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So, simple question really: do you guys get hard and/or stroke your cock when just chatting with a girl on Lush? What does it take to get you to want to do that? Some guys tell me they get turned on by a simple 'hello, how r u?' and then just the chit-chat that follows. Is this true for you?
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I've only gotten hard when chatting (and it wasn't on here, I don't usually chat on here) if things turned to sexy fantasies. Just casual "chat" doesn't do it but when it turns into chat-sex, sure. I've even stroked off to sharing fantasies via chat.
BillyAnchor
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It can happen but more semi hard than anything that notable.
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Quote by georgiagirl23
So, simple question really: do you guys get hard and/or stroke your cock when just chatting with a girl on Lush? What does it take to get you to want to do that? Some guys tell me they get turned on by a simple 'hello, how r u?' and then just the chit-chat that follows. Is this true for you?


i've wondered the same thing <warning...spoiler alert> i think i'm able to be a multitasker, but really, in my wildest imagination i have yet to figure out how to both finger myself and play with my titties...giggle ..and type at the same time.

just saying
latecomer91364
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Eww...

Unless you are both in on it and encouraging each other, it's just plain creepy to masturbate to someone who thinks you're just chatting.
KenLukin
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Hiya; Katie here.

I like to chat on-line once in a while and I'm happy to let whoever I'm chatting with know if I'm playing with myself or using a toy.

Some chats get pretty fun and intense and end up in excellent orgasms for me.

The other person often says they orgasmed too, and I hope they did.

I love to touch myself with one hand, type with the other, and fantasize about utilizing my oral skills on the person I'm chatting with. biggrin
SammiTS
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I happens often if the chat is sexual. If it's just a chat about life things then I don't. But yeah, if it is sexual than I get hard and I always tell the other person that I am.
latecomer91364
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You know you're on an adult sex site, right?


Absolutely, but I still have my own standards of creepiness (just for myself). Plus, I don't chat anyway, but my emails are as pornographic as my stories. I know this is naive, as this is one of my first forays into social media (aside from hookup sites), but do most people talk dirty in chat?

I know, the answer is probably 'Duh!'.

PS: I may or may not be masturbating right now, looking at your picture - the third one in your gallery: the book just above the candle flame is particularly arousing.
stockingluvr
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Quote by latecomer91364


Absolutely, but I still have my own standards of creepiness (just for myself). Plus, I don't chat anyway, but my emails are as pornographic as my stories. I know this is naive, as this is one of my first forays into social media (aside from hookup sites), but do most people talk dirty in chat?

I know, the answer is probably 'Duh!'.

PS: I may or may not be masturbating right now, looking at your picture - the third one in your gallery: the book just above the candle flame is particularly arousing.


Duh!
latecomer91364
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Duh!


Your timing is impeccable, as we are chatting dirty while I'm writing this, you little foul-mouthed slut! You get me in so much trouble...

XOXOX

Faye
trinket
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Quote by latecomer91364


Absolutely, but I still have my own standards of creepiness (just for myself). Plus, I don't chat anyway, but my emails are as pornographic as my stories. I know this is naive, as this is one of my first forays into social media (aside from hookup sites), but do most people talk dirty in chat?

I know, the answer is probably 'Duh!'.

PS: I may or may not be masturbating right now, looking at your picture - the third one in your gallery: the book just above the candle flame is particularly arousing.


Duh! The candlestick in that picture does have s certain... shape and length to it now you mention it. I suppose we all have our own level of creepy standard. Now sop looking at that picture and close my profile page if you don't mind!
latecomer91364
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Quote by trinket


Duh! The candlestick in that picture does have s certain... shape and length to it now you mention it. I suppose we all have our own level of creepy standard. Now sop looking at that picture and close my profile page if you don't mind!


I already did. I found a stack of magazines next to a Zippo lighter somewhere else.
am1992
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If the conversation is generic and the basic "hey, whats up", "where ya from", etc, then no. If the context gets a little more specific and sexual in nature then I'll like start to get an erection. I'll only get to stroking if its a full blown RP/cyber conversation.
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Guilty as charged.
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Guilty as charged.
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Always naked when chatting so usually semi-hard. Good conversation keeps both hands on the keyboard...and I'm ok with that!
centillini
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depends on mood, but generally YES. The reason why for me is here is a lady who loves chatting about sex as much as I do. Then there is the mystic of it all. Do I prefer real world contact yes, dirty talk yes, sex chat yep.
hopp3r
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If the conversation is highly sexual or involves the sharing of erotic pictures then there is a great chance that I am hard but it's very unlikely that I'm stroking unless the chatting goes on for a long while. Normal conversations about life and interests though (my personal favorite kind to have, oddly enough for a site like this) will pretty much never see me get hard unless there is something else going on, like I'm chatting in one window but browsing adult pages on Tumblr in another.

At the same time however, any guy will tell you that dicks just get hard sometimes for little to no discernible reason. Could I be chatting with a woman on this site and find myself getting hard? Absolutely. Am I getting hard because I am chatting with her? Doubtful.

I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
wideopenmale
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Hot chat equals need for action.Hell most guys jut need reason to get nut. I normally jack off twice a day if possible and more since joining sit
brsblls
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Quote by georgiagirl23
So, simple question really: do you guys get hard and/or stroke your cock when just chatting with a girl on Lush? What does it take to get you to want to do that? Some guys tell me they get turned on by a simple 'hello, how r u?' and then just the chit-chat that follows. Is this true for you?


Well, let's chat for a bit, and I'll let you know ;)
bigfella4492
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Most of the time i would have to chat with a woman to get to know her before that even became an option lol you dont want to be mid playing around and be surprised....sometimes those surprises are not so good lol
garterbelt
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I happens often if the chat is sexual. If it is sexual than I get hard and I always tell the other person that I am hard and stroking! In fact, going to a chat room now!
getnakedwithme
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If I know the girl than yes a simple hello can be all it takes. I knew a girl once that her perfume got me going. Walking by her office and just a tiny bit of her scent got me so hard.
I just want to be someone's everything....is that a problem?
SSean08
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Just from a simple "hello"? nah. I need more. I like to be engaged in a good conversation and not be worried if I am hard, or if I'm stroking too fast.

I do get hard when reading some HOT story.
GabrielSweet
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I look at this as I look at rl, I am really the same person I am everyday so, to me it would depend on the conversation. I don't plan or expect every conversation to by sexual. Just like I wouldn't if I was somewhere and started to chat with someone. If the conversation is about sex and not necessarilly playing together then I would have to say how explicit the conversation got. If it is rp or cyber or just really getting into fantasies with someone I have some attraction for then HELL Yes I am hard and slowly stroking.

That said, There have been those friends that could say hello and my mind took over and I would "swell with pride". I do like to think I have a little control over my desires, but .... well hell he sometimes has a mind of his own and decides to introduce himself LOL

Everyday chat - No
talk about sex - maybe
playtime - YES



Quote by Deenuh


i've wondered the same thing <warning...spoiler alert> i think i'm able to be a multitasker, but really, in my wildest imagination i have yet to figure out how to both finger myself and play with my titties...giggle ..and type at the same time.

just saying


I have a good suggestion and it works great for me .... try Dragon NaturallySpeaking Software .... hands free cyber ....... makes it more like phone sex with only one voice ..



georgiagirl ...... I did notice that you didn't tell us about you .... are you "diddling" when you chat? [-o&lt;

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kylie_kained
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Only if the chat starts to a little risque in some way but sometimes it's just nice to chat generally and get to know someone new.
naughty_uk_guy69
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Quote by georgiagirl23
So, simple question really: do you guys get hard and/or stroke your cock when just chatting with a girl on Lush? What does it take to get you to want to do that? Some guys tell me they get turned on by a simple 'hello, how r u?' and then just the chit-chat that follows. Is this true for you?


Yes, I can get hard and throbbing just chatting to several of my girl friends here at Lush, including you Win, and I often get the urge to stoke my cock too as I chat when I am that excited and in need of release. I think suggestive and slighly naughty chat is best as in those instances it's natural to fantasise about you being with the girl you are chatting with and pleasuring her sexually. Suggestive naughty chit chat is like a mind fuck too and I always find that such a turn on too but for me it has to be more that a simple 'hello, how r u?' I love the tease of such naughty chit chats too which can often keep me hard and on the edge of orgasm for the duration of any such naughty sessions. I have several sexy Lush female friends who I enjoy chatting to like this (including yu Win!) and THANK YOU to them for giving me such pleasure like this.
GMOFLEISURE
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Yes, usually if the conversation is sexy in any way. I dont make a big deal about mastrubating during such conversations, just occasionally do.
Dancewithme
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There are a small handful of women here that can turn me on just talking to me and the subject matter gets a little naughty. I think they know who they are.