Guys, when you chat with someone who is NOT your significant other...
Do you expect to do most of the talking or directing, expect your partner to do most of the talking or directing, or allow for an equal exchange of ideas?
Does the preference change with the person you're chatting with?
To your mind, what distinguishes a "good" conversation from one that is lackluster? (Thank you hopp3r for the finely turned phrase!)
Doing some story research but also very curious about the topic. Want to ask more but this is a start.
I enjoy creating the idea and questioning about the triggers that will assist in achieving my chatting partners pleasures - I do however need some feedback as in if the scene, chat, words, ideas are creating the desired results! Its not easy to find the right creative and attentive chat partner...... i do enjoy to finish after my attempt is accomplished!
An equal exchange of ideas to start is always where my preferences lie. As I start to get to know them it becomes easier to have one of us talk more than the other without it feeling dominating. In my opinion, a natural ebb and flow between speaker and listener is usually the sign of a comfortable and familiar rapport either built off of long periods of time or a deep, personal connection.
I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
In my head I prefer an equal exchange of ideas so we can bounce ideas off one another equally but in reality it's probably more 60-40 in favor of my partner, that way I know what makes the person I'm talking to click and I can keep the conversation relevant to things their interested in. Plus doing things that way mean I'm less likely to bore my chatting partner!
TBH guys feel pleasure with only their dick but for girls, each part of their body is a button. Mutual suggestions are the best but I consider ladies first. Then again, it also depends on my partner. I want to satisfy them before satisfying myself. So I believe it changes with each person but mainly we both have a say.
I like to think I am a good listener and also that I am perfectly comfortable 'directing' the chat. So, either way is fine with me. I really believe the goal is for both parties to have a great time- and to want to play several times - so the ability and willingness to exchange ideas is vital. Plus, I am versatile, doing the exact same thing each time gets a bit dull. Variety is the spice.
I prefer equal contribution, and just go with the flow.
well this is very general and i think you are gonna have to be more specific if you want to get accurate feedback but i guess in general in any given conversation or discussion equal exchange of ideas and suggestions are always the way to go! Of course the preference change depending on who you are talking to, it's not the same talking to a friend, colleague, stranger etc. And of course it depends on the situation! As i said in the beginning the conversation always varies depending on the partner and situation you are in, or at least that's my opinion.
