Women and Lush friends

Texasguy2015

Active Ink Slinger

0 likes 1 Jan 2015

I'm pretty new here, but in my short time of poking around Lush, I notice a tremendous number of women here that are not welcoming to men as friends or anything for that matter. I can somewhat understand if you are only into women but even then, what is the issue with making friends with men? Personally, I am welcoming to anyone with like-minded interests. So my question really is, when you cut to the chase, do men (in general) alienate our whole gender with their social behavior online? I'm not a woman and don't really understand what it's like to be in your shoes in an online community like this.

Magik

Advanced Wordsmith

0 likes 2 Jan 2015

Quote by Texasguy2015
I'm pretty new here, but in my short time of poking around Lush, I notice a tremendous number of women here that are not welcoming to men as friends or anything for that matter. I can somewhat understand if you are only into women but even then, what is the issue with making friends with men? Personally, I am welcoming to anyone with like-minded interests. So my question really is, when you cut to the chase, do men (in general) alienate our whole gender with their social behavior online? I'm not a woman and don't really understand what it's like to be in your shoes in an online community like this.

I created a thread with a similar topic as this, it is what I have found as well.

Guest

Lurker

0 likes 2 Jan 2015

I haven't found a woman (so far) on Lush that I haven't had a pleasant encounter with here on Lush. But there are some predator guys that can be annoying. Just because I sign in on Lush doesn't mean that I want to drop my panties and have a sexual encounter with some body on line, as it appears that some guys think. But, if you check out my friends, you can see that I like both. I have had some lovely discussions (sexual and non sexual) with some of my male friends here.

Texasguy2015

Active Ink Slinger

0 likes 3 Jan 2015

I've had a chance to chat with a few people over the last couple day and see how some guys can be predatory in their ways. It's too bad but makes complete sense to me given that.

Guest

Lurker

0 likes 3 Jan 2015

I like making friends with men...

It's really hard to find a nice one on here and it can be really upsetting going through the process of finding them amongst all the nasty ones. You get weary.

A lot of chaps I've spoken to are cold and really don't care who you are, that's soooo not sexy. Most press their own fantasies on you so that I get the impression they say the same thing no matter who they're talking to.

Anyway, I'm moaning, I've met a handful of nice ones, it's not worth only speaking to girls because then I'd be missing out on those few nice ones that are there. Also, I'm straight so I don't have a lot of choice smile