Rosesrred, you are not the only girl out there that feels this way. A lot of the woman that come visit this site are looking for something. For most it is a man that can give them a fantasy and as long as the guy can keep up that fantasy they will be happy. Maybe instead of looking for that prefect guy just let it go. And I bet you the prefect guy for you will find you. I met my girlfriend on the internet. And it just so happens that she's the one. She left her husband for me. I'm a very lucky dude in those regards. Her family and friends didn't believe I was real. What I am saying is you will never know what is real or what is fake. You just have to open your heart and trust that everything will workout.
dpw, it isn't like that. Him and her estranged long before I met her. She was still living with him though. When I started chatting with her she moved in back with her parents then when I came over we got our own place. I'm good at knowing people. She is a good person. She married him because her family wanted her to marry him. The nephews still call him uncle. They like him much more than they like me. But she sticks up for me fiercely. I'm telling you it is rare to find a as kind and generous person as she is.
Lush is about eroticism and fantasy. i can't help if some guys don't get that. says in my profile why i am here and if you are looking for a relationship I'll play along, but only as a fantasy. Don't feel bad when I leave or find someone else to play with.
My lady friend and I have been looking for a while now for a third to join us in our online adventures. We've had some get close to being what we want and we've had others miss the mark terribly. We just see it as there is someone out there who wants to be involved in the type of play in which we engage. We just have to be vigilant and realistic.
I'm a BBW. I do not lie about it. It is right on my profile. I'm right up front. Then the guy gets huffy
about having cyber sex with me. I was more the willing its just there were people in the house. We meet he jacks off. WE make plans for later. He sends me a e-mail your to much women for me. REALLY. After all the Drama he started and he chickens out and blames me. And who can't be honest up front. Women r more up front then men.
=d> There just chicken
This is an interesting question...I am married, and I don't hide that...
The possibility of something beyond fantasy is something I am strongly considering, so I don't play online simply to hide behind my marriage...
No, it can never feel good to get mind fucked anywhere, whether its on-line in a fantasy sex chat site or IRL. Finding and investing in a "cyber-lover" most likely is accompanied with tweaking heartstrings, I'd imagine just as it does IRL. Never feels good cuz the heart is, after all, so fragile. So, learn the lesson and protect yourself...or at least your heart.
There's no easy answer to that. People on the internet lie... not everyone, but enough to make you wary.
If you're looking for something serious, I can only suggest that you be VERY, VERY careful and just assume that anyone you're dealing with does NOT have a predilection for commitment.
no mindfucking anyone is not good unless that is the only reason you come online.
Had it done to me several times before at other sites and guarded a little but still open to making some friends if I can.
Like the others have said, really sorry to hear you got hurt. But Lush really isn't a dating site. It's good to chat to people, but you have to accept they are not all what they seem. As I've observed before, there are a 'surprisingly'disproportionate number of hot bisexual women who only want to talk to other women on here, alongside men with 10 inch cocks. Pinch of salt.
This only goes to show what a shallow mind some people have.
If they can't be honest in their dealings with other people, it only goes to show their total lack of 'Strength of Character'.
After a while you can always pick the individuals for what they are, whether they're male or female or something in between.
