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I am bi and a crossdresser but I do not think it is very common. I occasionally sign on to some other gay or bisexual sites and often I feel rejected because they are not looking for a person like me. It is really hard to find someone who loves a bisexual crossdresser -Believe I have tried and tried
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I am bi and a crossdresser but I do not think it is very common. I occasionally sign on to some other gay or bisexual sites and often I feel rejected because they are not looking for a person like me. It is really hard to find someone who loves a bisexual crossdresser -Believe I have tried and tried
I have found there are many in the chat rooms here!!
OK, I'll settle this little dispute. I'm bi. I don't crossdress , in fact I've never considered it. I love to eat pussy and I could only fall in love with a women. But when it comes to sex I will do it with certain guys. I have a wide range of women that I would have sex with. But very narrow range of men.
Some of you guys need to learn the difference between bi and gay.
If your wife or girl has sex with another girl and then wants to have sex with you, are you going to tell her no you are gay????
Some of you guys need to learn the difference between bi and gay.
If your wife or girl has sex with another girl and then wants to have sex with you, are you going to tell her no you are gay????
I consider myself to be straight, but very curious. I had one experience with another guy as a teenager over four decades ago. I have always liked the feel of nylons and have from time to time slipped some on to feel them up tight against my cock. I also like the feeling of women's panties for the same reasons and thus have worn my wife's or others that I have collected over the years. I very rarely wear these panties outside of the bedroom thus I would not consider that really crossdressing. I will continue to be curious and maybe if the right opportunity presented itself I might consider jacking off or sucking another guy. I will also continue to slip into a nice sexy panty from time to time, but not go much further in the crossdressing mode.
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That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.
You can think that, but it doesn't make it true. I have had sex with both men and women with a strong preference for either, which means I am quite literally a bi-sexual.
As for the original topic, I personally have never been insterested in cross-dressing, but my ex was. He was a very feminine man and always said that he felt more attractive and more comfortable in a dress than in a suit. Frankly, men are trained to believe that women are more attractive, so if a man wants to attract another man and he can pull it off, his best chance is to dress like one. It also makes casual relationships with women easier, since there is a natural mental block women have when it comes to flirting with men that a cross-dresser can avoid.
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I have found there are many in the chat rooms here!!
I'm one of them.
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I love to look at CD's as they really dressed up...and would love to suck a cock...just haven't yet...what am I...I think I'm bi//
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Yes you are Bi if only in spirit none the less Bi. Just keep 1 thing in mind though. If you suck A cock,They will call you A cocksucker for the rest of your life. It doesn't matter if it was only A little one.
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I will never figure out why people want to make generalizations about bisexual men and then wonder why men have trouble admitting they are bisexual or gay. The way things were worded above was as if the person was trying to shame men for their feelings or attraction toward men.
As to the cross dressing issue as others said it is more of a fetish. It is not one that I am personally into but I have worn women's panties and lingerie for both men and even women I have been involved with. It did nothing for me. But I did it for them. I have even dressed fully as a woman once or twice for a guy. Again it did nothing for me. But it did for them.
Personally I don't even get turned on by a guy in women's things or really even if a guy tells me in a chat room he is wearing panties. But I don't really care for women dressed in men's things either.
I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.
But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.
To me as long as no one underage is being harmed or anyone is being hurt, forced or abused in any way, then no one should be made to feel bad for what turns them on or gets them off.
As to the cross dressing issue as others said it is more of a fetish. It is not one that I am personally into but I have worn women's panties and lingerie for both men and even women I have been involved with. It did nothing for me. But I did it for them. I have even dressed fully as a woman once or twice for a guy. Again it did nothing for me. But it did for them.
Personally I don't even get turned on by a guy in women's things or really even if a guy tells me in a chat room he is wearing panties. But I don't really care for women dressed in men's things either.
I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.
But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.
To me as long as no one underage is being harmed or anyone is being hurt, forced or abused in any way, then no one should be made to feel bad for what turns them on or gets them off.
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Just out of interest why are so many bisexual men into cross dressing?.
No idea. I'm bi and not into cross dressing. Like any other grouping of people we're not all identical. Cross dressing isn't exclusive to bi men either. Some people, regardless of orientation, enjoy it. Some do not.
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That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.
Not interesting at all. It's a common misconception. Bi is bi. Gay is gay. They're two entirely different things. There's nothing to "admit".
Granted, some see bi as more acceptable and may use the label if they're worried about how they'll be perceived if they say they're gay. My own limited experience doesn't jive with that as I've found some gays to lack as much understanding as straights. Some are exploring their sexuality and may identify as eventuałly sorting out that they're gay but a subset of a group of people never fully represents the entire group no matter how you're grouping people.
It's pretty simple, really: If one is attracted only to the same sex then the person is gay. If the person is attracted to both sexes then the person is bi. That said I don't understand the fixation with labels that many have. There's a whole spectrum of sexuality out there and people can fluidly move throughout the spectrum whether it's something that you can comprehend or not.
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Well that's your friends. But generally speaking most bi men will admit to being gay later on in life. That's why they have long lasting trusting monogamous relationships with men, is because they have everything they need in a man.
"That's your friends" cuts both ways and applies to your arguments as well. The bi men you've known may not accurately represent all bi men yet you seem to just assume that they do. Again, bi is bi and gay is gay. If a given person identifies as bi and is actually gay then it's up to him to sort it out and doesn't mean that all bi men are like this. All you're doing is demonstrating your ignorance and prejudice.
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I started to cd when i was around 12. I have been doing in on and off since then. I started as straight, just love the feeling of the lingerie and then had my first taste of cock and then i became bi. Now i would say i am probably gay because the only thing i really look at girls is their clothing etc and how pretty they are. But, I am not into having sex with them
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We're getting to be sexually hypocritical these days.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
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We're getting to be sexually hypocritical these days.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
Are you confusing wedding rings with cock rings?
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