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This question is also posted in Ask The Gals so ladies please post your definitions there but feel free to comment.
I've seen the expression "committed relationship" in several threads but what does it mean to you?
I suppose I should be fist as it's my question.
It's just my opinion but I'm prepared to be shot down and I'm also open to change my views.
To me a committed relationship is two people in an exclusive partnership. No sleeping round, no swapping, no threesomes or group sex, no cuckolding and no open relationships. Just monogamy!
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This question is also posted in Ask The Gals so ladies please post your definitions there but feel free to comment.
I've seen the expression "committed relationship" in several threads but what does it mean to you?


I am in a committed relationship, which many know here. What that means to me is in no particular order:

When I make decisions I think of what is best for us, not just myself.
I make an effort, everyday to make her smile.
I take an active interest in things that are important to her.
I ask her opinion because it matters to me what she thinks.
I share my fears, my hopes, and my dreams.
Accept responsibility for when I do something wrong and don't repeat it.
Ask her how she is feeling.
Tell her how beautiful she is.
Make her laugh even if it is at me.
Go out of my comfort zone for her.
Try new things with her.
Do old things with her.
Give her gifts with meaning.
And love her unconditionally.
And naturally she is the only one, physically and emotionally.

There are so many things to me but that is a sampling of my Commitment to my Girl.
“If you find it hard to laugh at yourself, I would be happy to do it for you."
To me a committed relationship is two people who focus only on themselves. No one else matters, it’s what they want, and what is best for them. It takes two, or it won’t work.

When I enter a relationship, it’s all or nothing. I don’t give just part of myself, or it won’t work out. I want and hope that he’d do the same, because it won’t work if he doesn’t. I’ve never been in a relationship that was set any other way.

When it comes to what happens in my life, I have to remember how it might affect the both of us. My life is his and his is mine. That sounds serious, but relationships should sound as such. Too many take them lightly.
To me, the term "Committed Relationship" means that you are willing to keep yourself for that one special person, both emotionally and sexually.
"The sun always sets,
The moon always falls,
It feels like the end,
Just pay no mind at all,
Keep rolling, rolling,
Life must go on"
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To me, the term "Committed Relationship" means that you are willing to keep yourself for that one special person, both emotionally and sexually.

That's pretty much how I feel but there must be guys in more liberal relationsips that they consider committed. Couples have threesomes or group sex without any problems, so is it just keeping to agreed limits that's the commitment
put it this way...if i were in one, i wouldn't be here. :P