It's probably guys pretending to be girls so they can talk with the bi girls. lol
80% of those profiles have net images claiming it's pics of them anyway.
As you've already read, don't believe everything you read in a profile. The other thing to consider is the possibility that some of these women (who actually are women) are young (yes, read that as immature). They could be not so much bitter as intimidated by the aggression or skill of the men who are trying to pick their locks. But mostly I think they're guys who want to entice women (who are probably other guys in disguise) to talk with them. For some of the others who say 'no guys', if you PM them and impress them with your niceness and they get used to you not being a creep, they might invite you to be a friend. I haven't seen many women's profiles that have absolutely no men among their friends.
sometimes u get messages from guys who say."hey i got a big dick" & for that bried moment... as u are doing your profile...(or updating it) u think wtf...screw them all
but then u get lovely messages from 99 % of u..who are sexy & smart..& u love whom u have met here
what i am saying is this....some of us ladies are here to read..to talk about sex..to to learn...not to get sexted by some kid who thinks sexy is a big dick
so maybe a tiny bit of them are like i am fork done people..just the girls please
so that....could be the rage...
Why read so much into this? Maybe people are being honest and want to be upfront about things. I haven't uncovered many angry people here of either sex.
There has been a number or forum questions relating to this question although worded differently so I have given this some thought and here is my opinion.
Firstly I'm a bi-sexual female, however I have no problem exchanging messages with men and would never exclude them or say girls only. I'm not big on online chat and I don't do cyber sex with anyone.
Go onto Lush or any other adult social networking website on a Friday or Saturday night and if there is a high number of very hot young women who claim to be lesbian or bisexual with some equally hot photos just ask yourself one simple question:
Why would some hot looking young babe be home alone on a Friday or Saturday night flirting or cybering with anyone when normally they would be out on the town having a good time with people from their own age group?
I'll let you decide on your own answer but here's some suggestions: Lying about age, looks, size, fake photos, or even sex.
I think it's grossly unfair to suggest that any girl who puts on their profile that they'd rather just chat to girls is a guy pretending to be a lesbian! I first had an account here at the beginning of the year and (even tho I don't have naked pics of myself or overtly sexy pics up) I got inundated with chat requests and messages from guys being incredibly blatant about what they'd like to do to me and all sorts of other things. I just went with it and figured "well hey it's a sex site after all" but when I left and came back, I added "I AM A LESBIAN" onto my profile in an effort to ward off the more persistent and determined males who were just looking for some cyber action, and it's worked! I certainly don't get as many chat requests from random guys any more!
I do have a guy friend, he messaged me first and we chatted and he's a really good guy and a valued friend now, but he's only 1 out of 200 in case you think I'm being hypocrytical!
So that's why I did it and the result was positive. I just wanted to post that so anyone who reads this thread can see there are genuine girls who just wanna chat to girls and not be hassled!
Incidentally I don't go into the chat rooms either, they do seem like open season on anything female!
I'm bisexual and have no problem talking with either sex. In fact, since I've been here, which hasn't been that long, I've only spoke with men. Most of the lesbian or bisexual profiles I have visited do say "men only". I have also noticed that a lot of them are young (18 or 19).
There could be a lot of reasons and most of them have already been mentioned, but I think the majority of them probably say that on their profile because they don't want to be bothered and it does get old having to tell guys over and over again that you aren't interested.
I had that problem on another site I belonged to, so I had to resort to that, which I don't really like to do. I like talking to guys, but when the majority on a site start acting like horny cave men, it's not worth talking to them IMO.
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The thing that perplexes me the most is the bisexual women who want nothing to do with men. Why not just label yourselves as lesbian, then? Being a bisexual woman, I'm open to either sex. However I don't do the cyber sex thing because I've come to the realization that most people just don't do it right. I specify this in my profile WITHOUT coming across as bashing anyone. And in turn, I think there's a way to specify your sexual preferences without bashing a particular sex.
I've said this before and I'll keep saying it: I UNDERSTAND how frustrating it is to be hounded by a guy that can't take a hint. And therefore it just makes us women frustrated and hostile and defensive. However, there's no need to bite the head off of every man that tries to strike up a conversation with us. Lush isn't JUST about sex. It's also a social sex site, which is what I think makes it unique. Believe it or not, there are people here that are interested in us as HUMAN and not just sexual beings. Nearly every guy I've come across on Lush has tried to hit on me in some form or another, but once I made it clear that I wasn't interested, it didn't take away from the conversational aspect of our association. So there's a way to stay true to your preferences for either sex WITHOUT completely warding them off.
So just because you're not attracted to men doesn't mean they don't make for good conversationalists if nothing else.
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I'm bisexual and I personally haven't usually got a problem talking to the men here, but I completely understand why some women might not want to speak to men; since I joined 5 or 6 days ago I've been bombarded with requests for nude pictures and cybersex, all these requests came from men and frankly, it's exhausting! In fact I even considered changing my orientation on here to lesbian to try and avoid this.
I know not everyone here is like that, I've spoken to many who lovely to talk to, but surely you can understand that women don't want to be constantly asked for pictures, videos, cybersex, roleplay...
most of the men here, the ones i have gotten to know, the ones who have become part of the community, are nice - they're fun, sexy, sweet, and they are respectful - like any other on-line community, there are those who just troll, looking for cyber, or whatever, but they are easy to weed out without a lot of drama and i've never felt the need to to all man-hater in my profile. in fact, i think it's kind of silly.
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I'm with Sprite. After you are on here for a while, its pretty easy to spot the people (of both sexes) who are looking for a "wham bam thank you ma'am" experience. I do get a kick out of the bios that say, "I don't do this, I don't do that, don't even think of asking me to do that other thing, and oh I am only into gals". It must take them twenty minutes to order dinner. (I want the dressing on the side, and can I subsitute a small salad for the potato, etc.) I also agree with Sprite that most people here are basically nice, but sometimes horniness makes even nice people do weird shit. (Why are you all looking at me that way?)
Regardless of what someone's sexual preference is, it should be respected.
Yes, a bisexual woman is attracted to both sexes but that doesn't mean she is actively seeking both. She may already have a partnership with a man or woman and is only actively seeking a woman if she is already with a man (and vice versa). Or maybe she IS single and just wants to talk to women. That's her choice. It's not okay to make assumptions that bisexual women SHOULD and MUST talk to both men and women.
And besides, aren't there enough straight women on here to talk to without worrying why the lesbians and some bisexual women aren't interested in men? Seems to me if their profile has "NO MEN" all over it, you just move on and talk to a woman that truly wants to talk to you.
haha ok yeah... I admit i've had a few goes at men in chatrooms for saying hi. But I was fully justified, there are some men who go into the chatrooms and say hi to every female in there and if she says hi back, within the next 3 exchanges (if he gets that far) he's asking her to PVT. Pisses me off haha.
but yeah what @onthebound said. there are heaps of straight girls to talk to.