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What made you try Anal?

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Luv to try but partner doesn't even like me near her ass. She thinks its disgusting and dirty.
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Pain in the ass that's my opinion....I have never tried it 'cause I'm a guy!
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Being comfortable with the person.
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me and my bf at the time wer in bed watching porn and it was a hot anal scene i sugested we try it we had fun....
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Honestly, I was drunk and he had a small penis. It was his first time, too.
Drink. Smoke. Fuck. Live!
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Quote by steelballz04
Pain in the ass that's my opinion....I have never tried it 'cause I'm a guy!


I am surprised at the number of girls I meet who say this is so... a really painful experience.. leading to the "I'll never do THAT again!" syndrome...
I was lucky ... I never new it was happening.. oh I knew what it was of course but it never crossed my mind that she was preparing me for it ... I was much much younger than her and it started as a simple rubbing of my rear entrance during foreplay.. then with lube it became the first finger insertion.. then as part of our love making a small toy very well lubed .. several times with that and then that small toy became a bigger toy and in its turn that bigger toy became an even bigger toy... and so I earned my first butt plug... which she had me carry while I was with her.. and then one night came my first strapon anal experience..
There were times when it felt uncomfortable for a little while but she was loving and caring and never hurt me more than a little and momentarily .. pace and penetration she was careful of..
Preparation, lubrication and working together are the key elements I believe for anal play..
I have a friend Mary whose bf decided he wanted it whilst they were playing doggie style.. she was in no way prepared.. she tried to describe the pain to us.. pain I had not known ...... she said she bled for a week after..
From the first time I was caressed there.. to the strapon ...was all of three months... and now I enjoy it... nothing will ever convince Mary of the pleasure she is missing..
When I listen to the guys in the chat rooms discussing it .. I always think of Mary..
I hope one day Mary finds someone who actually knows HOW to do it... but I fear he will have a hard time convincing her as to just what she is missing out on.. I never could.. sad
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After my first divorce, I started dating a guy who I enjoyed very much and who was an expert lover. He suggested it to me one night while we were playing and at first I was hesitant as I'd heard horror stories from some of my girlfriends about anal sex and how painful it was. But, I also knew that my lover was very talented and very caring as well. He assured me that I'd enjoy it, that most men didn't have a clue as to what they were doing and with that, I let him begin to play with my bottom, understanding that if I said no, that would end it. Well, I had a FANTASTIC experience with him! And, in the process, I found that anal could be verrrry enjoyable. From that point on I've been willing to let guys fuck me up the ass, but with me first telling them what and how they needed to go about it. For those who have listened and done it right, they've gotten back in my bottom more than once. For the others, it was a hasty ''cya''.
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Curiosity and porn
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My wife wanted me to do it, so that's why I did it. She liked it very much, but I did it cause she liked it tho, It was tight for me as I had a bigger cock then average I guess, when she started fucking my friend he like fucking her ass so she loved fucking him and I would fuck her cunt and him in her ass, so every one was happy.
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It was a slippery session........and it slipped in !
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Honestly?

Besides my mouth it's the only hole I have capable of being fucked.
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I wanted to try it as I was curious and liked the other forms of anal play so it was natural progression within a week! Lube and relaxed muscle allowed an enjoyable first experience.

As advice, try reverse cowgirl with you lowering down-allows easier penetration and you are in control. Also push against the item-be it cock/dildo/finger and you open up to take it in. I didn't find my anal cherry painful but if you aren't relaxed then yes it can hurt like heck-cherry or not- and may put you off.

Also, try a toy first to get used to the size-approximate anyhow!
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i was not given a choice, he flipped me over and started fucking me in my ass without asking, it hurt at first and i tried to stop him but then it started to feel good, really good, that was one of my best orgasms ever and have loved it ever since
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three times now...I love it, but need the right lover., plenty lube. Can be the nost amazing experience, or your worst.
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My bf had been asking me to do it. Some of my gfs had done it with mixed reviews, but one friend claimed she really liked it which got me more curious. So one night at a party, I was nice and drunk and... I gave my bf my ass...it hurt, but I didn't feel much...haha...have had it quite a few times since...feels good and different. Cock in my pussy is still my fav though smile
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During a 3some my then bf as fingering the other girl's butt and I wanted a go . He wasn't so keen when I said later if he gives then he should at least try to take once (needless to say he is now a very ex bf)
In my opinion girls are better at ass play because we take time and are much more gentle .
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High school boyfriend talked me into it. I was petrified. It was wrong but felt good at the same time. Only did it the one time with him and then only with two other guys. Prefer the old fashioned way but do like some minor ass play.

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My ex always wanted to try it so on our wedding night I let him and have enjoyed it ever since
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Quote by janet34
My ex always wanted to try it so on our wedding night I let him and have enjoyed it ever since

Good to here you were willing to try something new, and loved it. If only more ppl would do the same( both men and women)
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Have not ever tried it, but with the right person I would probaly try it.
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I'll tell you for my girl it was for that fact that she was at that time where she was having her girly issues. She wanted to fuck so she was like put it in my ass. One odd thing though when I was done the first thing she said to me was that didn't hurt as much as I thought it would. And somehow she cums more when I am in her ass than in her pussy. Don't ask my how that is possible. I don't even understant that. I just go with it. So tell her that your buddy vines said she'll love it.
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I was dating a girl and she introduced to anal sex with her, only natural for her to finger and younger my ass as I did hers. One thing led to another and I loved the feel of something playing or being put into my ass. That was over 30 years ago and I'm still kind of anal.....
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Well, as a bi guy I have to say My first anal experience was when a guy laid me down on his bed, got on top, and took my hard cock into his ass. He so enjoyed it, I later tried it, both on my wife and giving and receiving with other men. With proper preparation only minor discomfort at most and extreme pleasure in both giving (either sex) or receiving. The best experience was with another guy and his girlfriend - double penetration of her by us.
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More curiosity then anything.....Id masturbated and included anal for a while....then got a lil more brave.
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Never really thought about it until while I was fucking my ex boyfriend and he started talking dirty and told me he wanted to fill my ass and the way he said it drove me wild. As soon as he started fucking my ass I felt an almighty orgasm building and that when I came I was hooked.
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Maybe its just me but ive always loved anal, that ship sailed about a week week after the first one. With a different guy. Damn I'm slutty.... Anyway ive loved anal for all five years of my sex life!
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It was that time of the month and I refused to have sex. My bf at the time always like playing with my ass so suggested we try it with his cock instead of his fingers. It was a bit uncomfortable to start with but not really painful. I loved it and after the first time it became a regular part of our sex life.
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It was really something as simple as he wanted to do it and I was still pretty inexperienced and wanted to please him. I am lucky in that he was gentle and caring so it has made me love it ever since.
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An experiment with my brush with my Navy bf. (that was obviously tossed shortly after).

I don't think that lead to anal with him.

Then I did once with another boyfriend.

Got more comfy with a very hot guy I met off a national chat line who lived north of me.

We would do that and a lot more.
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My Dom really wanted it and I wanted to please him...so we dipped into slowly...now we're both pros at it heh
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