Emotional attachment during sex

I'm demisexual so, without really secure emotional attachment and a while for any feelings to develop after having that emotional attachment? Without those two things, I'm just not interested in having sex.

Wow! That was a complicated answer. I want to at least enjoy someone's company before and during sex.

Sex with someone I care about is always better .

Quote by gbakere

I understand what you're saying, but my deepest desire has always been to be in a full-on relationship where fear is non-existent. I don't want to be afraid of exposing myself on any level. I don't want to be afraid of being judged or have anything about me to be unacceptable, and I want my partner to be able to embrace that same level of freedom. In the eight years my wife and I were together, we never had a fight - never a cross word. I know that's a very rare relationship, especially when we did virtually everything together. She was my lover, my confidant, my best friend, and my favorite "buddy" to hang out with. In my opinion, that level of closeness requires full acceptance of each other and the only way two people can achieve that is through full disclosure. I was so lucky to have found her and been able to have that experience.

what happened, did you get divorced?