Active Ink Slinger
Back in my young days like hs I turned down a couple of chicks .... damn I wish I'd have tryed them out young and dumb ...
ride em harder
Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
Have you ever turned down a blowjob?
Classified
Quote by Buz
What's really shocking is that once you get engaged and then married, it seems like women come out of the woodwork wanting to offer you blow jobs and pussy.
So true, and then if you have children, they are an even bigger magnet!
Quote by dpw
The forbidden fruit syndrome. Some see a wedding ring as a challenge, which I think is a bit crazy.
Similar to the male fantasy of having two women, maybe bi-sexual or lesbian? The idea of challenging a situation/state.
Of all our inventions for mass communication, pictures still speak the most universally understood language.
Walt Disney
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Frank
Similar to the male fantasy of having two women, maybe bi-sexual or lesbian? The idea of challenging a situation/state.
Well...not really apt in my case, lol. Two lesbians and a gay guy might be okay for a game of Trivial Pursuit.
The wedding ring would be a big no no for me, but I confess that fingers are the last place I'm looking. If I spotted one halfway through, I'm not going to stop.
A married guy with young children is totally out of bounds! No matter how stunning he was.
Classified
Quote by dpw
Well...not really apt in my case, lol. Two lesbians and a gay guy might be okay for a game of Trivial Pursuit.
The wedding ring would be a big no no for me, but I confess that fingers are the last place I'm looking. If I spotted one halfway through, I'm not going to stop.
A married guy with young children is totally out of bounds! No matter how stunning he was.
True, I apologise, I forget to verify that referred to my sexual orientation.
When you say, 'but I confess that fingers are the last place I'm looking. If I spotted one halfway through, I'm not going to stop.' surely it would be obvious as you ask him to take the brace position?
Of all our inventions for mass communication, pictures still speak the most universally understood language.
Walt Disney
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Frank
True, I apologise, I forget to verify that referred to my sexual orientation.
When you say, 'but I confess that fingers are the last place I'm looking. If I spotted one halfway through, I'm not going to stop.' surely it would be obvious as you ask him to take the brace position?
Isn't the brace position with your head between your knees? Well my head was there first, just get ready for lift off, lol.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Frank
True, I apologise, I forget to verify that referred to my sexual orientation.
When you say, 'but I confess that fingers are the last place I'm looking. If I spotted one halfway through, I'm not going to stop.' surely it would be obvious as you ask him to take the brace position?
Isn't the brace position with your head between your knees? Well my head was there first, just get ready for lift off, lol.
Active Ink Slinger
YES ... it was a "Wednesday Special for $$...." and in a truckstop parking lot. $@%$^&^ LOT LIZARDS!! gggRRRR!!
And if it had been FREE, I STILL would NOT have gone for one....DAMN @$#%^& WHORES!!
And if it had been FREE, I STILL would NOT have gone for one....DAMN @$#%^& WHORES!!
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, mostly because I can't find someone who can do me right. I give them a chance, yet they never seem to get me off, or even get me moaning. I end up just saying 'fuck it' and just have sex instead. Until I can find a woman who's actually good at blowjobs, I dunno if I can even enjoy one.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Forbiddenwriter
Yes, mostly because I can't find someone who can do me right. I give them a chance, yet they never seem to get me off, or even get me moaning. I end up just saying 'fuck it' and just have sex instead. Until I can find a woman who's actually good at blowjobs, I dunno if I can even enjoy one.
Try a gay guy.
Devil's Advocate
Yeah, a few times. I'd much rather go the growl myself, or just get stuck in. But for the most part, as long as I've got a few minutes...
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes I have, from a girl I was dating who could suck soft serve ice cream completely out of a cone and leave nothing. Sometimes though she would suck my dick until it hurt, so only during sex when I was close to cumming I'd pull out and let her swallow..... damn she loved sucking dick.
Active Ink Slinger
I don't think I've ever turned down one from a woman I was involved with. And I'm not sure I've ever been offered one from a female friend or a drunk chick at a bar or party. And if I were offered one randomly like that, I would have to find her attractive. I'm not one of those "a mouth is a mouth and a hole is a hole" dudes. Sometimes I wish I could be. I might have had more fun over the years.
One way I've earned money over the past year or so has been driving for Uber. For the uninitiated, it's like an app driven cab service where you drive your own car. On 2 occasions, I've had drunk guys flat out offer to blow me. One guy had just had a fight with his GF on the phone and I let him give me a hand job. The other one had been in a fight with his boyfriend at The Abbey (probably the biggest gay bar in Los Angeles), and had stormed out on him. He was very drunk, a little pushy about the whole thing, and not really that attractive. I just wanted to get him out of the car and get on to my next pick up.
One way I've earned money over the past year or so has been driving for Uber. For the uninitiated, it's like an app driven cab service where you drive your own car. On 2 occasions, I've had drunk guys flat out offer to blow me. One guy had just had a fight with his GF on the phone and I let him give me a hand job. The other one had been in a fight with his boyfriend at The Abbey (probably the biggest gay bar in Los Angeles), and had stormed out on him. He was very drunk, a little pushy about the whole thing, and not really that attractive. I just wanted to get him out of the car and get on to my next pick up.
Cryptic Vigilante
Well, I've turned down sex a few times, which probably implied a blowjob in some cases.
If we're talking about already being involved with a girl and refusing a blowjob in favor of something else, yes, that also happened in many different circumstances. Sometimes we can be in my car and the girl wants to suck me, but I prefer not to cum or to stimulate my dick too much just to have enough energy to fuck her properly when we'll get home; simply massaging my crotch or offering a 'partial/teasing blowjob' is preferred in these situations. At other times we were already naked and ready to have sex, and I declined a blowjob because I had something else in mind.
The key words here are 'in favor of something else': I don't refuse blowjobs from girls that I'm involved with because it disgusts me or because it doesn't thrill me, but because I want to conserve my stamina for other things or because I feel like performing something else.
If we're talking about already being involved with a girl and refusing a blowjob in favor of something else, yes, that also happened in many different circumstances. Sometimes we can be in my car and the girl wants to suck me, but I prefer not to cum or to stimulate my dick too much just to have enough energy to fuck her properly when we'll get home; simply massaging my crotch or offering a 'partial/teasing blowjob' is preferred in these situations. At other times we were already naked and ready to have sex, and I declined a blowjob because I had something else in mind.
The key words here are 'in favor of something else': I don't refuse blowjobs from girls that I'm involved with because it disgusts me or because it doesn't thrill me, but because I want to conserve my stamina for other things or because I feel like performing something else.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes. I once knew this couple from church (really!) who invited me to join their open marriage. We did any number of threesomes, and I learned quickly that the man gave MUCH better blowjobs than his wife. She scraped her teeth on my dick! And went too fast. So I always suggested vaginal sex when she offered to suck me.
You've been a bad girl! Now take your pajamas off and go to my room!
Cryptic Vigilante
Quote by Metilda
There's a hell of a hot story in there somewhere . . . hot soldier teaches naive, hot chick how to suck good cock.
She'd actually have quite a lot of cocks to practice with...
"All prepared and ready to serve! Hooah!"
Active Ink Slinger
Have never had to do this
Advanced Wordsmith
NO
Active Ink Slinger
Yes
Active Ink Slinger
Nope, and I wish I had had more opportunities to "not" turn down offers....even today 
A determined person with perseverance can overcome many obstacles. They can, many times, perform better than those who are more intelligent, stronger and with better finances by determination and perseverance
Senior Analyst
Sure. Someone offered it as a way to get back involved after a breakup. I didn't want to have her anywhere near me, so no.
Active Ink Slinger
I never turn down a blow job but when a woman has no top or bottom teeth in is the best blow job you can get
Site administrator
Just get a life will ya!! .. omg ..
Active Ink Slinger
Once or twice but only in a 'not right now' sort of way.
I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by LadyAnnWest
Yes...
So I'm not the only one who thinks so....
Best Friend Exchange Club: Here
Artist stories start at Artist -- Chapter 1
Starbucks Reverie at Starbucks Reverie
Teacher at Teacher
And please read my competition entry:There's Always Time. A sweet love story set in a time traveling universe.
Artist stories start at Artist -- Chapter 1
Starbucks Reverie at Starbucks Reverie
Teacher at Teacher
And please read my competition entry:There's Always Time. A sweet love story set in a time traveling universe.