I think it depends on the types of girls your talking about too. There are nice girls out there, looking for a nice guy, it's just sometimes they're shy or quiet. Just because the flamboyant girl who catch your eye isn't interested, doesn't mean the girl behind her isn't.
But bad boys do supply one thing in spades... adrenalin.
I'm not saying nice guys can't be exciting, only that they are understanding and compassionate, which takes away some of that adrenalin rush.
I've read everyone's posting on this and all I can say is I've never been lucky enough to have a girl even say hi to me or respond with a kick to my nuts for simply offering to buy her a drink. I have always given women my respect but it's never really gotten me anywhere so I guess I'm just stuck alone (no drama) but hey I still have my stories, not that anyone will read them to the nice guys my hat goes off to you to the ladies a simple bow to your beauty and grace that others do not see or merely overlook
Well ladies I fall into both categories..I respect you if you respect me...and I am confident and will lay done my life to protect you while you are in my company......
I want a nice guy that treats me very well, until he gets in the bedroom then I want someone that is sexually adventerous.
I have never passed up a nice guy in favor of a bad boy. In fact I really dislike cocky jerks. (Their is a massive difference between cocky and confident.) I like the kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to your parents. P.S. Ladies, guys like that don't change, YOU CAN'T CHANGE THEM, and its a waste of time trying.
I dont get this either! I feel like all my friends like the Ass holes and jerks. Its frustrating. Me I love the nice guys. Sweet guys, shy one, mama's boys and ones who can be a little shy. I know plenty of nice guys that still have confidence and that are protective with out being cocky jerks who are full of themselves. Such a turn off when guys act like that. Personality is key. I don't care hoe good looking everyone thinks they are if they have a piss poor attitude. They just get uglier in my eyes but an okay looking guy can look the most attractive if they are nice and have a good personality.
I prefer a nice guy, so I couldn't tell you.
i married my nice guy and so have all my friends and girls i know so..
i dont think its true that nice guys always get passed over but then again it depends on what you define as a nice guy- some nice guys are confident, fun interesting men and those will always find a good girl if they want to but others are insecure, needy and total door mats and no self respecting woman really wants that.
also there is another factor: a lot of times guys (nice guys too) pick a girl who herself isnt very nice or mature enough to appreciate them and then are surprised when she doesnt want them..
Dude, I have no idea why. Its happened to me before -____-
I'm sure it's confusing when you hear women complain that they want romance and sensitivity, but then here we are jumping the bones of the asshole we are complaining about. The truth, the God's honest truth...Nice is boring. No matter how hot the guy is, if he is too perfect, too sweet, and there is no spontaneity, nothing to challenge us and gets our blood boiling a little bit, then he falls into the dreaded "friend zone".
It's known as the "friend zone" just like in the movie, Just Friends. It's hilarious, rent it. Anyway, it explains how a guy can easily make himself into a Mr. Roger's goober by being too nice, too agreeable, and down right needy.
