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Can Men hold back their own ejaculate? During oral sex?
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There are various techniques for doing so. The most reliable is to start on a series of exercises of the guy's PC muscles. Then it is possible to contract them so that ejaculation does not happen. Applying pressure to the perineum can also stop it to some extent. I woulddefinitely NOT suggest any anaesthetic creams as you wouldn't want the poor woman's mouth going numb!
Of course one of the best things for control is the brain, so with good pyhysical control and good mental discipline, a guy can learn to last for a good long while.
I just wish I had paid more attention to my lessons...hehe!!
Of course one of the best things for control is the brain, so with good pyhysical control and good mental discipline, a guy can learn to last for a good long while.
I just wish I had paid more attention to my lessons...hehe!!
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Mmm nah it all depends, i dont think its so much about mastering yourself physically, its more all the head, and its hard, especially when something feels good. There are various factors that play a part, for example how long its been since your last orgasm (you often find if you havent had it in a while, your likely to cum quicker, even if you masturbated before hand, wheras people having regular sex, are in the habit of it, so can control themselves better because they are used to it at that period.), how horny you actually are at the time, then also things like controlling your thoughts during the experience, thinking about other things for example (which is fucking hard, but necessary i guess), and also things like how attractive and good at sex your partner is, if she has a really good technique, its hard to last that long lol
To be honest though, i never worry about cumming quickly, I just have a 5 minute break and a ciggy, then go again, and the 2nd time you can always last alot longer! So one way or another, you can get the girl where she wants to be!
To be honest though, i never worry about cumming quickly, I just have a 5 minute break and a ciggy, then go again, and the 2nd time you can always last alot longer! So one way or another, you can get the girl where she wants to be!
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There is a tried and proven technique:
When the man feels the sensation starting to build, it can be subsided by gently pulling downwards on his balls. Keep the tension for a little while and the urge to cum should be lessened.
When the man feels the sensation starting to build, it can be subsided by gently pulling downwards on his balls. Keep the tension for a little while and the urge to cum should be lessened.
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Don't know if men can hold back their own ejaculate - never known a man who'd want to. Normally they want it out of them soonest... but a woman certainly can stop their cum dead in its tracks A long and well manicured fingernail centred on his urethra at the critical moment will send any ejaculate back into him - usually to be discharged in his bladder and, of course evacuated when he next has a piss.
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Don't know if men can hold back their own ejaculate - never known a man who'd want to. Normally they want it out of them soonest... but a woman certainly can stop their cum dead in its tracks A long and well manicured fingernail centred on his urethra at the critical moment will send any ejaculate back into him - usually to be discharged in his bladder and, of course evacuated when he next has a piss.
And what is the purpsose of that? Sounds painful. lol I've missed this kink somewhere along the line?
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I have no problems holding back during blow jobs thank fully .... i think all the younger years of self abuse (wanking) desensitized my cock... hence my wife generally develops jaw ache before drinking my cum ..... trouble is she is clever and now works my prostate with her finger which can bring the cum a bit quicker ...
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Sometimes very difficult to hold back, I just have to cum.
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I usually don't cum when getting a blow job. That's just me though.
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My opinion. Sometimes i do try, but that's because i'm thinking of prolonging the bj. Or have other plans of that beautiful girl. Mostly no though. I feel if she did that good of a job see should taste the fruits of her effort. Then leading to a happy girl who now needs to be taken care of.
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it can be done.. if the guy puts a lot of pressure on his perineum, it will hold the cum in.. however it is tough to do. The feeling is sometimes so overwhelming that you just have to release.
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For oral sex, I always have hard time to come, either with my wife or any of my exgfs. So I don't even need to hold back, it just does not come.
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