would you ever sleep with another man if your man wanted to watch?

8 Dec 2011

i have requested this of a few of my past girlfriends, none of which were open to the idea. however one of my ex's expressed how utterly kinky she was, after we had split, and now i wish i had taken advantage of that. so please....feedback is appreciated. thanks

8 Dec 2011

My reply may not be the best to gauge your replies by since Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for many years!

But to answer your question, YES! As I know it will get him off! Much like I enjoy seeing him with another woman!

Kisses!

Steph

8 Dec 2011

Surprise, surprise....Nope

I've always been attracted to men who are a bit possessive and who don't share well. Also, I don't find the idea appealing at all.

8 Dec 2011

mabye

8 Dec 2011

I don't think he would ever ask me to,, he enjoys when we have another male watching,, but I doubt he would want to sit out on the action. But I mean if he really wanted something like that,, I would do it,, but I don't think I could really get into it. dontknow

8 Dec 2011

thinking on that one, but then again, what's there to think about??

9 Dec 2011

yes....I would invite him back to our bed too

9 Dec 2011

Absolutely but sadly he never will

Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

9 Dec 2011

never ever

10 Dec 2011

thank you for all of the replies. and i am getting the general consensus is that it depends completely on the person, as does everything else in life.

poizen- why wont he??
Dazzling- i think most women couldnt get into it, if they were really committed to the relationship. my question is, when does lust prevail over love if the love is strong enough? or should it ever?

10 Dec 2011

I don't think I could. Part of being in a relationship, for me, is allowing myself to be completely vulnerable with that one person. To do that with someone else would be beyond me.

10 Dec 2011

i sure would but i dont think he would ever be into it

10 Dec 2011

Hubby and i have talked about it at length and i would do it...

11 Dec 2011

Being lesbian ...
IF a woman I was with wanted to see me with another woman ... why not ? To be with a guy? No way.

11 Dec 2011

We have talked about it and we almost certainly will at some time, but not yet.

11 Dec 2011

Severely doubt the day would ever come when my b/f asked me to sleep with another man - but the hell ... I wish it would.

11 Dec 2011

With another man? Not very likely at all.
But with another woman? Less unlikely.

"Don't Believe Everything You Think"

11 Dec 2011

Maybe...

12 Dec 2011

hmmmm.....i don't think i could/would actually fuck another man while my boyfriend watched but i would def be into flirting, picking up another guy and maybe giving him a blowjob etc. while my boyfriend watched.

12 Dec 2011

I'm not in a relationship at the moment so I don't have a man as such. However, No! I don't think I would. Not while he was watching anyway. Threesomes or more are OK when you are single but they can put a strain on a relationship. If your relationship can handle it though, I say go for it! LOL Alison

12 Dec 2011

I've thought about two guys before but don't know if I'd just sleep with a guy and let my partner watch unless it was his all time fantasy. If he'd join in then it would be yes

12 Dec 2011

nope... I'd be thinking too much about what if he changes his mind - when he can't. I would never let him sleep with another woman.

12 Dec 2011

Yes for sure , if it pleases him and I fancy the guy ....why not everyone wins ....

15 Dec 2011

Maybe double standards, I would sleep with another guy but would goad if he went with another woman.

15 Dec 2011

Of course! I have many times and my husband loves to watch me and I love to watch him with another woman too. I love the look on her face as my husband gives her pleasure.

4 Jan 2012

Have once. And we went through a rough patch working out the after ripples....

4 Jan 2012

Have once. And had a very rough patch as we worked through the after-ripples. Having said that...with better planning, yes I would again.

4 Jan 2012

We have once, it wasn't all that great. Now with another woman, OH YEA