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Do guys see taking a girl's virginity as a game?
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by SITTING
This is a genuine question i'm thinking about. If you met a girl, slept with her and then found she was a virgin, would you think of it as a bonus??
Suggesting you found out after the fact. Or before hand?
If before I would be completely honoured to be chosen for such a Sacred? Or Emotional? Either way I think you see what I am getting at.
ANd Well I would make damn sure i treated her right. After all she will remember her first time more then any other.
As for the Finding out afterwards.. Well I have no Idea, but I wouldn't think of it as a bonus.
Active Ink Slinger
Not a game for me. A girl's first time is a very special thing for her, meaning she's transfering from girl to woman, and opening a whole new world for her. This memory might stay with her for her life time. No matter how did we hook up and how is our current relationship, if she trust me enough to let me to be her first time, I'd would be very honored, and make sure treat her right giving her a good time.
And my mouth will be sealed. It's not something a gentleman should should talk about.
And my mouth will be sealed. It's not something a gentleman should should talk about.
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Wild at Heart
Not a game... A challenge!
Seriously, if she told me after the fact I would probably be saying 'fuck...' in my head depending on how casual the encounter was. If I'm head over heels for her then I'd think it was cool. If I wasn't so into her I'd probably start to already feel guilty cause then she might be starting to get feelings of attachment and telling her, "see you around girl" might not make her smile...
If she tells me beforehand that she's a virgin I would only keep trying to get in her pants if I really dig her and want to make her a girlfriend or else I'd start to give her the, "oh man I'm so busy tonight and this weekend and yes on Monday and Tuesday too... Probably Wednesday and the rest of the week... Maybe the rest of the month and year too." Then I'd hit her with a :/ smiley...
Seriously, if she told me after the fact I would probably be saying 'fuck...' in my head depending on how casual the encounter was. If I'm head over heels for her then I'd think it was cool. If I wasn't so into her I'd probably start to already feel guilty cause then she might be starting to get feelings of attachment and telling her, "see you around girl" might not make her smile...
If she tells me beforehand that she's a virgin I would only keep trying to get in her pants if I really dig her and want to make her a girlfriend or else I'd start to give her the, "oh man I'm so busy tonight and this weekend and yes on Monday and Tuesday too... Probably Wednesday and the rest of the week... Maybe the rest of the month and year too." Then I'd hit her with a :/ smiley...
Quote by Magical_felix
I'd start to give her the, "oh man I'm so busy tonight and this weekend and yes on Monday and Tuesday too... Probably Wednesday and the rest of the week... Maybe the rest of the month and year too." Then I'd hit her with a :/ smiley...
I wondered why you hit me with the :/ smiley
Advanced Wordsmith
Honestly,
Your title and the question asked seem a bit of contradiction. It would seem implied that for a guy to be playing a game that the knowledge of a woman's virginity is already known. To find out after the act of sex that it was a woman's first time, I would personally assume, that both parties were so drunk to see the signs, or both to inexperienced to understand the signs.
Now, going by the question you posted, I would have to say (depending on the sex and signs) that the majority of guys that are told afterwards that it was a woman's first time, would doubt the honesty of the information. In my personal experiences issues of virginity usually became knowledge somewhere in foreplay if not before.
The honest answer to both your questions is simple.
Some guys, do see taking a woman's virginity as a game, or should I say more of a challenge. It may be looked at as a conquest that no other man will have the ability to repeat, there is only one first for everything. However, these guys know the target is the woman's virginity, and usually nothing more and they already have a pretty good idea if their targets is pure.
Some guys, will see the post sex revelation of a woman's virginity as the woman playing a game. A means to somehow make him feel a greater sense of emotional responsibility after sharing a first intimate moment. If it feels like a trap even the nicest animals will run at the chance of freedom.
There are multitudes of scenarios that could come into play as to what any one persons actions may or may not be in this situation, but the only thing you can worry about are the actions you control.
Your title and the question asked seem a bit of contradiction. It would seem implied that for a guy to be playing a game that the knowledge of a woman's virginity is already known. To find out after the act of sex that it was a woman's first time, I would personally assume, that both parties were so drunk to see the signs, or both to inexperienced to understand the signs.
Now, going by the question you posted, I would have to say (depending on the sex and signs) that the majority of guys that are told afterwards that it was a woman's first time, would doubt the honesty of the information. In my personal experiences issues of virginity usually became knowledge somewhere in foreplay if not before.
The honest answer to both your questions is simple.
Some guys, do see taking a woman's virginity as a game, or should I say more of a challenge. It may be looked at as a conquest that no other man will have the ability to repeat, there is only one first for everything. However, these guys know the target is the woman's virginity, and usually nothing more and they already have a pretty good idea if their targets is pure.
Some guys, will see the post sex revelation of a woman's virginity as the woman playing a game. A means to somehow make him feel a greater sense of emotional responsibility after sharing a first intimate moment. If it feels like a trap even the nicest animals will run at the chance of freedom.
There are multitudes of scenarios that could come into play as to what any one persons actions may or may not be in this situation, but the only thing you can worry about are the actions you control.
Wild at Heart
Quote by LittleBambi
I wondered why you hit me with the :/ smiley
Well we were getting all hot n heavy and you go and say, "Jack, I'm a cyber virgin. Be gentle." I had no choice but to say, "damn Internet! It's totally messing up on my end must be that huge pond between making it this slow... I'll try to catch you when it's fixed :/"
Wild at Heart
Quote by LittleBambi
That's no way to talk about a lady's virgin cyber parts!
It must have been all the moisture and the puddle you told me you were creating under you that got me to use such a vulgar euphemism... But you're right, I was not being a cyber gentleman that day. Aren't you glad I spared your cyber flower now?
Active Ink Slinger
No I see it as a chore...
Active Ink Slinger
I would look at it as an honor and a gift