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For the older gentlemen: What keeps you so in to sex?
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Hopefully the contributions on this thread answer your question? Sex in older age is all about being confident about what you do. If you are someone who has succumbed to the life is nearly over mentality then nothing will work for you. As I have got older, I have become more confident, stronger and happier. My wife went the other way and we split.
I enjoy sex with women my age, I have had some very adventurous & loving sessions. Honesty really helps and I don't shy away from asking to try something new. I masturbate regularly, I enjoy cyber sex with a friend.
I like Lush because of the range of writing, the contributors and the support that is there. It is a forum for those who enjoy sex in all its varieties.
I enjoy sex with women my age, I have had some very adventurous & loving sessions. Honesty really helps and I don't shy away from asking to try something new. I masturbate regularly, I enjoy cyber sex with a friend.
I like Lush because of the range of writing, the contributors and the support that is there. It is a forum for those who enjoy sex in all its varieties.
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Quote by Georgiagirl25
I've got quite a few male friends on Lush in their fifties and sixties, just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it? What keeps you coming back to Lush so much? Nothing wrong with it, just curious about the allure of sex at an older age. My grandpa is in his late sixties and plays golf all day long in Florida, and does volunteer work the rest of the time. Maybe he does something like Lush, but I'd be surprised. Just curious my older men guy friends, not saying anything's wrong with anything; please don't get all defensive about it. lol ;)
You have heard from older fully functioning men. So now, you will hear from an older non-functioning man. Due to medical reasons I can no longer get an erection. However, I still love beautiful things and nothing is more beautiful than women. Reading erotica does sexually stimulates to the point of raising my hormone levels. I still love eating pussy and i''m a master at it when I can find a willing volunteer. Even though my ability to personally enter a woman's vagina no longer works I do have a lot of toys and tricks I can use to make a partner have a sexual encounter they will never forget and the mental satisfaction I receive is the same as I got when I could perform sex the regular way.
I still love making love, it's the intimacy and connection that keeps me wanting more.
@Georgiagirl25 No offense taken. Simply put, my love of women, and everything about them keeps me titillated and active. IMO, every aspect of life is directly related to your frame of mind. If you believe your old, you will act and live old. That's why I personally prefer the terms seasoned or experienced over old, but that's another topic for discussion. I can honestly say that while I very much enjoyed my sexual adventures in my 20's and 30's, my sex life today is much richer, deeper and much more satisfying than it once was. For me, it's not about getting my rocks off (though that's fun too), but more about the connection, eroticism, experience, and satisfaction to/with and for my partner. Today, I'm all about my partner. Her orgasm is my orgasm. That is what turns me on the most, and keeps me "involved with sex", as you say. Watching a woman reach her climax under my control is about as delicious and cum worthy (for both of us) as anything i can imagine.
In regards to your grandpa, I can assure you that he is more active and virile than you may know. In fact it may even shock you. If I had a grand daughter and she was aware of my and her grandma's sex life, she would be very surprised (maybe even a little turned on at the idea that her grand parents get down in the way they do). Hope this insight from an old, experienced gentleman helps. And...thanks for asking.
In regards to your grandpa, I can assure you that he is more active and virile than you may know. In fact it may even shock you. If I had a grand daughter and she was aware of my and her grandma's sex life, she would be very surprised (maybe even a little turned on at the idea that her grand parents get down in the way they do). Hope this insight from an old, experienced gentleman helps. And...thanks for asking.
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Breathing, lol.
Seriously, I’m 56 and my interest hasn’t waned. In the words of Toby Keith, I ain’t as good as I once was but I’m as good once as I ever was...
Seriously, I’m 56 and my interest hasn’t waned. In the words of Toby Keith, I ain’t as good as I once was but I’m as good once as I ever was...
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I’m 62 and have never lost interest in sex or sexual things (stories, etc.)
Age has dampened opportunities though. Love and sex are the best parts of being alive.
Age has dampened opportunities though. Love and sex are the best parts of being alive.
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86 years old in one months time---and I'm still here (because the libido is still alert)--so in writing it is more a vicarious thrill now. Last real time after my 80th birthday with my dear lady (then 78} on our first ever visit to New York. They do say New York does that to people! So to those earlier members in their fifties--keep your thinking right--you've got much fun ahead of you yet.
NOTHING GOOD IS GOING TO LAST FOREVER---EXCEPT LOVE!
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Quote by Milik_the_Red
Breathing, lol.
Seriously, I’m 56 and my interest hasn’t waned. In the words of Toby Keith, I ain’t as good as I once was but I’m as good once as I ever was...
Ha ha! Love that song!
What keeps me interested is women who are interested. Stay in shape guys! You never know when you are going to put the tool box to use!
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At 54, I have the libido of a twenty-something. Hasn't dropped off at all. Unfortunately, my wife's has. What was equal when we met has become very one-sided.
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I still love the feeling, smells and sensation of sex. finding a partner that enjoys the pleasure of sex. Pleasing them and the release.
My Love for sex does not change bust because my age numbers have gone up. SEX is the Most Excellent feeling your body can create & share with someone. Nothing on earth feels as good as sex. Vaginal sex; Oral sex with man or woman anal sex if you cam get "IN" to it; footjobs; handjobs & for those lucky enough~ sucking your own dick. It's all very healthy & satisfying. I will never stop loving sex & I am a young 63.
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Had a much older cousin that never married but could spot a good looking lady a mile away. Asked him why he kept looking at his age, he told me when you stop looking you die. He lived 3 days short of his 103bday
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How old are you? I'm 66. I wish that pill would work for five hours for me. Cumming a couple times or more would be fun. A four hour hard-on with a couple of women... Heaven...
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the desire to find a willing partner drives me. we have a sexless marriage and because she has no desire , she thinks I should do without
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Being old does not cause you to stop loving tit, vaginas, etc. I'm 72 and have had a quadruple heart bi-pass but I still like to eat and fuck pussy every chace I get. At least every 2 weeks, sooner if she's willing.
Too much is made of a persons age. The real factor is your total fitness. A healthy body & mind is key to how a guy looks at sex as he enters his 50's, 60's & 70's. My sex drive is bigger today than it was 20 years ago as after a divorce and lack of sex I discovered a large part of the overall picture is prostate health. Lack of sex isn't good for your prostate and leads to a lot of problems. I started a regular course of prostate massages and couldn't believe how it changed my life and not needing prescription meds.
No I don't get as hard and as often as I did in early years but still wake up with morning wood most morning. I find that I last a lot longer before cumming which is a plus and the down time between sessions leaves more time for eating pussy my favorite past time. Even if the day comes that I can't get it hard I will never stop eating pussy, so delicious and intoxicating.
No I don't get as hard and as often as I did in early years but still wake up with morning wood most morning. I find that I last a lot longer before cumming which is a plus and the down time between sessions leaves more time for eating pussy my favorite past time. Even if the day comes that I can't get it hard I will never stop eating pussy, so delicious and intoxicating.
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Some aspects of sex get better with age. When I was younger I often came very quickly moments after I’d slid my cock in. Now it takes much longer and it’s harder work pumping my cock in her but it’s well worth the effort! Masturbation is still good though I don’t masturbate so often. My woman has got plumper but I don’t mind that. When she was young and slim she felt boney under me. Now she’s nice and soft under me but her pussy’s still smooth and tight, and her bigger jugs swing deliciously over me when she rides my rod. Tastes have changed too. I’m into mature women now rather than young teens like I used to be, and mature women can be so experienced in sex.
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While I may not be considered old just yet but approaching the border…I find that there are so many fascinating women about that without much effort but with a keen amount of attention and charm you can be overwhelmed with most fascinating company you can imagine. I love the various elements of sexual attraction because they don’t conform to any specific guidelines or for that matter even tastes. As soon as I say I would never, along comes someone that kicks that box right from under you.
I'm 73. My libido isn't what it once was, but I still love sex. I don't get as hard as I used to, so I'm not as big as I used to be. That said, my orgasms are more intense than they've ever been. I make noises I didn't used to. I feel freer than ever - less inhibited. Sex is still awesome.
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Some interesting comments. Anyone wanting to know my age can find out on my profile page. Suffice it to say it qualifies me to respond. My libido has never been stronger; I find I am horny as hell much of the time. Mercifully I have retained my performance capacity. This wasn't always the case. About 15 years ago I experienced erectile disfunction and for a while took the little blue pills. But I also learned that having an erect penis is by no means a lover's only tool, if you'll excuse the pun. My repertoire expanded and lo and behold that was the answer, not only to a virgin's prayer, but also to my 'little difficulty'. No more blue pills and I've not looked back.
I am 71 years old. I mostly gave up sex when my wife died about 5 years ago but I will never give up masturbating. OK, not so frequent nowadays and instead of 4 or five good squirts of cum it is now only a little splash but I will keep going. In fact I intend to be put in my coffin sporting a bloody good hard-on (rigor mortice gone mad)