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Maybe you're scaring him...
More than likely, the guy might enjoy the fantasy of actually flirting with a married woman, but when it comes right down to it, he doesn't want to be "the other guy" in reality.
If you were single, he'd probably have mounted you a long time ago. That's just my.
I could probably "talk the talk", but no.....I'd never actually sleep with a married woman personally.
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I think you're being a little sexist. Guys can have all the same hang-ups and sexual insecurities that women do.
We get nervous, anxious, and self-conscious. Some things are easy to say, but when it comes down to it, it can be terrifying for some guys.
I would imagine your attitude to the situation doesn't help him much. Cut the guy some slack.
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Then the question is, is he still that same person? Marriage woman skirt chaser and all that jazz?
Hell, how long ago is "past?" Maybe he enjoys talking the talk, but no longer doing the deed. Maybe he actually developed feelings for you outside of the occasional roll in the hay.
Clearly you've been coming on strong for quite some time now. Your only option it to either give up or point blank ask him if he's interested.
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I have done the inevitable and have actually met a guy that is all talk and no action. I am completely baffled, this in my eyes in common behaviour with women
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It could be a number of things.
1.) As stated before, he may like the idea of flirting with a married woman. Maybe knowing that he CAN fuck you if he wanted to is enough for him, but he has apprehensions about actually sleeping with a married woman.
2.) You said you guys have been friends for a while. Perhaps he doesn't want to cross that line.
3.) Maybe he's really not that interested, but enjoys feeding your ego (people do that sometimes).
4.) Perhaps he's the fuck and move on type. Guys who are satisfied just playing the field don't like to feel obligated to stick around in any capacity. And maybe he senses that you would want him to stick around, even if it's just like a fuck buddy situation.
5.) Some guys like the thrill of the chase, and having sex thrown at them is off-putting for them. So if he's the womanizer that you claim he is, let him feel like he's 'womanizing' you. If you come off as desperate, he's gonna pull back. Try playing hard to get and see if he comes around.
That did come off as a little sexist, by the way. I was offended for like a millisecond.
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There are no secrets in my marriage the husband knows about him, he reads our conversations and takes part in the pictures/videos we exchange etc... Threesomes are open on the table also. There is definitely no reassessing of the marriage needed, we've never been more in love than we are right now. Our life and family are just perfect, besides this little hiccup.I talked to him, he says it's all just bad timing, not sure if I believe that but I'll take it for now. If things don't change, moving on will be the best option, I'm done investing time and everything else it takes to see him or not see him. Just doesn't make sense I am 100% sure there is nothing emotional from his ended and yet when I've moved on in the past he was upset and jealous... Ughhh
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I think you just answered your own question. His emotions are probably involved and he doesn't want to share you with your husband or other men.
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I think you just answered your own question. His emotions are probably involved and he doesn't want to share you with your husband or other men.
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I think you're being a little sexist. Guys can have all the same hang-ups and sexual insecurities that women do.
We get nervous, anxious, and self-conscious. Some things are easy to say, but when it comes down to it, it can be terrifying for some guys.
I would imagine your attitude to the situation doesn't help him much. Cut the guy some slack.
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