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Why do girls hate anal sex?
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It can be great but it must be done very gently wilth lots of lube. Very gently..
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Quote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
Agreed completely.............
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A naive statement to say everybody hates it and 'wants to destroy it'.
You have obviously NOT talked to very many girls.
If you think anal sex will hurt; it will.
The girl HAS to want to try it & the guy has to not think the girl is a porn star.
It takes trust, patience, relaxation & lube.
Lush stories treat anal sex as if it is easy & it is not.
You have obviously NOT talked to very many girls.
If you think anal sex will hurt; it will.
The girl HAS to want to try it & the guy has to not think the girl is a porn star.
It takes trust, patience, relaxation & lube.
Lush stories treat anal sex as if it is easy & it is not.
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not all girls hate anal. it is actually extremely pleasurable if done gently with lube. i suggest to try something like a finger in there first if the girl has never tried anal to get her used to the feeling.
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I think some women who say that are afraid of it. Or they may have had a partner that was rough. The ladies above are right. When first starting out with anal it CANNOT be done roughly. The partner, I will say the man, has to be slow and gentle. The tissues are delicate and does not self lubricate like the vagina.
The first time I had anal, my partner was rough and inconsiderate. It took me a long time to want to try it again. My next anal partner was slow and patient. Every step was done in super slo-mo until I felt comfortable, it was amazing. As a consequence I enjoy anal to this day.
I wish my first partner wasn't such a totally selfish prick, I would have been enjoying anal for many more years.
The first time I had anal, my partner was rough and inconsiderate. It took me a long time to want to try it again. My next anal partner was slow and patient. Every step was done in super slo-mo until I felt comfortable, it was amazing. As a consequence I enjoy anal to this day.
I wish my first partner wasn't such a totally selfish prick, I would have been enjoying anal for many more years.
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I think some women who say that are afraid of it. Or they may have had a partner that was rough. The ladies above are right. When first starting out with anal it CANNOT be done roughly. The partner, I will say the man, has to be slow and gentle. The tissues are delicate and does not self lubricate like the vagina.
The first time I had anal, my partner was rough and inconsiderate. It took me a long time to want to try it again. My next anal partner was slow and patient. Every step was done in super slo-mo until I felt comfortable, it was amazing. As a consequence I enjoy anal to this day.
I wish my first partner wasn't such a totally selfish prick, I would have been enjoying anal for many more years.
The first time I had anal, my partner was rough and inconsiderate. It took me a long time to want to try it again. My next anal partner was slow and patient. Every step was done in super slo-mo until I felt comfortable, it was amazing. As a consequence I enjoy anal to this day.
I wish my first partner wasn't such a totally selfish prick, I would have been enjoying anal for many more years.
"The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity." Thank goodness!
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Beckey is spot on. Your partner needs to be very patient. You need to use lots and lots of lubricant and keep getting more. Start small with a finger or thin vibrator and RELAX her....make sure everything is ok before you go any further. You need to be very patient and not expect the first time to be a home run. This takes practice and the key is lubrication and relaxation in my experience. If she is relaxed and the lubrication is there things can work out quite well. Combining a talented tongue on her clit with a finger or thin vibrator in the bum can result in explosive orgasms the likes of which I don't think you can really get many other ways.
Each to there own ... some girls don't like giving oral to there guy, some guys don't like giving oral to there woman ...
Really no big deal ... I except we are who we r and to expect is not a good way to be in a relationship.
From past experience, I'd have to suggest the comments above by the ladies are spot on ... slowly, gently and lube but done correctly many woman enjoy anal and include a rabbit/vib for the extra pleasure, but this is a womans decision ... not a mans!
Really no big deal ... I except we are who we r and to expect is not a good way to be in a relationship.
From past experience, I'd have to suggest the comments above by the ladies are spot on ... slowly, gently and lube but done correctly many woman enjoy anal and include a rabbit/vib for the extra pleasure, but this is a womans decision ... not a mans!
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Thanks to Lush !! Anal is a relatively new experience for me.
I can't imagine 'giving' myself in a more intimate way, and the closeness resulting from it, is in itself is a major turn on in my opinion. I agree, total trust in your partner is key, but if you can get it right together, it's mind-blowing.
I can't imagine 'giving' myself in a more intimate way, and the closeness resulting from it, is in itself is a major turn on in my opinion. I agree, total trust in your partner is key, but if you can get it right together, it's mind-blowing.
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I don't "hate" it but I really have to be in the mood. I have had guy's beg for it and I have said no. Also, I have demanded it and of course the guy complied. Anal sex is pure raw sex. There is nothing romantic about it. I have no problem giving a guy instructions to make sure I enjoy it and he better follow them.
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One partner was rough with me, and I got turned off to anal completely.
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Quote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
But yeah, it's naive to say that all girls hate it. Maybe you're just going about it wrong
Quote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
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Quote by allenfreed
I don't think anal is very romantic
but it is very primal and not for every woman...
Well I must be lucky, cause I've certainly found the romance in it!
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You should get the facts before you make such a broad statement!!
I happen to love anal. I will admit at first it was a little painful but once I got used to it and the guy was gentle and not just "pile driving" my ass, it became very pleasurable. The key is be very lubed and relaxed, to first use fingers and toys to get used to the feeling and to be with someone who excites you very much. I enjoy it with men and especially with women. Nothing like getting fucked anally with a strap-on while she also plays with my clit. Or having my pussy licked while I am filled anally with a dildo or anal beads!! My best orgasms have cum while also getting some type of anal stimulation.
I happen to love anal. I will admit at first it was a little painful but once I got used to it and the guy was gentle and not just "pile driving" my ass, it became very pleasurable. The key is be very lubed and relaxed, to first use fingers and toys to get used to the feeling and to be with someone who excites you very much. I enjoy it with men and especially with women. Nothing like getting fucked anally with a strap-on while she also plays with my clit. Or having my pussy licked while I am filled anally with a dildo or anal beads!! My best orgasms have cum while also getting some type of anal stimulation.
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Don't hate it but I have to be in the mood for it & it has to be with the right person or should I say with a person who knows how to do it right.
Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already!
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i think its not the 'anal sex she hates'.............its the way a guy is giving...that she might hate
Quote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
Quote by LittleBambiQuote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
agreed. unless a guy is willing to try something himself (or the equivalent of it) he shouldn't expect a girl to let him do it to her.
Quote by LittleBambiQuote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
agreed. unless a guy is willing to try something himself (or the equivalent of it) he shouldn't expect a girl to let him do it to her.
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Quote by LittleBambiQuote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
Wow, where are you girls finding such lame guys?
Wild at Heart
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by LittleBambiQuote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
Wow, where are you girls finding such lame guys?
This again...
Cum is gross to most guys, it's because it's cum. Whether it's his or not. It's cum, from a penis, attached to a man... With balls. Do you really want to see your man fucking eating his own cum or playing with it or some shit? Is that sexy now?
Some girls don't like licking a guy's butt-hole even thought they like having theirs licked... Is she lame? Or does she just not like man ass? How about ass to mouth? If I'm willing to lick a dildo that's been in a girls ass does it make the girl lame if she won't suck on my cock after anal sex? Same shit...
Wild at Heart
Quote by tightwetcuntQuote by LittleBambiQuote by MMonroeQuote by LittleBambiQuote by bsexy19
Look, I don't HATE it personally...but you try shoving something like a cucumber up your ass and tell me how much you like it? lol
The girl has a point. A lot of guys (no, not all) will expect girls to be willing to try anal sex...but a lot of guys (again, not all) would throw an absolute paddy if you suggested sticking something up their asses.
Never a truer word spoken. Same as guys expecting you to swallow yet look at you repulsed at the suggestion he tastes himself
YES. That gets right on my nerves. Or even better, they decide they want to cum somewhere on you (usually over your front) and then won't touch you??
agreed. unless a guy is willing to try something himself (or the equivalent of it) he shouldn't expect a girl to let him do it to her.
I know a girl that likes to literally sit on a guy's face everytime she has sex... So she should expect to have ass and taint on her mouth and nose and balls on her eyes or else she shouldn't expect to get her vagina and ass licked the way she likes?
Bullshit man...