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what was the biggest male you've been with and does size really matter?
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I am guessing he was about a good 8 inches. I was not that experienced at the time, had just graduated high school and he was my 5 guy. Big, yes but it did not get really hard. To add to that he just could not get the job done. I think he figured that just having it in me for a couple of minutes would make me cum. He did, I didn't.
I was with a guy whose cock was so thick I couldn't wrap my hand all the way around it and I could barely get the head of it into my mouth. No way was I going to try sex. But just playing with it was a fun experience 
There are several different ways to interpret this question. First consider the word "really". The word can mean "in reality", or it could mean "to a great degree". Now consider the word "size". Most commonly, it refers to the measure of magnitude in general (What size are you?), but it can also refer to bigness (a sizable portion of food). With two different meanings for "really" and two different meanings for "size", there are four distinct ways to interpret this question. What women consider to be the ideal range for penis sizes varies from woman to woman. How important it is to us that our mate be within this range also varies from woman to woman. That said, I think it is safe to say that, among us women who enjoy having sex with men, all other things being equal, 99.9% of us would prefer partners with penises that are larger than or pinky finger but smaller than our forearm.
There are several different ways to interpret this question. First consider the word "really". The word can mean "in reality", or it could mean "to a great degree". Now consider the word "size". Most commonly, it refers to the measure of magnitude in general (What size are you?), but it can also refer to bigness (a sizable portion of food). With two different meanings for "really" and two different meanings for "size", there are four distinct ways to interpret this question. What women consider to be the ideal range for penis sizes varies from woman to woman. How important it is to us that our mate be within this range also varies from woman to woman. That said, I think it is safe to say that, among us women who enjoy having sex with men, all other things being equal, 99.9% of us would prefer partners with penises that are larger than or pinky finger but smaller than our forearm.
The man with whom I lost my virginity is huge. I have no idea how big, exactly, but big enough to be extremely painful to a young newbie to the whole process. Despite a few months of rehearsal I still never got to sit in his lap with him buried inside me as he wanted because his cock was just too long for that to happen.
EDIT- and as to whether size actually matters, in that instance I think it would have been more pleasurable and less painful if he was smaller.
Size does matter, but only at the extremes, IMO. Everything else is just technique.
EDIT- and as to whether size actually matters, in that instance I think it would have been more pleasurable and less painful if he was smaller.
Size does matter, but only at the extremes, IMO. Everything else is just technique.
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@Kelly, thanks for giving us average size guys some encouragement, porn and other media makes it seem women only want big penises.
I saw some where many women prefer average size men to marry but would like a few one night stands with an endowed man.
I saw some where many women prefer average size men to marry but would like a few one night stands with an endowed man.
Quote by KellyC317
I am guessing he was about a good 8 inches. I was not that experienced at the time, had just graduated high school and he was my 5 guy. Big, yes but it did not get really hard. To add to that he just could not get the job done. I think he figured that just having it in me for a couple of minutes would make me cum. He did, I didn't.
Old in chronological age. But young at heart and desire.
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I've never been with any guys whose size intimidated me, except for anal. Really thick guys are hard to blow, but they feel great in my pussy. While guys with skinny cocks feel great in my ass. Guys with short cocks are fun to suck. All cocks are good for something! ;-)
The largest cock that I ever got to play with was 9in length and about half a coke can of girth. I do so love a challenge. However, he was the most boring lover I have experienced. No imagination! He only knew 2 positions and 1 speed. I really think that the larger a man is, the less he thinks he has to "try". I have no preference when it comes to size. All I demand is confidence and for him to be able to keep up with my varying appetites.
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However, he was the most boring lover I have experienced. No imagination! He only knew 2 positions and 1 speed. I really think that the larger a man is, the less he thinks he has to "try".
I had this problem with the only IRL lover I had. He was big compared to men I've seen on cam, but he didn't seem to know how a womens body works, even though he was significantly older than me. Granted, I was on one, and then two medications that have the potential to affect you sexually as a side effect, but there are ways to deal with that with artificial lubrication. He didn't even seem to know how to put that on me very well.
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My wife had a long term affair with a guy who she claims had an 11" er. She kept throwing it up to mw that his was almost twice as long as mine. So why has she stayed with me for 46 years? Must be the security.
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I have often wondered what one of those huge Afro American guys with huge monster cocks would feel like. I have never been attracted to huge cocks after I took on a 10 inch one a few years ago and he pounded my cervix and I was sore for days. The ego was a bit overwhelming as well and I was not impressed by him or his cock.
Now I am more than happy with my regular 7 and 8 inch ones I enjoy often. Thickness is preferable to length for me. I dont deep throat as I gag, so length is not a consuideration for oral. I have only refused uncircumcised ones that are dirty and smelly.
Now I am more than happy with my regular 7 and 8 inch ones I enjoy often. Thickness is preferable to length for me. I dont deep throat as I gag, so length is not a consuideration for oral. I have only refused uncircumcised ones that are dirty and smelly.
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Have you ever said no or offered to do something else because his size?
a little over10 inches. yes size matters. a cock that big doesn't fit in your mouth very well so is hard to suck. 6 to 7 inches are easier, and therefore more fun to suck.
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The guy told me his cock was 8" and i had no reason to doubt him. He was not that good in bed, his cock was difficult to suck and he turned out to be a bigger dick than his member. However, it did feel pretty full in me. I have to agree with Bethany F ( except for the anal part as I have no experience there). I thin 7 is pleanty for all around use ;). I think under 5 is less than perfect for sex
Size does matter in most cases. Largest I have had in my pussy was 8.5" no way his girth of over 2" was going to fit in my ass. Largest I tried was 10" and 2.5" thick. I knew if it doesn't fit in my pussy or mouth its not going to fit in my ass for sure. I like it deep and I like being filled so anything smaller then 6" and under 1.25" thick does nothing for me except orally.
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Have you ever said no or offered to do something else because his size?
a little over 10 inches...& yes size mattered...it was too big to suck properly...in the case of oral...smaller is better.
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hard to say because i don't really stop to measure (and i don't trust what guys say about it - they always exaggerate). comparing to other guys (and my toys), i'd say the biggest guy was a good 9", maybe even 10". while i won't say that size doesn't matter, i will say that it's not everything, and guys put way too much stock into it. not only do you also have to consider girth, but skill as well. and skill has many different facets to consider. there's so much more than just how long your cock is!
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-Kristen
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My husband - he's a bit bigger in length and girth as one of those 1893 soda cans. Which, btw, is a fabulous soda. Sex was a bit challenging at first but I got used to him, anal sex actually gets me off but I'm not too sure that anal sex with a smaller guy ever could (never did before my husband - not enough filling friction). Deepthroat was a skill that took me years to master - and of course he was more than happy to be a valiant, patient participant in all my learning exercises.
Does size matter? For me - absolutely. Only, I didn't realize how much it mattered until I was with him AND until I was fully able to do everything with him that I could do with others in my past.
Does it matter to him? In the past, before me, I gather it was a serious negative for his ex wife and ex girlfriends.
Does size matter? For me - absolutely. Only, I didn't realize how much it mattered until I was with him AND until I was fully able to do everything with him that I could do with others in my past.
Does it matter to him? In the past, before me, I gather it was a serious negative for his ex wife and ex girlfriends.
My wife Has been with several black men that were between 10 to 12 inches in length and 3 to 4 in girth but the largest cock to be buried inside her pussy only was Our fuck buddy for about a dozen years and she measured it several different times he was bit over 13 inches in length and just shy of 5 inches in girth and he said she was the first to take it all. It took him several weeks to get her broke in but she got to where she could sit down on him balls deep without no problem. Watching them fuck was better than anything I ever saw on a porn flick.