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guys do you like to be called daddy by a girl during sex or general or both

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sprhr2
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I'm not calling anyone liar, but many people would deny it, even if they were okay with it. Given what SO many people assume it is associated with. It has NOTHING to do with or being a .

It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.

Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her. Not that I'm against these names, but it's all done in the same fashion. You call your lady those names in a sense of love, caring, needing way. Not because you actually see her as such. The same as her wanting to call you Daddy. It isn't because she thinks you're her father or some form of parent figure, for goodness sake.


Thanks Poppet - I think you're right on. It wasn't role play or anything else, but the first time I heard that... damn. Sent me into overdrive. I don't think I could have found the words myself to say it how you did - that in this case it definitely wasn't implying , but the protective nature of the Daddy Dom and a caring term. Thanks for helping me comment without feeling like I'm the scumbag so many people on here seem to associate with this idea. smile

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I like to be called the General.


That's just awesome, mate. :)
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No thanks. I agree... kinda creepy.


Taking mental note ? lol what about Papa Bear?!
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For me, it has intonations of both and .


Might have to agree with the great man on this one.

As for the General thing
1. I could be thinking; have I achieved a good results in both a tactical and strategic sense. Have I overcommitted my reserve or squandered the opportunity for a surprise attack.

2. Really should we be blurring aspects of Love and war making.

3. If it gets you hot and horny then go for it just like dressups but can't see this doing a lot for me.
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Thanks Poppet - I think you're right on. It wasn't role play or anything else, but the first time I heard that... damn. Sent me into overdrive. I don't think I could have found the words myself to say it how you did - that in this case it definitely wasn't implying , but the protective nature of the Daddy Dom and a caring term. Thanks for helping me comment without feeling like I'm the scumbag so many people on here seem to associate with this idea. smile



I'm pretty shocked that so many people associate it with . I simply don't understand. The term is not that new, surely people must know about it. I've written a story called "How I Meet My Daddy" and it has nothing to do with her father or any other relation. It is a man who she falls in love with, a dominate who takes care of her. Loves her. Not one single thing about it is or .

It surprises me how close minded so people are over the matter. Thinking it only means "daddy" in the sense of ones father.
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I've never had anyone say that to me - and like others have said I think it would creep me out - but who knows? Maybe I'd love it in the heat of the moment. Certainly willing to give it a try. Never say never and all that.
Master_Jonathan
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I don't think I would mind being called daddy under the right conditions. A good Dom or Master takes care of his girl in much the same way as a Daddy takes care of his daughter... it's not that much of a stretch. And I know there are many women on this site who have a latent desire for a father-figure in their lives. It just depends on the dynamic that two people want to play under. I wouldn't want to do the diaper and pacifier thing but I know some do and are happy with it.
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Not sure if I've answered, but I like both.
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During sex sometimes
MrBuffalo
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I've never had it done in real life, but have been called that in fantasy sexchat. It's kinda hot.....just sayin.
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Quote by Poppet
I'm not calling anyone liar, but many people would deny it, even if they were okay with it. Given what SO many people assume it is associated with. It has NOTHING to do with or being a .

It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.


Fair enough. I was not judging those who like it with my remarks. But it still does not appeal to me. I am a father (albeit of a son, not a daughter) and being called "Daddy" just carries too much other baggage for me to find it especially sexually stimulating.

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Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her.


Actually, I doubt I'd do that either. Even if the woman I was with was, technically, a "whore".
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Yeah it's kinda hot in a weird way lol prefer Papi tho
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I HAVE a daddy.. what I need is a man. yes, a dominate man, but someone who will look at me on equal terms out of bed... I didn't become an adult to get another daddy.

In bed all is fair... with minimual restrictions... I'll call him whatever he wants. Out of bed... that is a very different arena.
Magical_felix
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Yeah, but not loud enough for mommy to hear.
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love it during sex
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Yeah, but not loud enough for mommy to hear.




This just made me chuckle. You're so funny.....Hope you're well....xo
miketabcdefg
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Nope. I find it a bit creepy. Even if I'm old enough to be her dad, I'm not, unless there was some accident some time back I'm unaware of in which case, get your fucking clothes back on.
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Nope. I am fully aware, that having or being a daddy-dom has absolutely nothing to do with or . I have nothing against people who enjoy that lifestyle. But.... I have children. The words dad and daddy automatically switch me to parent-mode. Parent-mode excludes sexual behavior for obvious reasons, so calling me daddy automatically switches of my sex-drive.
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BigDaddyRich
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Seems like girl, ladies are fasanated by this, so no, I kind of like it.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.

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To each their own, in my opinion.

Can't say it does anything for me though.
flhtjim
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yes there is one that I love to hear call me Daddy while we have sex...... I just don't hear it enough.
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Really depends on the woman.. how she says it.. her age, the situation...
squirtmaster
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not for me either. its not a turn on more a turn off in my case
Lillyart14
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Called 'Daddy'? Nope, don't like it at all. I don't mind being called 'Sir' however.
xtrathick9
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Big time. Especially if she's a lot younger than me. Makes me extra hard. she uses a little girl voice, I might buy her a car after. She has a skool or cheerleader uni; a convertible.
SereneProdigy
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guys do you like to be called daddy by a girl during sex or general or both


I much prefer 'general', but 'daddy' is good too.
Kenny50
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No, because it sounds to close to an relationship.
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I do enjoy it when the woman I am with has those feeling of Daddy/babygirl or just D/s in general. They can call me Daddy all they wish at home in private. In public it is something I have to control and regulate to my liking.
marriedbeachguy
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NO!!! not knocking anyone but that's just something that i don't get at all!!