I have asked a number of questions to the guys since I've been here and received informative answers, all my questions were research based to help me write stories, if and when a new question I have springs to mind which hasn't already been asked I will ask it.
Just throwing in my 2 cents.
A lot of women feel more comfortable getting advice from other women, which of course is a little whacky since no one knows a man's body or mind better than a man.
Also a lot of women believe they are already great lovers. There men never complain about how they perform orally or how they ride them when screwing so they must be good at it. But a man will rarely complain about sex over fear of not getting any.
So a tip for the women. Ask questions like a man does. We are trying to figure out how to be better lovers and more pleasurable to our partners not just because it's really important to us, we also want women to have the same thirst for greater gratification of all parties involved.
Heh. I've thought about this since I posted earlier.
I hesitate to even enter the male forum because when I just post stories I get hit on by dozens of random men. Imagine the response if I publicly channeled my curiosity. I'd have to crawl into a ghost hole and stay there.
(Someone said this already and it's a true point. The responses and readers are two different puddles)
The only thin I recall wanting to ask was 'what does a male orgasm feel like' I ended up reading a lot of erotica written by men, and that was informative enough. I have a 4.0, and write erotica. I'd feel freaking stupid actually asking that. I also bet that a lot of the responses would be 'it feels good!'
Lets not forget the frequent questions involved with anal play. However a lot of guys also answer on the female sub forum.
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Gosh, what a mess some folks make around here stirring up a fuss. All these questions. I don't know what the world is coming to, I mean... As long as a girl gives good head, takes it up the tradesman's entrance and lets a guy plop his clogs all over her face now and again, tut, tut, tut... the world be a much happier place.
They've made a right old mess here... I'll go and get a dust pan and brush, probably need a mop as well...
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Most of the questions I've posed (admittedly with tongue firmly in cheek), have been in replies to other questions such as trying to lighten up the never ending pubic hair debate by asking if after all these stated preferences about shaved pubic hair women like half shaven faces on men (which is a current trend) grazing their tender and recently shaved nether regions. Unfortunately nobody replied it must have been one of the less simple questions about men. I totally agree with the yawn factor about sexual questions like pubic hair, breast size, cock size and the one about swallowing cum etc. In fact I often wonder why they keep resurfacing (no pun intended) as I'm sure we all have the general idea now that women and men have different bodies. To digress slightly and boast I was just grabbed by 2 young women and dragged into the health food shop. They made me hold a device a little like a Sony Play Station, weighed me (60 kilos), measured my height (1.7 metres,) and then told me I was perfect, didn't look my age (but still didn't try to sell me anything) and asked that if I had any obese friends to please recommend they come and get tested for .. and then they used some modern acronym which I've forgotten along with all the other ones.
because girls will tell you their thoughts, guys tell you what you want to hear to get in your pants
This has been the funniest thing that I've read all day.
God, I needed a laugh.
Everything I could possibly say has already been said, quite eloquently. But, god above, I just had to say "thank you" for the chuckle. Hehe.
"Good writing is supposed to evoke sensation in the reader - not the fact that it is raining, but the feeling of being rained upon." -E.L. Doctorow
There is no way to post here without looking like an idiot....lmao
i agree with your observation, but i would say that in recompense for asking fewer questions, the gals tend to ask better and more interesting ones. a lot of the q's guys post sound like they come less from a place of curiosity than a way to try and find someone to cyber with.
and btw, i should probably clarify and say i thought this was a damn awesome question.
Not that I'm a gal...
Perhaps the female demographic on the site is smaller? I don't know the actual percentages (and adjusting for people who don't report their actual gender and/or sex), but perhaps that's affecting it. Could be just the culture of the site. I don't know. Just throwing out ideas.
