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Quote by Lassédevanille
Hi everyone, so this has been driving me crazy... my boyfriend and i live together we've been together for 7 months now known each other for 2 years though anyways... it first started about 4 months ago, he was going down on me (which we both love). Usually when he does he gets me to cum and then either ill go down on him or we will start at it. This time he kept going, going of course didn't complain and had a 2nd orgasm. I couldn't take it anymore and said "please baby just fuck me, i want you inside me so badly" so he got on top but he wasn't hard just slightly. So i went down on him and he couldn't get it up.... he got very upset stormed out of the room and for 2 days after was stand offish and i told him not to worry about it that its normal from time to time ( atlthough i had never been with any one with that problem) i tried to reassure him it was no big deal. He said he felt ashamed he couldn't satisfy me.....i have however noticed when we have sex he doesnt ever really get rock hard just 80% hard and he still cums and so do i. Honestly we have a very active and open and fulfilling sex life but is it normal for him to not get 100% hard? I thought maybe he has performance anxiety but its been 7 months together. Hes 31 attractive guy. Im a nurse so i know the signs of low testosterone levels which he may show some early signs of. I of course have played the girl card and thought maybe hes not attracted to me but i am fortunate and am attractivr. Actually to be honest im probably slightly out of his league when 9 it comes to looks. I am 5`9 127 lbs. Tan olive skin B size chest long dirty blonde hair blue eyes nice smile and i go to the gym 4 days a week so you know my ass is in shape lol. Is it possible that he could be showing signs of early erectile dysfunction?
Quote by kyliekained
If he is worried about his penis size this could well be the root of his problem. Does he read porn books and think that every guy other than him is super dick?
Quote by DirtyMartini
Yeah, I've been having performance anxiety ever since I joined Lush and found out that the average guy is packing a rock hard 14 inches...
Was curious how you came up with that 80% figure btw...and feel free to post more pictures while you're at it...![]()
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Quote by Lassédevanille
And we have a pretty busy routine not sure how much time he'd have to jerk off with out me there. I leave at 7 am he leaves at 730.
He gets off work at 5, and hits the gym gets home usually around 630 i get off and am home a few minutes after 7.
Were pretty much on the same schedule. He only has his i phone for internet at home and his work lap top at work which he can't be browsing at porn cause its regulated.
Last night he had another full on erection but it took about 5 minutes to get him hard. But once he was it was 100%
Quote by Jason_NYC
Glad you found a work around! Sounds like a case of performance anxiety, and being buzzed reduces it.
One other explanation, he's been jerking off too much while reading Lush. I'm serious. If he's of a certain age... say past his mid-20s, this COULD be hurting his performance. Just saying.
Quote by Lassédevanille
No no it took 5 minutes to get him rock hard but i wanted to see how long he could hold the erection that hard so i would get him to the verge and then let up. I continued on with this for an hour until i felt bad that i teased him that long so i gave in and got him to cum. But he kept the erection the entire time so that to me says its not a physical problem......it does take him a little longer when hes not tipsy to get it up though compared to my previous lovers but i guess every mans different. Ever since i took the pressure off everything, i just got him a bit tipsy and told him dont worry about me just enjoy its all about you tonight. Things have gotten better, hes been sexting me all day so ill cue everyone in on how tonight goes.
Quote by Ardentmalei should write a story and post it on here
Sounds like things are looking up!! haha... Do keep us informed, we want details!!! hahaha... hmmmm I see a lush story in her future....lol