It's not something that you'd normally call someone directly is it? In its purest form it's a label so would be used in a discussion by lads about women. A MILF is passive - a target of lust, whereas a Cougar is an active older lady on the prowl for younger meat. Stifler's Mom in American Pie is a blend of the two.
It wouldn’t worry me one way or the other although I’m not a mother.
I think it’s a silly label, probably aimed at mature women, but the fact is the range of ages that a woman can be a mother can be anywhere from her teens to her forties. A woman is either attractive or not, I don't see what difference being a mother makes.
What makes me laugh is the reverse nature of this label, meaning that the guys who like MILFS are in fact motherfuckers.
errrrm NO!!! it'd add an extra swing to my hips and a lift to my mood.....! Its great to feel desired, wanted and hot.....!
Calling me a MILF is an incredible compliment!!!
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