I believe you need to look beyond the wrapping, it is only paper thin.
There is a real person inside that woman, and the sooner you stop judging people by their appearance, the sooner you will become more desirable. But if you pretend it isn't important, than you become even more shallow.
Go get some prescription glasses to put everyone out of focus, and you might start listening to them, learning to understand them, and perhaps even find someone you like.
But that is just my own experienced opinion.
If you or your lover have ever wanted to sensually submit or take control, you might care to read ~ Cat's Meow When I read this you sound desperate. That is something unattractive to all women. The feeling you express in needing a transformation is a good sign you need to develop a friendship with the most important person in your life... Yourself!
Women are people, not aliens from a distant planet. What are your interests? Sports? Theater? Church? Whatever it is make friends with a girl that shares something in common with you. It is amazing how attractive they become when you dig deeper into who they are. Just possibly you will discover real beauty.
I've chatted with hot men and until they open their mouth...and u think..ahhh..moving on
Well if you can't converse with women OR men you are not that attractive
The way you blame women for everything...is a huge turn off..plus angry men..who wants that?
You could look like Bradley Cooper and they will pass you by
Yes a pretty package is nice but you know most women would like to talk for a bit on a date
Lose the tude...show real kindness and interest in her and you might do better
I have dated men most women would not go out with
Why because they were funny kind smart and cool
Look around you, and that definitely appears to be true. In the end we don't make our decisions about whom we want to be with on any rational basis, although we like to kid ourselves. Basically we fall in love with people who are the best fit genetically, and based on inchoate judgements about their fertility and who would be the best people to have children with. But, don't forget that attractiveness is not just about the outward appearance, but many other important qualities, such as unselfishness, sensitivity, caring, sympathy, the ability to listen, and how interesting someone is - good conversation is worth far more than suggestive remarks, although flirting is fun, as long as it is done with sensitivity and doesn't overstep the mark. Will
