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It's always the woman first. I want to know they are enjoying themselves with me, hearing her wake the neighbours up with her screaming is always a winner.
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It always must be ladies first. Pleasure her with romance, seductive words, sensual thoughts, and true expressions of your caring for her. Then cuddling and slow kisses and hand movements will bring her even stronger reactions.
Cover her body, shower her with kisses and slow tender touches. Move slowly and deliberately but not fast. Let your hands and mouth work at a speed matching her reactions.
Do not quit but bring her to multiple orgasms in the slow, sensual ways until she is ready, and you will know, to have you inside her.
Cover her body, shower her with kisses and slow tender touches. Move slowly and deliberately but not fast. Let your hands and mouth work at a speed matching her reactions.
Do not quit but bring her to multiple orgasms in the slow, sensual ways until she is ready, and you will know, to have you inside her.
I think this sort of depends on the circumstances and the relationship. The key is to ensure that both of us are mutually satisfied. I get lots of satisfaction from helping a woman have an orgasm, so I am sure that many women are equally eager to make a man cum. If I always insist that she cum first, some of the time I may actually be taking away some of her pleasure. Despite our enjoyment in reading about the multi-orgasmic men and women of many Lush stories, many of us do not have multiple orgasms, and having an orgasm definitely takes the edge off of our lust, at least for a little while, so sometimes it matters who cums first because of the desire of the partner to make it happen. If I sense that making me cum is going to be a big turn-on for her, I owe it to her to lie back and let her do her thing, and give her feedback that I am enjoying it and appreciate it!
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Hers! I will do anything to get her where she needs to be or wants to feel it doesn't matter if she gets there before me or after I want to do what it takes as long as she is comfortable with it
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Hers multiple times and then me.
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Prefer to give.
Active Ink Slinger
Hers is always a priority!!!
Active Ink Slinger
Her first - 10 or 15 times, then me.
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The best thing to hear in the middle of the night - Lick Me
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Definitely hers first, second and third. Then me.
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Always my partner. She has to be glad she spent the time with me.
Clumeleon
Mine. Then she can go fuck herself.
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Mine. Then she can go fuck herself.
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Ladies first. I try to make my spouse intoxicated with sexual pleasure and multiple orgasms. My experience is inhanced by her passion and intensity.
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I think it's best to do whatever's necessary for her to have an orgasm, hopefully memorable. After all, you want them to keep coming back for more.. or is that cumming back for more? Her first, then yourself... that's the equation.
Clumeleon
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I think it's best to do whatever's necessary for her to have an orgasm, hopefully memorable.
There was something ominous about this line. I'm sure it wasn't intentional.
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Her first, then yourself... that's the equation.
That's not an equation. Maybe a formula (dubious), but certainly not an equation.
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I usually take exceedingly long amounts of time to get off unless I'm being really rough, so her whether I wanted her to go first or not.
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