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Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?

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I have never paid for sex directly, but every man pays for sex indirectly with either dinners, flowers chocolates or gifts.
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No and never will.
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If you take her out dinner, movie, clubbing and end up having sex then we all have. Also if you put a ring on her finger you are still paying, but that's my opinion.
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Once when I was in college. Everyone makes at least one mistake in college.
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Only if buying supper and or drinks that night counts.
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Between my two marriages, struck up conversation with a lady on BBM,somehow the conversation turned to sex and she tells me that she was thinking of going into the escort business,but she did not nt know how to start. I offered myself on a trial basis at half price, worked for both of us.
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Guys always pay women for sex, even when they think they don't.
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Guys always pay women for sex, even when they think they don't.


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Quote by Shannon3K
Guys always pay women for sex, even when they think they don't.


Truer words were never spoken (or written). Of course, you ladies pay in return.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis


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Um. . .no. Paying for sex is really desperate in my opinion.
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Do lap dances at a strip joint count?
Common Sense Iconoclast
As soon as money seems more important to the woman than sex or friendship, I usually realize it is time to move on. Did I always get away cleanly in those cases? No... At some point, you are in too deep, and have to take losses, rather than fight an expensive battle that only the lawyers win.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
The Linebacker
The old saying is Sex is never free.
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Never in my entire sexually life. Paying for sex just seems kinda dirty to me.
Senior Analyst
Just once. It's how I lost my virginity. $10. It worked out to about $2.50 a minute.
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Nope, not my style...
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While I have nothing against prostitution, it's just not for me.
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The first time was when I ran away from home the second time. I was in Boy's Town in a Mexican border town. I paid twice that night

First was with a very young gal. I think I might have been her first client by the way her older friends were treating her.

The second that night was an older, very overweight, lady. I only had about half the going rate left and she took it to let me spend the night with her.

You know what, the older over-weight gal was a much better sex partner.

And, no, I wasn't a virgin at that time either. I just wanted to see what a boy's town was like. Later, during my seven years in the military, I probably had sex with over a hundred prostitutes when I would be overseas.
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Lots of times. For me it means no commitment.
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Yes many times..
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Someone once wrote that men don't pay women for sex, what they pay for is the freedom to walk away afterwards.
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Someone once wrote that men don't pay women for sex, what they pay for is the freedom to walk away afterwards.



Interesting philosophical take on it and I kind of agree. Part of the reason I see the odd escort is to have an erotic experience that isn't burdened by family traumas or personal history. You have a fun time for an hour or whatever without any of your baggage, then leave it behind so there's no baggage going with you. One of my favorite escorts was a student and fairly intellectual so I was seeing her as much because we had good conversations in bed as because she was hot and sexually skillful (though she was both of those). Conversing with my wife during sex somehow always ends up on family stuff that kills the mood. That escort ended up leaving the business to pursue more conventional career options.
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I have not paid a woman for sex. Not my style.
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Yes, in college a few of went down to vegas for break. I paid a black woman for sex. Times were a little different then and I had never been with a black woman, fantastic!!!!!! Color didnt matter, she was just sweet and great in bed.
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Men pay for sex, in one way or another. The same goes for women. Don't kid yourself!
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Yes i have paid for sex. My first time was with a escort.
I think i have paid for sex with escorts at least 10 times.
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A couple of times. I was stationed in Germany, and had to swing by the REDLight district. Very fun at the time. ;)