For the Men in Relationships

Think of your most mind-numbing, toe shattering orgasm, was it with your current partner? If not, do you regret not being with them or are you happy with the outcome?

Yes, but it wasn't during intercourse. I walk into the bedroom and she was texting with someone. It was a guy she knew texting her, "you are so sexy."

As it turns out, she confessed that she flashed this guy on camera and took off all her clothes and he masterbated to her. While she was telling me this, I got so hard, I took it out and masterbated. I came all over the place.

Current partner, over the last few years our sex life has become better than I knew possible. Our relationship came to a hard reconning that involved facing up to a lot of shortcomings and problems in our marriage. It involved a lot of talk about divorce. Currently, we don't consider ourselves married, but partners. We started sleeping in separate rooms and stopped having a physical relationship. During this time both of us were dealing with a deep introspective crisis', and that included sexual feelings.

Without going into too much detail she identifies as 'gray sexual', which means most of the time she feels very cut off from any sexual feelings. She came to the conclusion while confronting abuse over her entire life. During this time we became really good friends like we hadn't in a long time. We talked almost every night and I had stopped pursuing sex altogether. I knew during this time she had started reading a lot of erotica, playing dating games, and studying erotic art. One evening she told me that she never felt like she had a truly safe and satisfying experience. Telling me this may very well be a one-time thing only, she invited me to spend the evening with her under the condition that I do only what she told me. She emphasized that this was for her, and under these conditions, she directed everything I did.

It was slower and had lots of communication. She would ask me questions such as, "What does it taste like when you kiss my neck." "Why about my breasts excite you." I became incredibly aware of her body in a way I had never done before. Foreplay had lasted almost six hours I believe, and when we had sex it lasted until my body physically gave out. I could no longer support myself and was shaking all over.

It was what I think people describe as 'tantric sex', and although we can go months between having sex every time we do it's absolutely earth-shattering. I experience orgasms without intercourse that last an incredibly long time. I feel her's ripple through my body.

As far as regrets I used to feel a lot about potential partners I could have had, the sex I thought I wanted, that sort of thing. Now I regret the time wasted beforehand and the selfish and misogynistic way I used to pursue her. Currently, we are technically having an open relationship but neither has pursued it. I have wondered if I can have that same feeling with another or not, or if it would satisfy another kind of desire. Like the 'fast food' equivalent of sex.

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Current partner, over the last few years our sex life has become better than I knew possible. Our relationship came to a hard reconning that involved facing up to a lot of shortcomings and problems in our marriage. It involved a lot of talk about divorce. Currently, we don't consider ourselves married, but partners. We started sleeping in separate rooms and stopped having a physical relationship. During this time both of us were dealing with a deep introspective crisis', and that included sexual feelings.

Without going into too much detail she identifies as 'gray sexual', which means most of the time she feels very cut off from any sexual feelings. She came to the conclusion while confronting abuse over her entire life. During this time we became really good friends like we hadn't in a long time. We talked almost every night and I had stopped pursuing sex altogether. I knew during this time she had started reading a lot of erotica, playing dating games, and studying erotic art. One evening she told me that she never felt like she had a truly safe and satisfying experience. Telling me this may very well be a one-time thing only, she invited me to spend the evening with her under the condition that I do only what she told me. She emphasized that this was for her, and under these conditions, she directed everything I did.

It was slower and had lots of communication. She would ask me questions such as, "What does it taste like when you kiss my neck." "Why about my breasts excite you." I became incredibly aware of her body in a way I had never done before. Foreplay had lasted almost six hours I believe, and when we had sex it lasted until my body physically gave out. I could no longer support myself and was shaking all over.

It was what I think people describe as 'tantric sex', and although we can go months between having sex every time we do it's absolutely earth-shattering. I experience orgasms without intercourse that last an incredibly long time. I feel her's ripple through my body.

As far as regrets I used to feel a lot about potential partners I could have had, the sex I thought I wanted, that sort of thing. Now I regret the time wasted beforehand and the selfish and misogynistic way I used to pursue her. Currently, we are technically having an open relationship but neither has pursued it. I have wondered if I can have that same feeling with another or not, or if it would satisfy another kind of desire. Like the 'fast food' equivalent of sex.

THIS WAS FUCKING BEAUTIFUL

With my current wife. There are several reasons why I decided to spend the rest of my life with her but shouldnt sex always be one of them? In terms of the actual most earth shattering orgasm I have ever had? There is something that happens to a women when she wants to have sex for the purpose of making a baby. The extra effort, the wanton desire, it made both the sex and the purpose that much more intense, and as a result the orgasms that much more enjoyable. As for the result, well I have my son and that is all the more amazing as a result.

First off, my most physically powerful orgasms have tended to be self-induced. But with a partner, the best ones were definitely with my wife when we were still enjoying an intimate life. I think it is the combination of the physical intimacy and emotional connection that makes sex with a partner you feel connected to more powerful, even if the orgasms aren't physically "earth shaking".

By comparison, my dalliances with professional companions/escorts have led to some fun times and satisfying physical experiences, but definitely lacked the intensity of sex in a real relationship.

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With my current wife. There are several reasons why I decided to spend the rest of my life with her but shouldnt sex always be one of them? In terms of the actual most earth shattering orgasm I have ever had? There is something that happens to a women when she wants to have sex for the purpose of making a baby. The extra effort, the wanton desire, it made both the sex and the purpose that much more intense, and as a result the orgasms that much more enjoyable. As for the result, well I have my son and that is all the more amazing as a result.

This made me tear up, I loved it. I hope your love never stops growing ❤️

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First off, my most physically powerful orgasms have tended to be self-induced. But with a partner, the best ones were definitely with my wife when we were still enjoying an intimate life. I think it is the combination of the physical intimacy and emotional connection that makes sex with a partner you feel connected to more powerful, even if the orgasms aren't physically "earth shaking".

By comparison, my dalliances with professional companions/escorts have led to some fun times and satisfying physical experiences, but definitely lacked the intensity of sex in a real relationship.

Hmm, definitely can understand. Pretty intrigued by your self-sufficiency, I can get some good ones solo but my best ones have definitely been while partnered up

My best one happened at a high school reunion. I saw the lady, Brenda, that was my "first ever" back in the day. She still lived locally but I moved away. We had not seen each other in 20 years. We talked at the reunion and laughed about old times. She introduced me to her husband. My wife at the time had not gone with me so I was alone. During the night Brenda asked me the normal conversation items such as where I was staying, when I was going back, etc. The reunion ended, everyone said good-bye, and I went back to my hotel. In a few minutes I had a knock on the door and there she was. I opened the door, she pushed me back toward the bed, and we fucked like wild animals. I have no idea how many orgasms she had but when I hit mine it seemed to go forever. I felt every pump and every release. It was incredible. BTW that was ten years ago and we have not seen each other since.

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Think of your most mind-numbing, toe shattering orgasm, was it with your current partner? If not, do you regret not being with them or are you happy with the outcome?

Very happy couldn’t have turned out better. The mind numbing treat was when I was single and it was a first date and hot sleep over.