ok there is a huge diff between being sexually open and sexually dangerous
so forgive me if i misunderstood the question
if you are having sex that puts either you or your partner in harms way ..no that is a MENTAL condition..not a sexual one
i took this question merely as a varied sexual past..not one that had a harmful outcome
i stand by my original post
and sordid is a pretty BROAD term..and means something different to each people
me if you are cheating on your partner..you are sordid
see my point....
Well to be totally honest if it was something she was embarrassed of but wanted to continue whatever it may be, not with like a million other guys tho, I would also partake. Otherwise I would be just like say I don't care what you do as long as your mine.
But if it was something of the past I wouldn't care.
Well, I found out after we married that my wife had sex regularly with an in-law. She was just his "mistress" so to speak. It's a complicated story, and she let him have his way, and kept quiet about it. He's dead now. If I had known that before we married, I probably wouldn't have married her.
Eh, not much would turn me off about a girl's sexual history. It's actually a huge turn on for me to have a girl tell me about her memorable sexual encounters. The dumb little giggle they do when they are telling it turns me on. Especially if they are like straddling my leg and I'm fondling their happy spots. But I'm going into too much detail...
One thing that would turn me off about a girl and prevent her from being the "one" or even datable is if she's a girl that has been around in my circle of friends. That to me is a no-go. Every group of guys knows that one girl who's fucked half the wolf pack... I wouldn't want my friends knowing that the "love of my life" can put her feet behind her head or enjoys licking ass after one too many sangrias, for example. Fuck that.
when i was younger i used to have an issue with a womans sexual past. but i must be over it cause the last women i was dating/sleeping with used to be a hooker when she was 18/19
Adventurous women that love sex are a turn on, and I would encourage a girl to tell me about her past experiences, in fact I'd insist on hearing all about it if she has been around a lot. It would be perfect for a swinger-style relationship, as she'd be less likely to expect lifelong monogamy. Thinking about your girl being slutty enough to have sex with other guys (or girls) is a huge turn on as long as she is completely honest and upfront about it. The problem is not her sexual past, but whether she is mentally stable enough after all her experiences, and able to lead a slightly healthier lifestyle.
Gangbangs, bukkakes and double penetration would make her 10x more desirable to me. Bonus points if this was not long in the past, and she maintained an active interest in group sex.
A friend of mine married a woman who worked for an escort service. He was open to group sex and didn't have an issue with here being an escort and i'm pretty sure he looked forward to exploring sexual adventures with her. However, after they became husband and wife she seem to be consumed with guilt about her past. She became a born again christian, became involved with bible studies groups, charity events and so on. She very rarely had an interest with sex and even when they did have sex my friend said " it's like having sex with my sister" Very awkward very bland. I could see a change in her myself , she seemed more reserved, not as outgoing, not as open, friendly, or happy as she once was. Neeedless to say thier marriage lasted but 2 years before they mutually agreed to filling for divorce.
So take that and make out of it what you will.
A woman's past is her past. If she your heart, body and soul then she's the one. Everything else matters not
great question - For me, I can't imagine anything in a woman's history that would keep us apart if I thought she was "the one". I love hearing some of the sexual experiences that my partner had with previous men, and we both enjoyed an active sex life before we met. It wouldn't matter to me when I found out, regardless of what it was - I think a woman's sexual experience is just one of the layers of intrigue that she is composed of and I love pealing back each of those layers with a woman I am really in to.
If I found out early on, no I don't think it's be a problem.
If she kept it secret for a long time then told me, it would be a concern.
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Only if the couples interests did not coincide. If she had 'sown' her oats and wanted to settle down, but he still wanted her to continue...and vice-versa. Acceptance and not trying to change someone are the key.
I have been involved with women with sordid sexual histories... AND IT WAS HOT!
But I don't think that is the usual response by men. Like you said, they like their porn to be slutty but their partners to be uh.. not-so-slutty.
Everyone wants their partner to be loyal -- feel special, feel cared for, feel like the relationship is a partnership in some manner. For me personally, that's fine. But, I like my lady and I to be complete sluts together also.
Not for me. I've been slutty whenever could, so who am I to judge.
The only deal breaker is if she still wanted to have sex with others. Anything that she's done in the past would probably even be a turn on, but as long as it stays in the past. If we were to get serious and settle down I wouldn't want to share her. I would want us to belong only to each other. I'd want to feel like I was all she needed and would want to feel the same way about her.
Well I suppose it would depend on what kind of a past I've had. If I had lived some saintly existence without premarital sex then I suppose I might feel a little cautious and judgemental but as I haven't I wouldn't. Or do we operate the good old double standard here?
Not for me, I Love women with lots of experience!!! Variety Is the Spice of Life...Mmmm...;)
Ti me the answer to that is an easy one yes and no !!! Thats what makes the world go round !!
My wife had done a dozen fucks before we got married, and she told me about them, she was married when I met her and we fucked a lot without her husband knowing, she was a hot piece of ass and I couldn't stop fucking her so I made her leave him, and we got married, after about 8 or 9 years she fucked a friend of mine, so I figured what the hell, so I got another friend of mine to fuck her and I could watch, He fucked her for over 30 years, coming up a couple times a week to fuck her, She fucked a couple other guys during this time to, but as long as she told me about it I liked her to get her strange stuff, she's still the best fuck I ever had, and my friends think so too.
thats what you should wear for being a whimp
