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Does it bother you when a woman does this during sex?

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Absolutely love it. Often, I ask that she touch herself and stroke her clit, especially if a am behind her doggie-style. My hands may be occupied pulling hair with one, and teasing her ass with the thumb of the other hand. Would hate for the clit to be neglected, now, wouldn't we?
I love it, especially when she dips her fingers in my mouth while she does it
It makes things hotter, a woman touching herself sexually is a turn on for me no matter the circumstances.
i love it when she plays with her clit while i am both fucking her and eating her. drives me wild.
Love it. I like a lady who isn't afraid or timid and will just get into the moment and do what she wants to have a great time.
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Quote by DirtyMindedMom
Hey boys,

I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.

So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Thanks,
Rachael
...no I think its hot...
no it doesn't bother me. i can understand why guys get upset and the may feel them feel like that are under performing.
Quote by DirtyMindedMom
Hey boys,

I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.

So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Thanks,
Rachael

no. I like it
Quote by DirtyMindedMom
Hey boys,

I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.

So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Thanks,
Rachael


I'm OK with it as it's not always possible for a guy to be fingering a woman's clit when he's busy fucking with her - his hands could be elsewhere pleasuring other parts of her body for example. I think it's HOT too seeing a woman fingering hesrelf like that when she's being fucked.
I actually it... Whether she is touching herself, me or a combination of both of us, it just feels good... I think it also shows a bit of openness to the man, that your not shy about touching yourself with and for him... I say play away!
I AM NOT BOTHERED AT ALL..I RATHER LOVE TO SEE MY BABY FINGER HER PUSSY LIPS AND HER LOVE HOLE..YEA, I ENJOY IT.
The whole idea is OUR MUTUAL pleasure... bother me? NO, not at all I WANT HER to have the most enjoyment she can get and I have only one dick and two hands! My usual reaction is "YEAH! That's it! CUM FOR ME BABY! CUM ALL OVER ME!"
I like it a lot. Go ahead, and have lots of orgasms! I will probably have to fight the urge to explode seeing you...at least not until you've had lots of fun.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
Making love and fucking, you know there is a big difference between the two, should be about mutual satisfaction. I get very turned on when Brandie or whom ever I'm with is having those big, long, multiple, and strong orgasms. If it takes her self stimulating her self or others join in I have nooooo problem with it. The more intense her orgasm the more intense mine will be.

Nawty
it doesn't bother me, if anything its a turn on when I'm taking my girlfriend from behind and she starts playing with her clit because she gets tighter.
If it pleases her, I do not mind a bit, in fact it is a turn on for me
Any man it does bother has an ego problem. Whatever it takes for her just makes my life better.
I am always a gentleman.
I like it. It tells me she is in tune with herself and wants to get pleasure from the experience as much as I want to give it to her.

Ajay
Doesn't bother me at all. I even encourage it!
No, Rachel, it doesn't bother me at all. In fact I love it.

It means if she orgasm's whilst I'm inside her, I get to feel that. How can that be a bad thing?

I don't see it as me failing, as we both know that it's rare indeed she'll cum just from penetration. But she does love cumming with me inside. Of course we do many other things, all enjoyable where sometimes we're watching for a bit, sometimes helping and sometimes doing. It's all a part of the mix which makes the sex better.
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Wish she would - the idea turns me on.
Not at all. The whole point is to give her orgasms, right? Now if she insists on placing herself on the bed so she can watch her favorite TV show over my shoulder, that I would have an issue with.
Not a problem. A woman knows what her body likes better than any partner.
Doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes when she is on all fours I encourage her by bring her hand to her pussy. Her hand brushing against my balls is a added benefit.
I'm ok with it, I think it is great when a women is touching her self as you pleaser her.
Watching a woman "playing" with herself, there,s nothing more sexually arousing for a man. Men love women who love sex
My Sweetie has a slim vibrator that she uses on her clit while we make love. It helps getting her to cum, whatever makes her happy makes me real happy.
its hot not a problem for me