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Guys not wanting to admit they have been or are bi-curious

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Quote by clum


I would say "bi-curious" implies an explicit desire and willingness to engage in sexual activity.

If just wondering, fantasising without the intention (or even real desire) to ever act on it, made you "bi-curious", I think there would be very few heterosexual men out there.

EDIT: I'm not saying this is me, by the way. I like the term "heteroflexible".

An explicit desire and willingness would mean you are bisexual. You just haven't experienced it yet.

Heteroflexible eh? You bend for the right person? Nice, lol.
Quote by dpw
An explicit desire and willingness would mean you are bisexual. You just haven't experienced it yet.


I disagree. I think the term "bi-curious" has evolved beyond mere curiosity, or maybe it never only meant that. And I think "bisexual" is a stronger label than that which could be applied, for example, to a guy who wants to suck a cock but has no other sexual or romantic feelings towards a man.

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Heteroflexible eh? You bend for the right person? Nice, lol.


I think I once described my sexual orientation to a friend as "wobbly". Straight but for a few... "wobbles".
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That's the guilt. It took me years to shake that off and not be ashamed of being gay. I think that it is easier today for city guys. I don't think that is so much the case in rural areas. Also the country that you live in plays a big part in acceptance.


This is very true. If I hadn't been in West Hollywood at the time, I might have never of had the nerve.
Quote by clum


I think I once described my sexual orientation to a friend as "wobbly". Straight but for a few... "wobbles".

Haha, that makes me gay with quite a few wobbles.
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This is very true. If I hadn't been in West Hollywood at the time, I might have never of had the nerve.

If I'd have been in West Hollywood I'd have no cock left! Mmmm, Venice Beach and Santa Monica Bvd.
I'm guilty. Thanks.
I've known for 16 years I've had the desire but never have found the chance to engage in bisexual activity. Not since I was 16 anyway. It's hard to find that safe place and safe mental place to follow through with the desire.
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I've known for 16 years I've had the desire but never have found the chance to engage in bisexual activity. Not since I was 16 anyway. It's hard to find that safe place and safe mental place to follow through with the desire.

I'm not sure that there is a safe mental place. Even when you think that you're prepared there's always the chance that guilt will kick in.
You also have to be prepared for the after affects of liking it or not liking it.
In my view it is easier to be gay than to be bisexual.
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I'm not sure that there is a safe mental place. Even when you think that you're prepared there's always the chance that guilt will kick in.
You also have to be prepared for the after affects of liking it or not liking it.
In my view it is easier to be gay than to be bisexual.



I agree with that.
Quote by Pat278
I know there are a lot of guys out there that at time or another have thought about what would it be like, weather that is to get a blowjob from a guy or to blow another guy.

So how many out that are willing to admit it.


I freely admit that I love the smell, feel and taste of a cock in my mouth. My first wife was amazed that I would suck her pussy after I'd just cum into it, but I enjoyed that, as well. She was unaware, before then, that I'd ever tasted cum. It became a regular routine, after that, because it was the only way she'd cum.
I used to be a bit of a slut in my younger days (providing they had a heart beat....I would fuck them - whoever they may be male or female).
Been happily married / settled down, but beginning to need to scratch that itch .....(no jokes here please - I'm British, with more than a stiff upper lip) ?
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
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I used to be a bit of a slut in my younger days (providing they had a heart beat....I would fuck them - whoever they may be male or female).
Been happily married / settled down, but beginning to need to scratch that itch .....(no jokes here please - I'm British, with more than a stiff upper lip)
Is that lower lip getting stiff again?
Based on purely anecdotal personal experience, I think the number of (pick a word- bi, curious, flexible, whatever. Your label, your choice) dudes is much higher than generally acknowledged. I'm openly bisexual and openly sex-positive, and I would have a hard time remembering how many times ostensibly straight guys have approached me “on the downlow.”

It happened all the fucking time back when I was more of a twink, physically. I think a more “manly” presence is somewhat intimidating to curious guys, although it could just be that I'm a little older and less sexy to men than I used to be. But even so, it's a running meme for my partner and I.

Me: “Baby, you'll never guess what Joe said last night when he was drunk.”

Her: “Bet I will. 'So, um, Kenny, um... you're into dudes, right?'”

Me: “You must be a damn mind-reader.”

Her: “I wanna watch.”
I'm guilty.
i'm bi curious, the thought of being with a man makes me hard as fuck! not sure how far it would go that depends on the situation. i'd like to just let it happen you know not force anything. I KNOW I WANT TO SUCK COCK! it's just a matter of fnding the right guy.
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i'm bi curious, the thought of being with a man makes me hard as fuck! not sure how far it would go that depends on the situation. i'd like to just let it happen you know not force anything. I KNOW I WANT TO SUCK COCK! it's just a matter of fnding the right guy.

To be honest, the right cock is important too. As someone that's had a little experience in this matter, you don't want to try a cock that bends too much. That type take practice!
I'm not really sure where I fit on the continuum. I've played with, sucked, been sucked, fucked and been fucked. Never kissed, never been in a "relationship" with a guy, but I've had a 19 year once or twice a year hook up with the same guy. Don't like sucking, but in the heat of the moment if I'm horny, I enjoy it. The last opportunity I had, I was grossed out by the idea. I've only had one female partner in almost 30 years of partners that I enjoyed getting a blow job from, so receiving has never been my thing. I love receiving anal, and I can get into giving anal, but it's not a requirement of mine. I'm not necessarily attracted to men, but I enjoy taking either a strap on or a dick up my ass. I don't know if that makes me bi or just an anal fetishist or what. It is what it is.

Oh, and I've always loved sex with women. I love their bodies, I love looking at them, I love seducing them, and on rare occasions, I like dressing like them.
Stands up "Well, hey, I'm Tyrin and I'm bisexual."
I think that upbringing plays a major role in a guys willingness to be open about it, along with where they are now. I'm sure everyone has heard of "experimenting" in college age. But a man that did that, and is married now, is less likely to admit to it.
Quote by Pat278
I know there are a lot of guys out there that at time or another have thought about what would it be like, weather that is to get a blowjob from a guy or to blow another guy.

So how many out that are willing to admit it.

im not afraid I have had guys give me blow jobs and more
I am not bi curious I am actually bi. Wish there more younger guys that like older men
I think there are plenty of younger guys that like older guys. But I guess that is subjective as to the ages. What do you consider to be young and old?
definitely curious I admit it!
Yes I like the taste of cock. I would like to try more with the right guy.
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