why do lush's lesbians rarely add men to their friends list ?

17 Mar 2014

Quote by pizdamuncher5

as for not having male friends its not something i would actively do however if i was requested i may consider the request.

I suppose lesbians also MAY consider the request and decide on the merit of it.
I thought that the idea of befriending was to show that you are attracted to that person sexually, mentally or both. So if it's obviously not going to be sexual then it must be you've shown any compatability to be on their wavelength.
I don't even know why it bothers you, you seem to have a big enough harem already!
I hope it's not as some sort of trophy.

17 Mar 2014

Honestly, please this does not include all men, the guys on lush are rude and degrading. I wish I had a dollar for every message I get, asking if I am horny, complementing me on my tits, or something sexual. Most guys think that because a woman is on this site, they are sluts and horny, however that is not always the case. I choose to add more women than men because with a lady there can be intelligent conversations with out having to play 20 questions about my sexuality and experiences.

17 Mar 2014

Well put Allie! I am blessed to have more than a couple Lesbien friends here. There is so much more to talk about than just sex. Just being friends and haveing nice conversations and people to leave you quick notes and know you or they are thinking of you means alot more really. I also might note people read to much into the game forums, and take things much to literal more often than not.

17 Mar 2014

Because there are a lot of fake lesbian in Lush. Actually they are miserable boys who cheat some lesbian in Lush and get some benefits in their imagine. It's interesting that some times they add boys like themselves.kmKnQUQOQ7dA04Jb. Every time I read a stressed statement that they won't add any boys at all I probably find out it is a poor fake boy. Fugly

18 Mar 2014

Perhaps this will help explain.

Innocent maybe but inapropriate.s3AE0Lx7ij3jjhHj

18 Mar 2014

Quote by alliebug69
Honestly, please this does not include all men, the guys on lush are rude and degrading. I wish I had a dollar for every message I get, asking if I am horny, complementing me on my tits, or something sexual. Most guys think that because a woman is on this site, they are sluts and horny, however that is not always the case. I choose to add more women than men because with a lady there can be intelligent conversations with out having to play 20 questions about my sexuality and experiences.

I support your comment - just a note though there are some guys on here that I have found to be nice, intelligent and respectful. For example: DPW, John C, Scriptwriter66, Wardog to name a few.9U9jD0lXSc2UuNvD icon_smile

29 Mar 2014

I have had some very nice comments on my stories and messages etc from some of the men on this site, however the vast majority who have tried to contact me have made pretty disgusting comments straight up or a have descended to that level within a couple of minutes if I've responded to them. Opening comments like "Can I fuck you?" or "Can I fill you with my cum?" do not inspire me to respond!

I know there are polite and respectful men on this site, but unfortunately they are so lost amongst the rude and disrespectful majority, that it makes it very hard to spot them.

EDIT - Nine months on from my original post (above) I'm pleased to say that my faith has been pretty much restored. I have made some lovely male friends here since then.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/fetish/worship-my-bum.aspx
My new story has been awarded the Recommended Read. If you adore a needy bottom and fancy a short, but very naughty read...

30 Mar 2014

Quote by Mr_Huffty

so are you saying lesbians cant, wont, or shouldnt chat to men ?
oh and by the way this forum was ask the girls, the clue is in the word girls but cheers all the same to you and overmykneenow

When I noticed this thread on the main page it didn't say 'ask the girl's ' and it wasn't asking whether lesbians can't, won't or shouldn't chat to men, but why they don't add males to their friends list... just sayin

11 Jan 2015

Quote by Guest
it bugs me because i just like chatting to women regardless of their sexual orientation and despite being a man I can read the word LESBIAN and understand its implications anyway Cheers to all women out there

You don't always get what you like, especially with that ava and nick your're having. And my aim to join Lush was to meet women; you shouldn't get fussy about that.