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What traits in a man will motivate a woman to pursue a romantic relationship with him?

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Ok! So we often hear the 'nice guys finish last', so in order of importance list the traits that you think are important.
in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.
Good looking
Smart
Good sense of humour
Confident
Sporty
Mentally and emotionally capable
Dependable
Trustworthy
Socially apt
A man who can make me feel safe
Good with money
A man that can become a family man and be good with kids
A man that can put up shelves is also handy
Open jars, catch spiders, take rubbish out ect
Couldn't concerntrate on this as I seem to have little attention span thismorning
Sorry, I really did try!! You get the jist anyway smile
Don't be fooled by these ^ answers guys.

everyone knows it's:

Looks
Humor
Power
Money

In that order.
Not for me Felix! Don't give a toss about money or power!

Looks are in the eye of the beholder. But intelligence and humour are absolutely essential. I can sort out spiders on my own, but compassion, integrity and kindness go an awful long way too!

And mutual sexual chemistry is pretty damned important....
Before I make my list I would just like to say that I don't think nice guys finish last. Guys who lack confidence finish last. I think a lack of confidence is the biggest turn off for me.

Intelligence
Sense of self
Manners
Confidence
Sense of Humor
Articulate
Compassion
Kindness
Healthy
Strength
Active
sexiness
Looks

I think I got everything, that was very hard
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Before I make my list I would just like to say that I don't think nice guys finish last. Guys who lack confidence finish last. I think a lack of confidence is the biggest turn off for me.

Intelligence
Sense of self
Honesty
Manners
Confidence
Sense of Humor
Articulate
Compassion
Kindness
Healthy
Strength
Active
sexiness
Looks

I think I got everything, that was very hard
lack of unibrow
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lack of unibrow


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Okay also no third nipple and snaggle teeth. either.
Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all

EDIT: Obviously I'm kidding - although, it does help if a man knows what to do with it...

Sense of humour

Physique

Nice eyes

Nice smile

Caring

Kindness

COmpassion

Ability to express emotion

Just a few...
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Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all


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Confident
Intelligent
Sense of humor
Looks (attraction)
Considerate
Thoughtful
Strength
Kind
Sarcastic
Witty
Sense of humor. Has good, positive, people around him. Genuine and has confidence even if not the guy most women go for at first. Sweet but still a guys guy and someone who just enjoys their life. Men who have this, get better looking in every way. Hot! Totally hot!!! oh, and of course make the girl/woman a priority. Let them no you are thinking about them... NO GAMES!!!!
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Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all

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For me it's:

Loyalty
Intelligence
A quick wit and the ability to laugh at himself
Sexually compatible
Kind
Spontaneous
Affectionate
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in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.


Citizenship? Never heard that one before...some of you gals have a pretty big list here...

Not like if you ask guys what they look for in a woman...

It's usually something like..."two legs"..."pulse"...

And some of us are even a little flexible there...

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Money
Looks
Ambition and success
Ability to travel the world
Intellectuality
Loves cute animals
Kinky
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in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.


Citizenship? Never heard that one before...some of you gals have a pretty big list here...


I know sounds odd, but I value someone who makes a positive impact in their community. i want someone who is concerned about others and whom is giving. Someone with morals whom is not afraid of a little hard work for the betterment of others.
For me personally
He must be honest.
Faithful.
An alpha male.
Compassionate.
Intelligent.
Romantic but not in an overbearing way.
He must be a good hugger.
A good kisser.
Empathetic.
Stable.
Strong willed.
Protective.
Oh and being cute doesn't hurt either =)
since were talking about pursuing a romantic relationship, the traits that I would look for would be:

straightforward
honest
intelligent
career-driven
motivated
passionate
caring
respectable
fun
someone I'm comfortable talking to about everything
loves pets, especially cats
open minded

She's mad, but she's magic. There's no lie in her fire. ~ Charles Bukowski