The question of 'who cums first' really depends on who's taken the lead, doesn't it?
If I'm in charge, it's a policy of mine to try to ensure that her orgasm comes first. If she's in charge... well, it's still her pleasure, even if it's not necessarily her orgasm.
Happiness
My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
Her first through tenth if I can help her achieve that. My only issue is that her cumming hard makes me lose control too often and go wild.
Hers.
I tend to hold back on mine until she's had a few orgasms, unless she's made it clear that it's all about mine on this occasion.
I prefer to please her more than me.
Personally, her pleasure is what gives me pleasure. I cant usually get off unless she doesnt. Most of the time I have so much fun making her squirt and cum that I go until she cant take anymore then I cum. Sometimes I'lllick her clean if she's into it.
In my experience if you give your woman a good orgasm, she will let you do anything you want after (almost anything). Plus, I am guy its really easy to make me cum, so bring her to orgasm is a priority.
Giving a woman an orgasm is what I love to do. I love it when they let me give them many orgasms.
her's and my wife can attest to that
I was raised to be a gentleman. So, ladies first.
I like to let her have at least one or two before I blow.
For me, it is always a high priority that she achieves orgasm. When she cums, especially if she cums hard, it is a huge ego boost to know that I either caused it or helped in some way. To put it honestly, it makes me feel like a man. Additionally, it is nothing short of pleasurable to watch and listen to her as she shakes, moans, screams, writhes, and breathlessly pants over that summit. I would even go so far as to say that, at times, her orgasm interests me far, far more than my own. Even during those incidents when I am fully clothed and just fingering her under her dress, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that I was enjoying it more than she.
Plus, without sufficient time for recovery, I can only get off once. Meanwhile it is possible for her to get off again and again and again if her arousal is properly achieved and sustained. In this regard, I have little excuse to not make her cum as many times as she can muster before, during, and after my orgasm (especially if we're biding our time during my refractory period).
I also try to keep something in mind, something that while I know it's an idea based off of chauvinistic principals I still believe that the saying has merit. It is that "[I]if she can still manage to walk to the kitchen after, you don't deserve the sandwich[/I]."
I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
Hers. Hers. Hers. Hers.... Mine.
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has to be that she cums first
Hers definitely. Sometimes i dont even care if i get off. Not until she cums at least three times!
when she orgasms it makes me feel good.
Hers, of course! I always bring her to orgasm 2 or 3 times before we ever have intercourse. She's primed and ready by that time and the sex is at it's most intense.
I don't like to come before her. It's a real turn on to hear her shriek or moan and feel her body shake.
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I have always concentrated on my ladies' pleasure first knowing that almost always they will reciprocate. Most women want to feel me cum in them before it's all over but I wait until they ask for it or initiate the act.
I have found that if I am tuned to what they want I almost always get signals indicating what they want next and if not, cunnilingus is almost always the first and best choice plus that's wonderful to me and my favorite.
Of course there are certain times and certain women that a good hard fucking is in order but I try to make sure that's what's wanted first.
There are a LOT of stories on Lush that involve involuntary sex and all kinds of weird behavior but in the real world I think it is best that these things are asked for by the female or at least she should be asked first.
Just one man's opinion.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
Hers!!!!! And please 10, 20, 50 a day! If she can do it. Or I can bring it out in her, of her.
It's all about her and her pleasure to me. Giving lots of attention to her, scratching her all over followed by kisses. Then lots of oral and making her cum and then making her squirt all over the bed.
