Hi Ladies,
I am currently in a boring sexual relationship, life is ok otherwise. I used to have so much fun in the bedroom and anywhere i could really. I have gone from having sex/oral twice sometimes 3 times a day plus foreplay to having it once a month if that. There is no foreplay, my partner hates oral giving and receiving, only happy with 1 position not adventerous at all. What would you change in your relationship if anything. Have contemplated cheating, but in the end too much to lose if i did. Did also think about seeing an escort but they charge silly prices and extra for certain pleasures. I also have an issue with an ex messaging me all the time, she's still sort of interested, sending me nudes telling me what i'm missing, and yes i do know what we had was good but we could never be in a proper relationship. I also have a disability, nothing major as everything down below works well, but can get in the way on occasions.
Well, I'm looking forward to hearing about you and your sex life issues if any.
Sounds like you have an awful lot going on! Just before I answer your question, you haven't mentioned what you and your partner have discussed about the lack of quality as well as quantity of sex you have. You say you have considered all *your* other options but what about the options for you both? If you haven't already, talk to her about any reasons she might have for not showing as much interest, if there are any fantasies that she has which are unfulfilled? She may be open to an open relationship where you can add variety and that may lead to reigniting your passion between you both?
If you have tried all this already then ignore me, I just wonder because you have gone into detail about what you have thought about for yourself?
As for me, the only thing I would change about my sex life would be to actually have one! haha
If we could get rid of covid, and go back to the way things were, say in late 2019. The only thing I would change, if I could, would be to be invited into Bethany's bed for several nights of inhibited exploration.
What's a "sex life" ?? And Im serious about that !!
I think that I’d like mine and my wife’s sex drives to be more aligned. I’ve the higher sex drive and hers was lower and lowered further the past few years. I think if either of our libidos was closer to that of the there’s things would be a lot better. It’s the mismatch that is the problem.
as a couple people have said... I would like to have one. even once a month would be a total change.
Since covid its difficult. so since March i think actually having a regular one would help lol
