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One has to of experienced both to take a view so I dont have an opinion.
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Do guys like being controlling or controlled more during sex?
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Been Alpha in everything, so far in my life. Have never been controlled. So it would be a twist on things.
Lurker
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Most of time I control but have no problem being controlled.
Active Ink Slinger
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For me this depends on the day. I am a dom first and foremost - so making sure my sub is taken care of and her needs are met, is paramount. However, I must admit to enjoying a bit of the switch. In the role of sub, I am happy to be controlled - as long as the play is based on love.
Lurker
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I think it is fun paly both sides with naughty lady =)
Active Ink Slinger
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Usually I am in control, but just occasionally I find a lover who wants to be. It can make for a fantastic time, you just have to learn how and when to let her have her way with you. Hehe.....she thinks....
Active Ink Slinger
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My wife has never been vocal in bed. It would be different if she were and I don't think I'd mind. I can tell what she enjoys as I'm doing it and focus on that.
Active Ink Slinger
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Quote by Guest...I don't mind an aggressive woman...
Advanced Wordsmith
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I like it when my partner knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell me. But at the same time I don't much like being on the bottom.
Advanced Wordsmith
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i defenitely like both but preferr to be dominate
Active Ink Slinger
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I love when a man is in controlling in bed but I am a girly man too
Lurker
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doesn't matter, see how it goes.
Lurker
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Taking turns is a fun game to play.... so BOTH would be my answer.
Rookie Scribe
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I can switch it up but definitely enjoy her being in control more.
Lurker
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I have found that many men like to be controlled. The controlling ones seem to avoid me for some reason.
Lurker
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I love to control the flow of things, but i love being controlled even more if it's done convincingly. I might fight you, but show me you won't falter and we'll have a good ride.
Lurker
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I think being urged on by the lady during sex is extremely exciting.
Lurker
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I like either. There's times where I want to be in control and be the boss, other time where I like the lady knowing what she wants and taking control
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I like being submissive and a bottom in most sexual encounters. Although I will often take the dominant lead, almost all of my fantasies center around being dominated.
Lurker
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Not much into BDSM. However I tend to control the sex. That is until she gets on top....