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yes i have, and it has been a long time since i have been lucky, hopefully that will change soon
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Have you ever been turned down so many times by your wife that you just give up
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its a way of life. I love her to bits and she's very attractive and young but has little or no libido..................
I have given up but take every opportunity I can........
I have given up but take every opportunity I can........
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She isn't an animal dear. This is why she can say no and a horse can't!!
Maybe not, but the horse can say neigh!
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Yes. Although I love my wife dearly, she lost her capacity for physical affection with me. In fact, my wife lost her libido entirely about three years ago and, admittedly, has no desire to try and get it back. It has been several years. It is a primary reason we are separated for the past two years. Fortunately the kids are grown so that the impact on the family is not as great as it would have been when they were younger. While we are still good friends, there is no sensual love between us. It is sad but true.
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Well I am married so doesn't that go without saying?
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Maybe not, but the horse can say neigh!
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This is a common situation. If it is a real deal breaker for you, discuss it with your wife. If you can't find a resolution, then separate. But don't cheat on her, unless this is something you have previously openly agreed (and it doesn't sound like you have). Betrayal within a marriage is cruel - that's why we have divorce, so decent people can escape an intolerable situation without becoming cruel.
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yes i have, and it has been a long time since i have been lucky, hopefully that will change soon
well, it didnt change, and i dont think it ever will
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Turned down yes, too many times - YES. Gone someplace else? Well if Lush counts then yes. If looking at porn sites counts then yes. But have not physically gone someplace else.....YET
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Yes. After last child born my wife said sex was painful for her and didn't want to have sex any more. So, for 30+ years nada! However, there have been other opportunities elsewhere occasionally in the past. Later years E.D.has became an issue at times occasionally. but main issue is no desire on her part so no sex with her.
A determined person with perseverance can overcome many obstacles. They can, many times, perform better than those who are more intelligent, stronger and with better finances by determination and perseverance
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Turned down, yes
give up, yes
go somewhere else, still looking.
give up, yes
go somewhere else, still looking.
SHEEP!
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LOL I CAN relate, which is WHY after she divorced number three and asked about she and I giving things another try, I just said "Thanks but...NO THANKS!" And, in the words of Roy Clarke, "I just Thank God and Greyhound She's Gone!"
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A lot of research has been done on this, and the fact is that there are many women who simply have a low interest in sex.
It may have very little to do with their husband's desirability. I have often wondered why, as people, we talk about pre-martial sex "to see if the shoe fits" and not follow that up with, "Great! But how often do you wear shoes?" I've learned the hard way that it is a fact that many couples, more than we can imagine I am guessing, have what I'll coin here as "libido incompatibility."
It may have very little to do with their husband's desirability. I have often wondered why, as people, we talk about pre-martial sex "to see if the shoe fits" and not follow that up with, "Great! But how often do you wear shoes?" I've learned the hard way that it is a fact that many couples, more than we can imagine I am guessing, have what I'll coin here as "libido incompatibility."
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I must be lucky, she never turns down a good seeing to.
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I know this is a guy's topic but FYI it can also happen to wives being rejected by husbands. Hard to believe I know but it happens.
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She did this so much after we had been so sexual for like 12 years. I fucked some of the women at work during this stretch, and really picked up my jerking.
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I have a good relationship with my woman and she’s very understanding. If I’m in the mood and she isn’t, she’s quite happy for me to masturbate while she tickles my balls and inner thighs and I run my spare hand over her naked body.
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Yes that is why i come here to cum on my own!!
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I have been married for many years and yes I no longer suggest anything involving sex with her but it's not the only reason to end an otherwise comfortable marriage. Do I miss not being so close with her, no question about it yes. But if your only requirement for a successful marriage is your sex life, your missing so much more. Have I found comfort with others I will not say here but be careful if you take that course for it can be even more painful.
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In the last couple years, I've personally known about a dozen couples that separated and divorced in their mid-40's to 50'ish age range. Didn't use to think about it much, but now beginning to understand how things can go that way at that stage of life. Of course there's lots of reasons and each relationship is different, but one contributing factor is likely to be sex has grown cold and become infrequent. That's gotta lead to frustration and likely one party beginning to look in other places.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
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I have been married for many years and yes I no longer suggest anything involving sex with her but it's not the only reason to end an otherwise comfortable marriage. Do I miss not being so close with her, no question about it yes. But if your only requirement for a successful marriage is your sex life, your missing so much more. Have I found comfort with others I will not say here but be careful if you take that course for it can be even more painful.
I agree. My sex-life with my wife hasn't been incredible in the last several years, but we focus on other parts of our relationship which are incredibly fulfilling, and I have to say that I'm happy. I love her very much, and would not wish to give her up or hurt her through a meaningless fling that couldn't possibly compare to the emotional intimacy I feel with my wife. Instead, I've found ways to satisfy myself and explore my sexuality on my own (including writing stories for this site). In the meantime, I allow her to work on her issues with compassion and patience, and without judgment.
Don't believe everything that you read.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
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I have been married for many years and yes I no longer suggest anything involving sex with her but it's not the only reason to end an otherwise comfortable marriage. Do I miss not being so close with her, no question about it yes. But if your only requirement for a successful marriage is your sex life, your missing so much more. Have I found comfort with others I will not say here but be careful if you take that course for it can be even more painful.
I agree. My sex-life with my wife hasn't been incredible in the last several years, but we focus on other parts of our relationship which are incredibly fulfilling, and I have to say that I'm happy. I love her very much, and would not wish to give her up or hurt her through a meaningless fling that couldn't possibly compare to the emotional intimacy I feel with my wife. Instead, I've found ways to satisfy myself and explore my sexuality on my own (including writing stories for this site). In the meantime, I allow her to work on her issues with compassion and patience, and without judgment.
Don't believe everything that you read.
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Yep I gave up & got an awesome blowjob from a guy friend who swallowed every drop of my cum