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Her orgasm or yours?

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I'm a task master to make her orgasm. I know I will.
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Always hers first. Fingering till she writhes in her climax and hearing her orgasm cry is one of the most penis strainingly erotic experiences I know. Then I climb on top,slide into her freshly juiced still tingling vagina and enjoy mine.
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Her's first, and if possible several more for her, then if it all works out as it should do, ours.
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Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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Completely agree. Sex is not really enjoyable unless she is into it too and getting her excited, making her squirm and moan and orgasm, is for me what it is all about.
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Always hers.... depending on the mood I may slide into before she's cum, but she always cums at least once, even if I've gone first ;)
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Yes I have to agree with all those who gave reasons for her's. Love hearing her scream, squeal, squirt, and beg. That is a huge turn on for me!
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Definetly her orgasm 1st. The thrill of seeing her writhe under my hands and tongue, moaning and begging for me not to stop. Once she has orgasmed several times I am satisified to ge my release.
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There is an important book that all men should read,"The woman cums first". I always make love with this rule in mind.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
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Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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Ditto

My orgasm...been there done that you know what I mean. Hers is like unwrapping a present...what’s this one gonna be like?
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The females orgasm is most definetely the priority, giving her all the attention, the enjoyment not only increases her pleasure but my own. Making sure after the time spent together she is truly satisfied.
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Has to be hers, always ladies first unless she says otherwise, I find it a huge turn on to see and hear a woman orgasm.
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Hers.
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I have had a huge orgasm while eating my girls tasty twat. Her locking around my head trying to crack it like a walnut writhing clamped down. It was like she transferred hers to me directly. Too great.
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I like to cum at about the same time. Again and again. And again.
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Always hers love to give multiples before I finish
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Always the lady first....and maybe a few more times as well
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I'd rather him or her cum first; I'm good with cuming last. I draw out my euphoria as long as I can; by slow playing or slow cock pumping.
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Of course it would be hers first and second and third on and on I love making a woman orgasam first!!!!;;
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I'm a Giver...
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Quote by IslandBoyX69
I'm a Giver...


I understand about being a Giver. I have been that with most of my relationships/encounters. What I find though is that, if I have focused so much on her that I forgo my own orgasm, I will end up very disappointed (even if I have not verbalized it to her). Eventually I will find an excuse not to continue/repeat the experience. This has caused me some angst in the past, and my current thought is that I will make sure I get mine as well.
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Hers first. Once she has cum once or twice, she is usually amp'd up and then you can have fun and enjoy yourself.
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The beauty of making love is her willingness and your ability to entice her to explode uncontrollably. Now excite and ignite that in her multiple times, OMG, life is beautiful.
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I am unable to find any excitement/fun in having sex if she isn't pleased before I am. She must orgasm first and preferably many times!
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Her's is always a priority...
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OMG I sooo love it when the guy makes me come first!
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I will say two things... first it is all about her and giving her orgasms... lots of them... but at my control. Taking her... setting her pace, raising and lowering her temperature until I choose to boil her over, or choose to make her work for it.
Second, that sex between two people who care for each other, each wanting to please each other is like a tag team match. Each of the two alternately ebbing and flowing until neither has the strength to move. Leaving only one joined steaming pile of exhausted quivering flesh.
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Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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Great post and ditto here. She always gets the first one to get things started. Thank goodness for a partner with multiple orgasms
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First comes her then mine