her cups, undo her bra and run your thumbnail up and down her spine.
hand her your credit card....sorry, was this for guys only? as if they have ALL the answers...
Here Shannon, my black card. Just know that every penny has a price.?
Someone has to be the Villain
In no particular order (and by no means a complete list):
Strategically blown air along neck, nave, legs. Works well along areas that have recently been kissed or licked so as to use evaporative cooling to your advantage.
Light kisses from lips, to ears, to neck, up and down spine. Slow, warm, and wet.
Fingertips tickling along ribcage, nave, legs and spine. Can be done simultaneously with others on this list.
Tongue tracing boundaries between touching and non-touching zones. Requires poise, stamina, consistency, and accuracy.
Of course all this is in addition to endless, truthful compliments and flirting.
All this and more can also be enhance with the use of a blindfold ;)
That's my general opinion, anyway