My wife rimmed me years ago and I thought it was so hot. I didn't experience any incredible sensations it was more the act of her wanting to do it that provided the thrill. I have never been fingerd though I would like to experience it.
I am sure my wife would rim me more and be willing to finger me (she loves anal) if I expressed interest. but my insecurities come into play here. At 52 my ass can't possibly be the inviting playground it once was. I fear I would spend more time fearing what it was like for her than just relaxing and enjoying myself.
I had an ex who gave wonderful blowjobs and would finger me while doing it and or use a vibrating plug. It was hot and awesome. As for the rimming, that is odd as I love to rim my wife but have no desire for her to rim me.
I've never been rimmed and not sure that is something that I would like to have done. I have thought about doing it to my wife but don't think she would be into it. As far as being fingered, i think that would be hot if she did that to me while giving me oral.
Yes, I absolutely love being rimmed and fingered by a sexual partner. I've shared sex toys with partners and there's something incredibly intimate about completely giving yourself over to someone.