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Do guys like being controlling or controlled more during sex?

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25 Jan 2018

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5 Mar 2016

One has to of experienced both to take a view so I dont have an opinion.

5 Mar 2016

Been Alpha in everything, so far in my life. Have never been controlled. So it would be a twist on things.

18 Mar 2016

Most of time I control but have no problem being controlled.

17 Apr 2016

For me this depends on the day. I am a dom first and foremost - so making sure my sub is taken care of and her needs are met, is paramount. However, I must admit to enjoying a bit of the switch. In the role of sub, I am happy to be controlled - as long as the play is based on love.

23 Apr 2016

I think it is fun paly both sides with naughty lady =)

23 Apr 2016

Usually I am in control, but just occasionally I find a lover who wants to be. It can make for a fantastic time, you just have to learn how and when to let her have her way with you. Hehe.....she thinks....

26 Apr 2016

My wife has never been vocal in bed. It would be different if she were and I don't think I'd mind. I can tell what she enjoys as I'm doing it and focus on that.

26 May 2016

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8 Aug 2016

I like it when my partner knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell me. But at the same time I don't much like being on the bottom.

10 Aug 2016

i defenitely like both but preferr to be dominate

10 Aug 2016

I love when a man is in controlling in bed but I am a girly man too

11 Aug 2016

doesn't matter, see how it goes.

26 Aug 2016

Taking turns is a fun game to play.... so BOTH would be my answer.

27 Aug 2016

I can switch it up but definitely enjoy her being in control more.

31 Aug 2016

I have found that many men like to be controlled. The controlling ones seem to avoid me for some reason.

2 Sep 2016

I love to control the flow of things, but i love being controlled even more if it's done convincingly. I might fight you, but show me you won't falter and we'll have a good ride.

10 Dec 2016

I think being urged on by the lady during sex is extremely exciting.

29 Jan 2017

I like either. There's times where I want to be in control and be the boss, other time where I like the lady knowing what she wants and taking control

29 Jan 2017

I like being submissive and a bottom in most sexual encounters. Although I will often take the dominant lead, almost all of my fantasies center around being dominated.

25 Jan 2018

Not much into BDSM. However I tend to control the sex. That is until she gets on top....

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