Quote by Rider47
I don't think a number defines that myself. I go more on how a girl acts and carries herself. I think a girl could act as a slut with only a few partners as easy as with several.
I'm in total agreement with this guy
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How many sexual partners does it make a girl a slut..?
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I've never understood why having had a high number of sexual partners seems to brand a girl a slut while the same scenario seems to brand a guy as being one of the lads. Surely the number of partners you choose to have, or not have, is a personal choice which shouldn't come with any labels imposed by others.
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The word means what "YOU" want it to mean applied to you. I do not use it because it has to negative a meaning. It only degrades people in common usage. Words are our gods so be careful with them. Understand the meaning behind what's said.
No one was ever punished for saying "FUCK" in our house but calling someone "STUPID" got you chastised a lot.
"Slut" is just another way for our male-centric society to control the "Lesser" beings.
Do you see yourself as that? Less than the men? Less capable of deciding what your life should be? Who you can know and how you know them?
You get to decide what and who you are. NO ONE ELSE!
Read Temple Grandin, "Different, not less.". You can see her here. http://www.templegrandin.com she is an amazing lady.
No one was ever punished for saying "FUCK" in our house but calling someone "STUPID" got you chastised a lot.
"Slut" is just another way for our male-centric society to control the "Lesser" beings.
Do you see yourself as that? Less than the men? Less capable of deciding what your life should be? Who you can know and how you know them?
You get to decide what and who you are. NO ONE ELSE!
Read Temple Grandin, "Different, not less.". You can see her here. http://www.templegrandin.com she is an amazing lady.
I am always a gentleman.
Clumeleon
Five, because in Roman numerals that's V, and that looks like open legs.
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I've heard even pretty liberal and promiscuous guys use the term 'slut' when the girl has casually fucked an alarming number of his own friends and acquaintances. They tend to be less judgmental as far as relationships go if you're not getting passed around his own social group and most of your 'numbers' happened on vacation, spring break, college and/or among people he doesn't associate with. I think you're allowed 1-2 of his closer friends and up to three of his casual acquaintances/coworkers. After that, things can get a little more dicey, assuming he has a 'moderate/average' sexual outlook and cares about such things in the first place. Plenty of guys don't, and slut is just a fun 'dirty talk' word. 
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I've heard even pretty liberal and promiscuous guys use the term 'slut' when the girl has casually fucked an alarming number of his own friends and acquaintances. They tend to be less judgmental as far as relationships go if you're not getting passed around his own social group and most of your 'numbers' happened on vacation, spring break, college and/or among people he doesn't associate with. I think you're allowed 1-2 of his closer friends and up to three of his casual acquaintances/coworkers. After that, things can get a little more dicey, assuming he has a 'moderate/average' sexual outlook and cares about such things in the first place. Plenty of guys don't, and slut is just a fun 'dirty talk' word.
It's annoying and immature! The girl's a slut but their mate's a stud.
My view is that every relationship starts with a clean slate. I want to look forward not backwards.
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I've heard even pretty liberal and promiscuous guys use the term 'slut' when the girl has casually fucked an alarming number of his own friends and acquaintances. They tend to be less judgmental as far as relationships go if you're not getting passed around his own social group and most of your 'numbers' happened on vacation, spring break, college and/or among people he doesn't associate with. I think you're allowed 1-2 of his closer friends and up to three of his casual acquaintances/coworkers. After that, things can get a little more dicey, assuming he has a 'moderate/average' sexual outlook and cares about such things in the first place. Plenty of guys don't, and slut is just a fun 'dirty talk' word.
Quote by Marcus72
There's no such thing as a slut. If people like sex and want to have one night stands, be they male or female, then that's their prerogative. Name calling is just schoolyard stuff. I went through a phase of sleeping with lots of women and I know women who have slept with lots of men, without looking for love at the time. Sometimes it's just nice to get off with someone and live a little.
What he said.
In vanilla life this word is extremely offensive. It is degrading and redolent of a time when women were mere property.
However it can also be a badge of honour to both independent women, submissive partners of either sex.
To the original proposition I would simply say an infinite number...it is what is in your mind that makes a woman beautiful and desirable not what has or has not graced her fanny.
Personally I would not recommend anyone to marry a virgin to the exclusion of any other. There is way too much baggage in that proposal for my liking, itself born of experience.
Anyway no one has been allowed to define me or label me in a relationship without my express consent... and it will stay that way.
To Shoot, who is a really great girl by the way, and not one to be put down either, "A nice stir of the pot, like it".
However it can also be a badge of honour to both independent women, submissive partners of either sex.
To the original proposition I would simply say an infinite number...it is what is in your mind that makes a woman beautiful and desirable not what has or has not graced her fanny.
Personally I would not recommend anyone to marry a virgin to the exclusion of any other. There is way too much baggage in that proposal for my liking, itself born of experience.
Anyway no one has been allowed to define me or label me in a relationship without my express consent... and it will stay that way.
To Shoot, who is a really great girl by the way, and not one to be put down either, "A nice stir of the pot, like it".
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
In my mind there are two nearly opposite meanings for the word "slut."
The good one is when it's used in dirty playfulness, as a turn on to both of you (though I've learned--the hard way--to ask whether my partner finds it offensive or not). It's a reaching out.
The bad one is when it's used hatefully. The number of partners is irrelevant. It's no different than the n-word for black people, the f-word for gay people (both words that can have playful uses too, when used in a loving context). It hates women. It hates people. It's a pushing away. And, perhaps because I have daughters, it makes me very angry when used in that context.
The good one is when it's used in dirty playfulness, as a turn on to both of you (though I've learned--the hard way--to ask whether my partner finds it offensive or not). It's a reaching out.
The bad one is when it's used hatefully. The number of partners is irrelevant. It's no different than the n-word for black people, the f-word for gay people (both words that can have playful uses too, when used in a loving context). It hates women. It hates people. It's a pushing away. And, perhaps because I have daughters, it makes me very angry when used in that context.
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When I lost my virginity at 17 it was to someone my age and they had 13 partners. Didn't bother me at all. When I was 19 I dated a gal my age and she'd had 47 and 49 partners (we broke up for a week and she added one). Again, never bothered me. I haven't bothered to ask a woman how many partners she's had in the last couple decades. History is just that; it's history. Who are you today? Play safe until we both get tested and have the talk, demonstrate appropriate respect for each other, then proceed.
I don't think I've met any sluts, but obviously it varies by definition. I'm not a jealous partner. I've dated women dating other guys and it's never bothered me so long as my needs are getting met and there's respect in the relationship.
I don't think I've met any sluts, but obviously it varies by definition. I'm not a jealous partner. I've dated women dating other guys and it's never bothered me so long as my needs are getting met and there's respect in the relationship.
Cryptic Vigilante
Only one, though he's a bit busy these days.
Sluts-to-be will have to wait a short while before I'm done with the tuition of my current sluts.
Sluts-to-be will have to wait a short while before I'm done with the tuition of my current sluts.
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A bitch is someone who won't fuck you.
A slut is someone who will fuck everyone BUT you ;)
A slut is someone who will fuck everyone BUT you ;)
Quote by c50tWell said!
and from me too.My view is, more than 0 for some people, others can tolerate 1000+
I've always thought that people that used these terms are actually afraid of their experience and afraid they won't measure up in the sack.
No woman is a slut or whore - women have enough crap pumped at them on body image, etc, etc... We should be happy that they are confident enough to enjoy sex and want sex without keeping score on how many partners they have had.
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It's not the number... if she's looking at the next guy in line after you've finished, she's a slut.
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The difference between a slut and a whore?? A slut sleeps with everybody, a whore sleeps with everybody but you! Ba bing!!!! Im here all week folks...lol