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CuriousMonkey80
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The internet is overwhelmed with guys who claim to have 10 inches of penis size smile Everyone apparently has 10 to 14 inches . And many women equally exaggerate about having sex with a guy who had a 11 inch erect . Not saying everyone is lying because some guys probably are very hung . But considering 5 to 6 inch is usually most common I have few questions to ask

1. Realisticly speaking how common is 7 inches or 8 inches ?

2. Do you measure with a ruler and then claim to talk about size ?


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1. No idea. Some researcher must have graphed it and published means, standard deviations (no, not that kind of deviation), etc. but I don't have it handy.

2. I have measured but rarely talk about size save when it is appropriate. Even in my stories. I generally don't get that specific, just "long" or "thick" or whatever is appropriate.
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Quote by CuriousMonkey80
The internet is overwhelmed with guys who claim to have 10 inches of penis size smile Everyone apparently has 10 to 14 inches . And many women equally exaggerate about having sex with a guy who had a 11 inch erect . Not saying everyone is lying because some guys probably are very hung . But considering 5 to 6 inch is usually most common I have few questions to ask

1. Realisticly speaking how common is 7 inches or 8 inches ?

2. Do you measure with a ruler and then claim to talk about size ?

On the internet, there is no one to verify one's claims. Hence, one can claim whatever he/she wants to. Now, regarding your questions,

1. It depends on where you are. If you check the demographics regarding the size, you will find that certain places have a bigger average size than the other areas. Hence, you're more likely to find the size you need in that area.

2. Yes, the ruler is often the standard measurement for guys.
SereneProdigy
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Quote by CuriousMonkey80
1. Realisticly speaking how common is 7 inches or 8 inches ?


You can observe this chart to evaluate the variation of dick sizes: these are all the most serious studies ever conducted on the matter. 7 inches is roughly 18 cm, while 8 inches is roughly 20 cm (hence the box that I added on the chart). According to most of these studies, 7 inches is already bigger than 95% of men, while 8 inches is practically bigger than 99.9% of them:


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I haven't measured it in years, but I was average length then. I had hernia surgery a while back, and I was shocked when the swelling made it look like I had a 3 inch penis. I showed my wife, and after she quit laughing, she said that I would have to do lots of oral work on her to satisfy her needs. Fortunately, the swelling eventually subsided, and I have a functional tool again. I did have a friend that we called "Tripod" because of his length, but I doubt if it was 11 inches.
KJessica
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My boyfriend has given me the “Kevin Dean” dildo for my birthday recently to use when he was not able to be there with me for him to have sex with. It is very, very close to his actual penis size and shape, but it’s girth well, it’s just slightly less in circumference than his actual penis is when he has a fully blown-swollen hard-on that is an erection as we get to having sex together. I know of only one other penis (at this time) that I’ve actually seen and felt but it was probably seven inches in length and too had a nice girth even if not as long or thick as that of my boyfriend. I don’t really know if this is of any help here, but from what I’ve seen and read both of these are much above what is the norm or average which is stated as being 5-6 inches in length but I’ve never heard another girl or women complain or say anything bad about their boyfriend, man or their husband they have - not giving them complete satisfaction in their vaginal area what’s so ever.
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Five and a half to six inches me. If I want to feel a bit better I'll measure from the bottom smile I've heard several women say they prefer girth to length and I'm happy there. ;)
Rick_Valley
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I'm about average size I guess. If a sex researcher wants to come over and measure me they more than welcome. I'll give it up for science.
sprite
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how come we don't have any How Big is your Clit threads?

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how come we don't have any How Big is your Clit threads?





Because. Yours is uber tiny and we don't want you feelin all sad and mopey. It kills the mood.
sprite
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Because. Yours is uber tiny and we don't want you feelin all sad and mopey. It kills the mood.


it's still bigger than your cock.

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it's still bigger than your cock.


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CuriousMonkey80
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So is 6 inches quite possible as in not extremely uncommon ?


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rafael
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Mine is 5 1/2 inches FE.

A hooker once told me mine is the perfect size and I dont think she was just trying to boost my sense of inadequacy as she explained that larger penises can hurt.

That being said - I could use another inch.
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6.8 inches , girth 2 inches it's small and thick
CuriousMonkey80
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So guys one more time ... is 7 inches in reality very uncommon ?


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You can observe this chart to evaluate the variation of dick sizes: these are all the most serious studies ever conducted on the matter. 7 inches is roughly 18 cm, while 8 inches is roughly 20 cm (hence the box that I added on the chart). According to most of these studies, 7 inches is already bigger than 95% of men, while 8 inches is practically bigger than 99.9% of them:


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Very good. I have heard of a good study that shows the average is less than
5 in. Only 10% bigger than 6in. Pretty much supports your chart. If you statistatics and bell curves doesn't leave much the farther out you get.


Now of those that are truly bigger than 7 in. How many are available. How many are gay, married, not in a promicous lifestyle. Just because you have a large cock doesn't mean you have good stamina. Of that even smaller subset how many guys to you want to be around.

And if you have that over 7 in cock than you should be able to attract much better than average looking women. Why would you settle for a woman that is not even average looking.

I think there are fewer women out there that are truly size queens. That only a 7+ in cock will do.

Now guys with over 7 in coxks may be over represented as there are more sought after and those that fall in the 5in or smaller segment may not have the confidence to get into certain lifestyles. I mean if you have a 4 in cock are you going to be going to the swinger or cuck lifestyles.
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Quote by SereneProdigy


You can observe this chart to evaluate the variation of dick sizes: these are all the most serious studies ever conducted on the matter. 7 inches is roughly 18 cm, while 8 inches is roughly 20 cm (hence the box that I added on the chart). According to most of these studies, 7 inches is already bigger than 95% of men, while 8 inches is practically bigger than 99.9% of them:


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Very good. I have heard of a good study that shows the average is less than
5 in. Only 10% bigger than 6in. Pretty much supports your chart. If you statistatics and bell curves doesn't leave much the farther out you get.


Now of those that are truly bigger than 7 in. How many are available. How many are gay, married, not in a promicous lifestyle. Just because you have a large cock doesn't mean you have good stamina. Of that even smaller subset how many guys to you want to be around.

And if you have that over 7 in cock than you should be able to attract much better than average looking women. Why would you settle for a woman that is not even average looking.

I think there are fewer women out there that are truly size queens. That only a 7+ in cock will do.

Now guys with over 7 in coxks may be over represented as there are more sought after and those that fall in the 5in or smaller segment may not have the confidence to get into certain lifestyles. I mean if you have a 4 in cock are you going to be going to the swinger or cuck lifestyles.
welshstallion
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Measured mine and was 5" flacid and 7.5" when erect. 5.5" girth which some women prefer over length.

Have never seen any between 10 and 14" must be a myth or they have been photoshopped to.make them lool.bigget.

Used a ruler or a tape measure.
wayneb47
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I am an average guy i think. I am 6 inches hard and 4 inches thick using a tape measure. I am 3 inches soft and sometimes like to sit and look it myself both hard and soft and it doesn't look as big. I guess because i'm looking down at it and not in the mirror or its not in my face.
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I have always thought of my erect cock as average with the exception of the head. Measured with a tailor's tape, it's 6.5" long, and girth of 5.75", but main feature of my cock is the head which is 6.6" in girth when completely full and erect.
Hence a very frustrating sex life till I was 30 years of age. Prior to my 30's, sex with 20-some aged women was either difficult, or restricted to manual or oral sex. Once into my 30's, I turned more to older women. They were almost always able to accommodate my cock, which they enjoyed and were more desirous of, and I was also able to enjoy sex finally. I've been with the same woman now for 6 years and sex is great together. Anal sex doesn't interest either of us, and would likely never be possible even if it was wanted by her.
centillini
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Okay, I have never had a complaint and had my share of playmates. I was "chatting" with a playmate and she wanted me to measure, so I finally did, last year, and was 7". I think this is far more common than anything over 8". I had a few friends that was ER Nurses and they said very rare to see something that big. Now as I told them, keep in mind I and think majority are growers,not showers.
wayneb47
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i honestly i have measured and feel very small. I am 6 1/2 erect and 4 inches soft. I feel like i'm small when i look down but when i look from the side in the mirror i think i don't look too small...Not sure. I have only have had 2 partners and they haven't complained about size. Just about what i do. Need more experiences i guess.
macnwny
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5-6 is average so I'd say you're a bit above, I think you're in the just fine category.
NudeDon1969
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Being a nudist, and have been around many other nudist, I have noticed that many men, like myself, have an average length about 5 to 6 inches, but girth varies much more than length. Which is difficult to tell, because we usually avoid getting erections in these social settings.
always1234
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I'm pretty small when soft, but I'm a grower. When compared to a porn star, I feel pretty inadequate, which is why I shy away from watching heterosexual porn with my partners. When I look at regular guys on reddit, etc, I feel like I'm pretty average when hard. After two kids, my wife's pussy is looser than before. I can get her off with sex, but she really likes the textured sleeves we sometimes use together. Her dildo is about the same size as my penis. I bought it for her;)
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I'm just over 6". May not hit as deep as some of the ladies may like, but I've always made my ladies orgasm!
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My bf is 7 inches and I think he's a perfect size, seems big to me! Another former bf was six inches and thick, his got me off too! Don't see why I'd need a 9-10 inch cock to get off.
centillini
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I believe that 5-6" is still average. I have always been lucky, thanks to the lord for having a nice 7" with decent girth. I have never worried about it and never had a complaint.