Do you guys have control over your erections?
What I mean is can you will yourself to get hard if you want to without any touching or porn or stuff?
Can you keep yourself from getting hard if there is something that is exciting or stimulating going on? (without doing something like bashing yourself on the foot or the nuts or something, of course)
If you can, how difficult are these to do?
Yes I can rather quickly and then to make it go down I think about old people and Hitler. Neither is very hard at all.....pun intended.
I don't have much control over it. If I need to make it go down, I do follow chavil's route, but with mixed success.
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I can make myself hard if I have the time and it's relatively quiet. I need to concentrate...
Stopping it from getting hard is more of a challenge. If i'm trying to hide my hard-on that means other people are around. Which means I may be engaged in conversation or activity. I think of things that piss me off to bring it down. lol
Depending on the environment, getting it back down is more difficult than getting it up!
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates I can make myself hard easily. But difficult bringing it back down unless I ... I actually get hard when I get mad sometimes ! :P
easy to make it go up bringing it back down is the hard bit
Can think it hard. Never tried to stop it going hard. Make the most of it and don't waste an erection!
Once it starts getting hard, it doesn't want to stop. Like LF I have to concentrate on things that piss me off.
I have never tried to just think myself hard.
my cock has a mind of its own. I cant control it.
For some reason when I get real sleepy it gets hard and I have a hell of a time getting it to go down. Around the house isn't a problem. The problem is when I'm out in public!
It's not difficult for me to get hard. Just the right thought or memory will do it, sometimes at the wrong time. Like others, getting it go down is another story...
I can think of a more pleasurable way to bring it down.
I know I'm going to regret saying this... but yes. I can bring myself to full tumescence using just thought. Conversely, I can use directed relaxation techniques to dissipate an erection. Dissipation is far more difficult and requires a lot more concentration. If I cannot get some help from my subject, or if it is inappropriate to get help, I definitely prefer to relieve the tension by manipulation rather than relaxation.
my erections have control over me.
i'm pathetic, i know.
There is a corelation between the length of time since my last orgasm and how readily I can achieve an unstimulated erection and also how readily
I can keep that one eyed monster at bay! Thank you for taking an interest in my hard cock! lol
Good question.
As far as being able to control it, I don't know why but I wake up hard almost every morning. I don't know why. A guy with experience can definitely exert control over it though. Don't misunderstand me, there are things that will turn me on and really get me horny, but once you have been around the block you know where the bumps are and know when it's time to put it into fifth gear.
A guy can have trouble getting it up under pressure. That can affect it. If he is physically sick that can affect it too. But other than that, YES we can control it and we do have a choice over whether we get hard or not.
If I'm too excited, I can't control myself.
But if I'm not at my verge, I just think about my handbalteam and our gameplays.^^ My mind wil fully turn to 6 sweaty hairy men and our runs.
Getting an erection is based almost exclusively on visual stimulous. See a partialy clothed or naked woman, a picture of one, or thinking of one in your imagination. An erection is triggered by visual stimulation, and there next to nothing you can do to stop a hard on after that. Apart from thinking of other visual images to counter it, images that are nothing to do with sex. Something quite boring, or takes a lot of focus like a crossword clue or soemthing. So you do have some element of control, with a bout a two minute time delay, and is all based on the visual. Pictures, pictures, pictures.
It all depends on when my last dose of viagra was.Sq6KWUKvxJsePHvv
Interesting questions........There are ways to produce erections with out touch or visual stimulation by using the same muscles women use....kegels in a certain way and with practice I have had some results.... it also requires a certain mental approach not an intenesly wishing/thinking about getting one but more a relaxed concentration.
As far as prevention that can be quite difficult. The experiences i used for my stories
are based upon real experiences. trying to get a hard on down is not easy!
I can't control it at all; it's got a mind of its own
For me it depends. Sometimes, I can shut it down, or make it back off. Other times it's just too powerful and the only thing to do is let it out. Cock rings do help.
I can control my erections... somewhat, but it takes a degree of concentration. Usually things down there are responding to whatever is or is not going on but even then it gets hard sometimes for no reason while other times it stays limp even though I’m feeling a little horny.
It’s basically like having a small pet. For the most part it behaves like you would expect and will even react to given commands with practice but sometimes it will go off and do the exact opposite of what you want.
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