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Do you guys hate when a girl spits after giving head? Is it weird? Is it allowed? Is it sexy? Is swallowing what you really want??
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BJ's : is spitting ok or is swallow the only good option?
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Quote by Lilnaughtykitten
Do you guys hate when a girl spits after giving head? Is it weird? Is it allowed? Is it sexy? Is swallowing what you really want??
I've said this in other threads, I absolutely hate it when someone spits. If you don't want it then give it back to me and I'll swallow it. I don't even mind if they leave their mouth open and it seeps out, I'll lick it up off their face but spitting is a big no for me.
Apparently most guys hate it when a girl spits, but I really couldn't care less myself. I've already had my orgasm at that point, and I fail to understand the significance of what she decides to do with the cum afterwards. Some people IMO should learn to appreciate the fact that she let them cum in her mouth in the first place, even though she clearly isn't keen on the taste, judging by her spitting.
And yes, I think it can be very sexy when she lets the cum dribble out of the corner of her mouth, or spits it onto her boobs to play with it. Just a few ideas to make it seem a bit more sexy than just spitting into a cup. Guys love visual stimuli. That's also why they love to cum on your face. I prefer it to cumming in her mouth, as I can seldom expect to cum from a blowjob alone, without any handwork involved.
And yes, I think it can be very sexy when she lets the cum dribble out of the corner of her mouth, or spits it onto her boobs to play with it. Just a few ideas to make it seem a bit more sexy than just spitting into a cup. Guys love visual stimuli. That's also why they love to cum on your face. I prefer it to cumming in her mouth, as I can seldom expect to cum from a blowjob alone, without any handwork involved.
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I have never had anyone finish me off while giving a BJ. I would think that to me It wouldn't really matter if they swallowed or if they chose to spit. I would love to find out just how it feels to have a BJ until I exploded.
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I like both. But I'm the opposite to some guys on here cos if a girl is going to swallow I still like to see at least some of it! Either I want them to open their mouth to show me before they swallow or I want them to let some dribble out. If not, I'd rather they spat it all down themselves personally
... But have had some that is really bitter and spitting is the only option 
I think it depends what they have eaten before hand... but mostly I find it yummy and happy to swallow for him, but like to play with it a bit first. 
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Gun to my head, I think swallowing is hotter. But honestly, if she's just let me come in her mouth...who gives a shit?
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Apparently most guys hate it when a girl spits, but I really couldn't care less myself. I've already had my orgasm at that point, and I fail to understand the significance of what she decides to do with the cum afterwards. Some people IMO should learn to appreciate the fact that she let them cum in her mouth in the first place, even though she clearly isn't keen on the taste, judging by her spitting.
Guys love visual stimuli.
Well I think you answered your own question!
I don't think "learning to appreciate" has anything to do with it whatsoever, it is purely what I personally find offensive. If someone doesn't want to swallow then tell me and I won't cum in the mouth, simple!
Spitting makes me think that I've done something wrong or even dirty. Just my opinion, if others don't mind that's up to them but I don't need to be lectured!
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I think that most men would think that a girl who swallows is a rare, but delightful find. Personally, I am content with discrete spitting, coming on breasts (or anywhere else), because by that point I am past caring!
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I don't care if you prepare. Know where it's going and I'm fine with spitting.
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Well I think you answered your own question!
I don't think "learning to appreciate" has anything to do with it whatsoever, it is purely what I personally find offensive. If someone doesn't want to swallow then tell me and I won't cum in the mouth, simple!
Spitting makes me think that I've done something wrong or even dirty. Just my opinion, if others don't mind that's up to them but I don't need to be lectured!
Swallowing is not a visual stimulus - certainly not compared to the alternative uses of cum that I mentioned. In that sense, swallowing does nothing at all for me if she just gobbles it down quickly without at least opening her mouth and showing me the load before swallowing it.
As you said, it's an 'acceptance' thing for you. But some people just really don't want to swallow cum regardless of whose it is, and you might be able to see it from a different perspective if you weren't that keen on the taste yourself.
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Swallowing is not a visual stimulus - certainly not compared to the alternative uses of cum that I mentioned. In that sense, swallowing does nothing at all for me if she just gobbles it down quickly without at least opening her mouth and showing me the load before swallowing it.
As you said, it's an 'acceptance' thing for you. But some people just really don't want to swallow cum regardless of whose it is, and you might be able to see it from a different perspective if you weren't that keen on the taste yourself.
I agree with this entirely. I once swallowed my own cum (a whole load) just to experience it from women's perspective, and honestly it really wasn't the greatest taste I've ever had in my mouth. I don't think any woman would do it simply because they enjoy the taste or the sensation, but more to please/tease their man.
I'm a huge cum fanatic, and honestly spitting is sooo much better for me; it's just such an awesome sight. When a woman swallows, basically she just makes any further cumplay impossible. With spitting the possibilities are endless:
- She can spit the cum on her breasts/stomach. Then I can massage her with it while I either lick her pussy or keep fucking her. Or I can just lick it up and kiss her with it, or spit it back directly in her mouth. Then she can swallow it or spit it out again. Or I can lick it up, spit it out on her asshole and offer an awesome rimming with my hot cum dripping down her cheeks.
- She can spit it on me, either on my chest or on my dick for further cumplay. For example, rubbing herself against my chest to transfer the cum, or offer a handjob/blowjob with my own slippery cum. Then she can lick it back in her mouth and do whatever she wants with it.
- She can spit it directly in my mouth, and thus offer me the opportunity to decide whatever I want to do with it.
- We can just cuddle/kiss with cum on our bodies for some 'nasty romance'.
Spitting is actually fun because when the cumshot mixes with some saliva, it appears larger and more slippery when it's spitted out.
Either way, when I go for a second round I really enjoy seeing my cum on the girl's body. That's so incredibly dirty and kinky. My dearest fantasy is actually fucking a girl that's all covered in cum (and I mean like 10+ shots, ideally 25+). Sadly all that cum cannot be from me. I guess I should have chosen 'being assfucked by a 60-year-old male' as my fantasy.
Oh well.
Anyway, to all those people who think that swallowing is reeaally nasty, definitely some imagination would make you realize that the possibilities are endless with cumplay (and so fucking fun).
It's so sad and ridiculous that almost all porn movies end when the cumshot is released, without any further cumplay.
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Actually, I could care less. If she's willing to put her mouth on me then she gets to decide what to do with it. I really like 69 with her on top then lets it run out and all over me. We used to wrestle around after and pretty much paint each other with it.
Then we get to go wash it all off both of us and that s a LOT of fun. The sheets got kind of gross when we'd do that sometimes.
Haven't done that in 7 or so years now.
Then we get to go wash it all off both of us and that s a LOT of fun. The sheets got kind of gross when we'd do that sometimes.
Haven't done that in 7 or so years now.
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Swallowing is not a visual stimulus - certainly not compared to the alternative uses of cum that I mentioned. In that sense, swallowing does nothing at all for me if she just gobbles it down quickly without at least opening her mouth and showing me the load before swallowing it.
As you said, it's an 'acceptance' thing for you. But some people just really don't want to swallow cum regardless of whose it is, and you might be able to see it from a different perspective if you weren't that keen on the taste yourself.
So it's not a stimulus for you, that's fine but it is for me.
As far as the taste goes, I don't mind it but I'd rather have a glass of red wine!
Yes I agree about seeing it being a turn on and I said if it let out the mouth that good too. The point about spitting is when it's into the sink, a bowl, a cloth or on the floor, that's when I don't like it.
I wouldn't criticize guys that don't mind it as it's all down to individual preference.
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The sensation of cumming in her mouth matters most in my experiences. She can choose to keep it or spit it. It's frustrating when she stops entirely as the orgasm starts but does nothing to help finish the orgasm (Stroking/sucking). Anybody feel the same? Active Ink Slinger
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The tailspin effect!
It's the dreaded cum down.
talking from a physical point of you, it does not make any difference if she swallow or spit, as long as she keep it going until the end of his climax.
of course the sight of her swallowing has the power to enhance my orgasm!
for me, if she does not want to swallow, it would be also good for her to let the cum dribble out from her mouth.. another beautiful view!
of course the sight of her swallowing has the power to enhance my orgasm!
for me, if she does not want to swallow, it would be also good for her to let the cum dribble out from her mouth.. another beautiful view!
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Quote by Lilnaughtykitten
Do you guys hate when a girl spits after giving head? Is it weird? Is it allowed? Is it sexy? Is swallowing what you really want??
Personally, I've never had a girl spit out my cum. I'd have thought that if the girl doesn't want to swallow, a better solution would be to finish the guy off with her hand(s) outside of her mouth (perhaps over her face?) when her lover reached the point of no return. However, inconsiderate guys may perhaps choose to 'unload' without warning and in this instance, I'd say that it's totally acceptable for the girl to spit out the unwanted 'gift' if she wants to. All the girls who have sucked me off have always enjoyed swallowing my cum too and yes, that for me is the ultimate end result!
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I love it when my wife feeds me my cum.
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Spitting or dribbling is OK if there's a sexual motivation.
If it's just to get it the hell out of her mouth then that's an anti-climax.
If it's just to get it the hell out of her mouth then that's an anti-climax.
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Spitting or dribbling is OK if there's a sexual motivation.
If it's just to get it the hell out of her mouth then that's an anti-climax.
This just made me BUST UP laughing!! LOL How true!
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