Yes and both women ended up liking anal
I'm not really into convincing people into sex acts they're not comfortable with. Or anal. So no, lol.
I've mentioned this a few times on these forums, but for me anal is mostly an optional and girl-dependent thing which I hardly ever feel like forcing upon my partners. I only indulge into it (and enjoy it) if the girl gives me obvious hints that she'd like her ass fucked. With quite a few girls, I actually wished that they'd never ask for it; don't ask me to be overly specific, it's simply that some asses are substantially more 'fuckable' than others to me.
That said, yes, I do vividly remember a particular instance where I couldn't help but force it a little; it actually happened just a short while before I joined Lush in 2013. I met this splendid secretary (a short blonde) during one of my contracts and we eventually developed a clandestine sexual relationship. 'Clandestine', because we both highly suspected that the other people working at this place would make an enormous shitshow out of it if they ever knew about it (particularly some of my lame coworkers). Mind you, 'clandestine' can be pretty fucking hot and exciting too, haha.
Anyway, the one physical thing that really stood out with this woman was her unbelievably hot ass, which to this day is probably still the hottest ass that I've ever encountered. And damn did she know herself just how so fucking hot her ass was; she in fact never wore skirts at work, and much preferred wearing those tight office pants which reaaally complimented her marvelous little ass. Needless to say, her ass was all the talk among the men working at that place.
We had sex regularly and had a nice complicity, but it just so happened that anal really didn't tickle her fancy. We also engaged in plenty of 'sexual talk', and although anal didn't particularly offend her (and she actually tried it on a few rare occasions), it reportedly just wasn't her thing. Now this might sound extremely primitive and presumptuous, but the insubordinate male in me just wanted to shove my dick deep inside her gorgeous ass so fucking badly. Luckily, she kindly accommodated my primal urges once (and only once) and let me fuck her ass gently before I finally came all over it. To my knowledge, this is the only time that I fucked a girl in the ass while she obtained very little pleasure from it herself.
Naturally, my pride was through the fucking roof whenever my oblivious colleagues kept idolizing her ass after that incident.
I'm not a guy, but as a Bi woman have gotten other Bi women and straight men to try it. First make sure their is plenty lubricant. It's best if that can be her own juices. I would start by just letting one finger slide across her anus. In the beginning of ass training do that just as her orgasm starts. While the other fingers are stimulating the inside her pussy and it is best if her Gspot is getting attention too, and her clit is in my mouth.
Once they realize their orgasm was inhanced by the stimulation of her anus, which usually only takes one or two stronger orgasms, them you can take the next step. Try inserting just a small part of one finger into their anus. This may take some time depending on how often one has sex. It works best if the partner is is in one of those super turned on states.
If that works insert a little more each time until you have the whole finger in. Then start using two fingers, then three, then a small diameter vibrating dildo. NOTE: once you start using toys MAKE SURE IT CANT GO COMPLETELY INSIDE THE ANUS. Then try a cock or full sized dildo. NOTE: If the training progresses an enema should become a part of the training. I do know of some that an enema was used in the very beginning of the training.
My first time was by accident. I was in a very excited state and a very copious amount of my juices were flowing over my ass. I was on my back on the edge of the bed. My legs were over his shoulders and he was fucking me hard and fast. His cock slipped out and when he went to hurriedly get his cock back in my cunt it went into my ass instead. He just continued fucking me hard and fast again.
There was a brief moment of pain, then it turned into pure bliss and orgasmic pleasure with in a couple stocks of his cock. He began cumming and I had several strong waves of orgasms. He did not realize he had gotten his first piece of ass until I told him. That was about 45 years ago.
The only other man I make love to is Steven. The rest I fuck. Steven was the first man Hubbie shared me with, "all the way," about a year after we were married. I was 22 at that time. His cock is 11.1 X 1.75 inches when erect. I can only take around 7 inches in my cunt. I can take all of it in my ass. Yes my ass does close back up.
Hope this helps.
Brandie
No means no.......no mixed signals there.
There have been a couple - and I need some convincing. I still don't like it.
I always try but to be honest I really don't care for it. If she ever said yes, I'd probably just finish before going there.
I've always been a bit squeamish about poking it in there but in my experience, it's always been the women asking for it. I prefer to wear a condom doing that.
I have. I'm an ass man through and through. If were having sex, it's usually because my dick is bouncing off the ground because of her ass. I have had mixed results. I can usually get her to wash it out so I can lick it. I have been able to get a few no into full blown anal sex.
Being a big black guy, for some reason, women tend to already assume that anal is pretty much necessary. They are correct but it's more because I have an honest feeling that if a woman won't do anal for you, chances are she's not as into you as you think. Whenever I hear about men who can't convince their wives or girlfriends of certain sexual things that they want, I pretty much pencil them in for an inevitable divorce, and serious marriage problems.
I remember reading a book by Jonathan Tropper, where the wife of the character did things with a great looking guy, that she wouldn't with her husband. That sums up how I feel about anything a woman won't do for a man. Not getting to have anal sex with a woman, is like playing basketball without shooting from the 3 point line. You don't have to do it all the time, the more ways to score, the better. Sex is better with variety.
And don't even get me started on guys who don't get blowjobs from their wives. Geeeeesh. I don't even know how that is possible.
I was convinced to try it once, with lube and patience. While not something I want all the time, I don't it once in awhile