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emilybelle
Advanced Wordsmith
strong pull up? squeeze the head? play with balls?
Milik_the_Red
Internet Philosopher
If she is stroking me for arousal, then a light grip that feels feathery and loose, preferably kissing me while she plays her hand up and down my shaft. That gets me hard in seconds. I love it if she tells me in some way how much she enjoys touching me like that.

If she really wants to get me off, maybe to to see me come or if there is a reason to avoid sucking it or having actual sex, I prefer her to use a lube with a tight grip and even, rapid strokes all along my shaft. Playing with my balls or flicking my nipples drives me crazy at that point. Biting my nipples really sets me off and I can orgasm very quickly when she does that.

Rhythm is important to me. If she stops often, or is overly jerky in her movements, orgasming is more difficult but that too can be fun if she wants to prolong my agony. Finally, massaging my prostate with her finger will just make me explode. I sometimes wonder if woman really understand just how powerful a sensation that can be.
Simplicity
Just me
Quote by Milik_the_Red
If she is stroking me for arousal, then a light grip that feels feathery and loose, preferably kissing me while she plays her hand up and down my shaft. That gets me hard in seconds. I love it if she tells me in some way how much she enjoys touching me like that.

If she really wants to get me off, maybe to to see me come or if there is a reason to avoid sucking it or having actual sex, I prefer her to use a lube with a tight grip and even, rapid strokes all along my shaft. Playing with my balls or flicking my nipples drives me crazy at that point. Biting my nipples really sets me off and I can orgasm very quickly when she does that.

Rhythm is important to me. If she stops often, or is overly jerky in her movements, orgasming is more difficult but that too can be fun if she wants to prolong my agony. Finally, massaging my prostate with her finger will just make me explode. I sometimes wonder if woman really understand just how powerful a sensation that can be.



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hopp3r
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It's all about the down stroke. The back and forth motion feels nice but one direction certainly has a stronger sensation.

Also, work the tip, to the very tip. Its just teasing to never go past the bottom of the head.

I like variation, too. So rubbing the top as well as the spot on the underside is fun and a little ball play and thigh stroking just adds to the mix.

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Milik_the_Red
Internet Philosopher
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MarkBall2
Active Ink Slinger
Slow long strokes from the head to the base.

Massaging the balls (not grabbing/squeezing), teasing with her fingertips, sets me off right now!

It needs to be wet, not sloppy wet, but definitely not dry.
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Guest
Lurker
Of course anytime, anyway is great. But my favorite is when a lover is in command - when she or he tease me, makes me talk about sexual adventures or fantasies - like it's an interview or something. With porn on. A nice long session. Where I cannot touch her or him and must beg for an orgasm. And I should say foot jobs are a special treat.
mranonymous7
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Quote by emilybelle
strong pull up? squeeze the head? play with balls?
...cup the balls...slow strong strokes...
Sholbin83
English Gentleman
i like a strong fast strokes. and her playing with my balls at the same time
EroticInfinity
Advanced Wordsmith
Variety and enthusiasm are two good starts smile

Short stroking... mixed with some light rubbing of the head... that would also be a good approach.
assloverxxx
Advanced Wordsmith
HEY, I ALWAYS ENJOY IF MY BABY RUBS MY SHAFT WITH ONE HAND AND PUSHES ONE OF HER FINGERS OF THE OTHER HAND INTO MY ANAL HOLE...GRRRRRT.
MorePleasin
Common Sense Iconoclast
Explore. Try different things.

Do not expect to always be successful. Do not be afraid to try different things. Your attempts will be greatly appreciated! He does not have to cum to be having a wonderful time!

Watch your man's reactions, his breathing, and you will eventually learn what is best. Vary the speed, the pressire. Ask him where he is most sensitive. Ask him to demonstrate.

Generally, have a very light touch and ideally some lube if you are actually rubbing over the skin surface. Otherwise, a firm grip and a good stroking action will also feel great.

Learn where his frenulum is. He will be at your mercy if you get it right. If you get tired, get him to get it 90% there, then lightly tease and play...

Practice, practice, practice....

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Guest
Lurker
The Sasha Grey approach that Simmie posted EXCEPT THAT I prefer to have my balls cradled and NO fingers up my butt.
Andrew00
Active Ink Slinger
mmm ass stimulation is reeeaaallly good..
but I also like to be milked (cock downward), anyone else?
Green_Man
Primus Omnium
I like being jacked off by a sweet woman. It's her choice as to how she does it. I'm open to lots of techniques.
carlos522
Active Ink Slinger
Strong pull up playing with my balls.
MrAvg
Active Ink Slinger
I like a variety with long strokes pausing and staying on the head for a bit, always ball play, would love the finger action but mate is not into that.
Basically some of everything with finishing with ball the head firm strokes like milking, lots of lube as well.
My fen and glands are my trigger point and mate knows it and works that with her thumb, done right it is good as a blow job.

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strong pull up? squeeze the head? play with balls?
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ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Ask the IRS. They jerk me off regular.
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Ask the IRS. They jerk me off regular.


But do you like it?


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Guest
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Quote by ChuckEPoo
Ask the IRS. They jerk me off regular.


Some of us STRONGLY suspect that what you're getting from THEM ISN'Ta jerk job! Bring your own lube (good luck with that too) drop 'em and bend over is more likely the case!
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
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Some of us STRONGLY suspect that what you're getting from THEM ISN'Ta jerk job! Bring your own lube (good luck with that too) drop 'em and bend over is more likely the case!


Actually they jerk me around first with an audit then fuck me over without mercy.

Don't you just think it hilarious when they call your taxes contributions?
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Quote by ChuckEPoo


Actually they jerk me around first with an audit then fuck me over without mercy.

Don't you just think it hilarious when they call your taxes contributions?


Yeah, typically cynical. The better part is the entirely Un Constitutional mess has it's own UN Constitutional COURTS and by sending in a tax "return" you not only WAIVE your 5th Amendment rights... you're OBLIGATED TOO provide them with ALL "incriminating evidence". Best of all is the fact that they can summarlly ignore their own "rules" and disregard what they'd told you WERE "deductions"!

At any rate, it's NOT a "jerk job" ANY of us WANTS!
ThePhantom
Active Ink Slinger
I don't really have a prefered method. As long as she kisses my chest and likes and teases my nipples as she strokes.
Stormdog
Gentleman Stranger
I prefer a light, teasing, feathery touch or a gentle grip rather than her trying to choke the life out of it, and definitely plenty of action on the head. Ball-play and touching is great, lube is good but not necessary with the right touch as I'm fairly strongly self-lubing - although lube it up for any prostate play! Which, btw, is also great! Just don't lose a ring in there or anything. That can be problematic. Umm, you know, I've heard...
benawriter
Advanced Wordsmith
Lying on my back, leaning up on my elbows so I can watch her. Slow, long strokes with lots of attention to the head. At the end, just squeezing the head with her fist and then using my cum to stroke the shaft again, slowly for a long time.
Guest
Lurker
Her sitting between my legs. She has full access to balls, and rosebud both of which I like touched, rubbed while being jacked off. Love the dirty talk accompanying a good yank. Things like, "Do you like me Jacking you off?" and "I love to Jack you off" and "Cum for me, I want to see you eat your Cum" really intensify my hard on and cum shots.
Guest
Lurker
Tight grip. Very slow short strokes at the top half of the shaft! Perfect!