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I've noticed on Lush, Qs like this tend to label women as either skinny or curvy. The word 'skinny' tends to suggest a bone-thin couture runway model physicality... which, I think most men (and women) don't find as particularly sexy. There is a difference between 'skinny' and slender, IMO. For example, what kind of body types do men consider a Victoria Secret model or a Playboy model have? Do people consider that body type as 'skinny' and therefore unattractive? I think the masses would disagree based on the raging success of those magazines and catalogues.
Women take note of the female bodies that men seem to drool over the most and try to approximate them in whatever way possible. If you go for a Hollywood ideal, is Megan Fox considered too 'skinny'? I don't think most women are thinking men want women smaller than that size... just my opinion though. There are some hyper body conscious women that will take it too far because of body dysmorphia or related issues etc.
But first, I think we need a better definition of what is considered 'skinny'.
I've always been against women attaining an ideal they can't maintain in the long term. I will always believe that 'healthy' is what makes a woman 'sexy'.
Women take note of the female bodies that men seem to drool over the most and try to approximate them in whatever way possible. If you go for a Hollywood ideal, is Megan Fox considered too 'skinny'? I don't think most women are thinking men want women smaller than that size... just my opinion though. There are some hyper body conscious women that will take it too far because of body dysmorphia or related issues etc.
But first, I think we need a better definition of what is considered 'skinny'.
I've always been against women attaining an ideal they can't maintain in the long term. I will always believe that 'healthy' is what makes a woman 'sexy'.
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I don't think I am all that sexy and I am really tall 5'10" and used to be way thin. I think I look a little better with some weight on me.
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I agree with Doll.
Many women are very body conscious and the reason they are is because of the way society tells them they should look and being slightly bigger or small is wrong. The whole size zero craze was mental over here in the UK.. girls walking around looking half starved…. I know most models in magazines are air brushed, but i feel this whole body craze that’s going on is what is causing so many young women and teenagers to have eating disorders over here. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think being overweight is a good thing either, and I agree that being sexy is about being happy with how you look and staying healthy and eating well….
But yeah.. I have a huge issue with how certain images are portrayed to young people as what is normal.
So on that note my reply is... I feel one main reasons women think skinny or slim is the absolute norm is because it’s the media and other aspects of their lives that show it to be so.. OK il shut up now
Women take note of the female bodies that men seem to drool over the most and try to approximate them in whatever way possible
Many women are very body conscious and the reason they are is because of the way society tells them they should look and being slightly bigger or small is wrong. The whole size zero craze was mental over here in the UK.. girls walking around looking half starved…. I know most models in magazines are air brushed, but i feel this whole body craze that’s going on is what is causing so many young women and teenagers to have eating disorders over here. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think being overweight is a good thing either, and I agree that being sexy is about being happy with how you look and staying healthy and eating well….
But yeah.. I have a huge issue with how certain images are portrayed to young people as what is normal.
So on that note my reply is... I feel one main reasons women think skinny or slim is the absolute norm is because it’s the media and other aspects of their lives that show it to be so.. OK il shut up now
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My little Sister Dancing Doll very close to right on the mark. Healthy weight for your body frame is sexy. We all know that DD could never be passed on the street without every man noticing her and many of us girls. I am not as slim as she is and have larger hips and larger breasts and yes I am more than 10 years older. But this I promise you this even at this age I get plenty of attention. Our Mom is 64 and still get hit on!!!
Maybe it is more in attitude and the packaging of what God gave each of us.
Maybe it is more in attitude and the packaging of what God gave each of us.
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I like curves... there so much sexier then bones!
"I appreciate this whole seduction thing you've got going on here, but let me give you a tip: I'm a sure thing." - Vivian Ward (Julia Roberts) in Pretty Women
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I've noticed on Lush, Qs like this tend to label women as either skinny or curvy. The word 'skinny' tends to suggest a bone-thin couture runway model physicality... which, I think most men (and women) don't find as particularly sexy. There is a difference between 'skinny' and slender, IMO. For example, what kind of body types do men consider a Victoria Secret model or a Playboy model have? Do people consider that body type as 'skinny' and therefore unattractive? I think the masses would disagree based on the raging success of those magazines and catalogues.
Women take note of the female bodies that men seem to drool over the most and try to approximate them in whatever way possible. If you go for a Hollywood ideal, is Megan Fox considered too 'skinny'? I don't think most women are thinking men want women smaller than that size... just my opinion though. There are some hyper body conscious women that will take it too far because of body dysmorphia or related issues etc.
But first, I think we need a better definition of what is considered 'skinny'.
I've always been against women attaining an ideal they can't maintain in the long term. I will always believe that 'healthy' is what makes a woman 'sexy'.
Ahhhhh... definitions, shdefinitions. It's all in the eye of the beholder, Madame. But seriously, size does not matter much. Appearance does matter. But appearance is not just tits and ass. If you asked me what the two things are most likely to make a women beautiful (go on, ask me), then I would say happiness and self-confidence. A sense of humour, if I may sneak in a third. Brains? Yes, brains are sexy, too. When my wife's eyes light up and she's about to tell me about something funny, she is so lovely. She looks nice at other times too, but when she lights up, she's fantastic.
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My little Sister Dancing Doll very close to right on the mark. Healthy weight for your body frame is sexy. We all know that DD could never be passed on the street without every man noticing her and many of us girls. I am not as slim as she is and have larger hips and larger breasts and yes I am more than 10 years older. But this I promise you this even at this age I get plenty of attention. Our Mom is 64 and still get hit on!!!
Maybe it is more in attitude and the packaging of what God gave each of us.
What a lovely bottom. I'm glad it's not skinny. Is it okay for me to say this?